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May you all have a Happy Father’s Day

May you all have a Happy Father’s Day. Series: The Importance of... The Importance Of Fathers Being Important. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Some statistics about the lack of fathers. The Importance of Fathers Being Important

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May you all have a Happy Father’s Day

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  1. May you all have a Happy Father’s Day

  2. Series: The Importance of... The Importance Of Fathers Being Important

  3. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Some statistics about the lack of fathers

  4. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Over one third of the children in the United States do not have a father who lives in the household? Of those children, one in five have not seen their father in over five years. Statistics indicate that children from fatherless homes tend to have higher drop out rates, be more likely to engage in substance abuse, have poorer health, experience behavioral problems and live in poverty.

  5. The Importance of Fathers Being Important A myriad of maladies. Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse, mental illness, suicide, poor educational performance, teen pregnancy, and criminality. Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Center for Health Statistics, Survey on Child Health, Washington, DC, 1993. Drug Use: "...the absence of the father in the home affects significantly the behavior of adolescents and results in the greater use of alcohol and marijuana." Source: Deane Scott Berman, "Risk Factors Leading to Adolescent Substance Abuse," Adolescence 30 (1995)

  6. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Psychiatric Problems. In 1988, a study of preschool children admitted to New Orleans hospitals as psychiatric patients over a 34-month period found that nearly 80 percent came from fatherless homes. Source: Jack Block, et al. "Parental Functioning and the Home Environment in Families of Divorce," Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 27 (1988) Fatherly influence. Children with fathers at home tend to do better in school, are less prone to depression and are more successful in relationships. Children from one-parent families achieve less and get into trouble more than children from two parent families.

  7. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Violent rejection: Kids who exhibited violent behavior at school were 11 times as likely not to live with their fathers and six times as likely to have parents who were not married. Boys from families with absent fathers are at higher risk for violent behavior than boys from intact families. Source: J.L. Sheline (et al.), "Risk Factors...", American Journal of Public Health, No. 84. 1994. Dadless years: About 40 percent of the kids living in fatherless homeshaven't seen their dads in a year or more. Of the rest, only one in five sleeps even one night a month at the father's home. And only one in six sees their father once or more per week. Source: F. Furstenberg, A. Cherlin, Divided Families. Harvard Univ. Press. 1991.

  8. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Commercial breaks: The amount of time a father spends with his child -- one-on-one -- averages less than 10 minutes a day. Source: J. P. Robinson, et al., "The Rhythm of Everyday Life." Westview Press. 1988 Who are you, mister? In 1965, parents on average spent approximately 30 hours a week with their kids. By 1985, the amount of time had fallen to 17 hours. Source: William Mattox, "The Parent Trap." Policy Review. Winter,

  9. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Father's Day Statistics 1) 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census] 2) 90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census] 3) 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behaviour, Vol 14, pp. 403-26, 1978] 4) 71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999] 5) 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census] 6) 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]

  10. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Father's Day Statistics 7) 90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28] 8) 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools] 9) 75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows f for all God’s Children] 10) 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [US Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988] 11) 85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]

  11. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Father's Day Statistics 12) Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [US D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]

  12. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Infamous Fatherless People • BILLY THE KID SADDAM HUSSEIN • SIRHAN SIRHAN ADOLPH HITLER • JACK THE RIPPER LEE HARVEY OSWALD • JOHN WILKES BOOTH JEFFREY DAHMER • ROBERT GRAYSMITH (ZODIAC SERIAL KILLER) • MARC LEPINE (MASS MURDERER OF 14) • CHARLES MANSON (CULT LEADER) • "MONSTER" CODY (L.A. CRIPS GANGLORD)

  13. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Provisions to sustain life

  14. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Provisions to sustain life • Duty to provide for our children

  15. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Provisions to sustain life • Duty to provide for our children • Duty to provide for our family • 1 Timothy 5:8(KJV) 8But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. • Infidel = unbeliever

  16. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Provisions to sustain life • Duty to provide for our children • Duty to provide for our family • 2 Thessalonians 3:10(KJV) 10For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat.

  17. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Protection of life and limb

  18. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Protection of life and limb • Shared role with mother

  19. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Protection of life and limb • Shared role with mother • Family generally looks to father to warn, lead and protect

  20. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Protection of life and limb • Shared role with mother • Family generally looks to father to warn, lead and protect • Lead role because of nature and plan • Mark 5:23(NKJV) 23and begged Him earnestly, saying, “My little daughter lies at the point of death. Come and lay Your hands on her, that she may be healed, and she will live.”

  21. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Children’s need will motivate even dads

  22. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Principles of everyday life

  23. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Principles of everyday life • Honesty and above reproach • Ephesians 5:25(KJV) 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

  24. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Principles of everyday life • Fairness

  25. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Principles of everyday life • Correction • Proverbs 19:18(KJV) 18Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.

  26. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Principles of everyday life • Following God • 1 Kings 9:4-7(NKJV) 4Now if you walk before Me as your father David walked, in integrity of heart and in uprightness, to do according to all that I have commanded you, and if you keep My statutes and My judgments, 5then I will establish the throne of your kingdom over Israel forever, as I promised David your father, saying, ‘You shall not fail to have a man on the throne of Israel.’

  27. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Principles of everyday life • Following God • 6But if you or your sons at all turn from following Me, and do not keep My commandments and My statutes which I have set before you, but go and serve other gods and worship them, 7then I will cut off Israel from the land which I have given them; and this house which I have consecrated for My name I will cast out of My sight. Israel will be a proverb and a byword among all peoples.

  28. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Promoter for a successful life

  29. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Promoter for a successful life • Encouragement, • encouragement, • encouragement • Ephesians 6:4(KJV) 4And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

  30. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Promoter for a successful life • Time, time, time • Proverbs 17:6(KJV) 6Children’s children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.

  31. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Promoter for a successful life • Relationship, relationship, relationship • Deuteronomy 4:9(NKJV) 9Only take heed to yourself, and diligently keep yourself, lest you forget the things your eyes have seen, and lest they depart from your heart all the days of your life. And teach them to your children and your grandchildren,

  32. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Promoter for a successful life • Forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness • Not only model God’s forgiveness – teach it

  33. The Importance of Fathers Being Important Luke 15:20-24(KJV) 20And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. 21And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. 22But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet: 23And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry: 24For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.

  34. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Preparation for a godly life • Early • Proverbs 22:6(KJV) 6Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. • Isaiah 28:9(NKJV) 9 “Whom will he teach knowledge? And whom will he make to understand the message? Those just weaned from milk? Those just drawn from the breasts?

  35. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Preparation for a godly life • Early • Timothy 3:15(KJV) 15And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. • Proverbs 8:17(KJV) 17I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.

  36. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Preparation for a godly life • Example • 2 Timothy 1:5(NKJV) 5when I call to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am persuaded is in you also.

  37. The Importance of Fathers Being Important • Preparation for a godly life • Together (in worship) • 2 Chronicles 20:13(KJV) 13And all Judah stood before the LORD, with their little ones, their wives, and their children.

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