What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it?

1. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY

2. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY • Speaking and acting in accordance with the truth • Keeping every promise we make • Integrity = words and actions are consistent with values and principles • Dishonesty • deceiving, misleading, misrepresenting the truth • Hypocrisy • pretending to be something/someone we are not

3. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY Integrity Candor vs. Courtesy A Life of Integrity Rev. Billy Graham _ Unexpected Candor

4. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY HONEST Trust Authenticity Commitment DISHONEST Betrayal Emotional injury Termination

5. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY From Dr. Paul Ekman Verbal deception cues curt replies hesitation during speech speech errors more “allness” terms defensiveness Nonverbal deception cues less smiling higher voice pitch blinking and pupil dilation nervous self-touching

6. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY It’s sometimes easy to lie • To get out of trouble • To look good to others • To avoid facing our failure • To protect somebody’s feelings

7. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY Be honest with yourself Admit past failures in honesty or integrity Make reparations if appropriate Choose honest friends We become like the people we spend time with Hold your friends accountable Use good communication skills Relate the truth in a way that is socially acceptable