"Magic of Making Up Course Review" Perceived Value Is Everything In A Relationship. Who wants what they already have? I mean, really think about that.
Of course, that question goes far beyond male-female relationships. If somebody
were to take the internet away from you, TV and other forms of passive
entertainment, you would go nuts! I sure as heck would.
You take them completely for granted. But, if you knew in advance that you were
on the verge of losing them, you would place a heck of a lot more value on those
things. In fact, you would take steps toward keeping them.
So what does this have to do with relationships? Everything. The key to keeping
any man interested, attracted and putting effort into you is to never let him believe
he completely has you, no matter what.
Kind of like when you put a string in front of a cat and let it run around endlessly
chasing after it. Then, when you lay the string down, the cat no longer wants it.
Yes, I can be cruel and I have done this before. :)
You can be loving and you can be caring - but you can never let your man believe
that you are the metaphorical string laying on the floor. Valueless.
Getting your man back, requires you to (in a sense) give him the same feelings you
are experiencing now. You want him to feel rejected by you.
We’ll get into that later…
The Casual Friend vs. Relationship Material
I hear women jokingly say “Oh, men only want one thing” all the time and it really
bothers me when I hear it. It only goes to demonstrate that the women perpetuating
this myth are out of touch with male sexuality.
Let me get one thing straight: yes, men are more fixated on the physical aspect of a
woman, to a certain extent. This is genetic and there is no changing it. However, it
is absolutely not the only thing a man wants out of a relationship. Far from it.
As I mentioned earlier, men do not need a connection to have sex with a woman.
It’s just that physical attraction is the first thing triggered. Men only want sex from
a woman in which he considers “casual”. A woman that can trigger his inner
“Protector Response” will get his connection, love and affection. Women typically
reserve their emotional connection for their children, while men reserve it for a
woman they are compelled to protect.
What category you are put in depends on what behaviors you allow him to get
away with. And don’t think that just because you were once in the “relationship”
category, you’re going to be there forever. A man can very quickly put you in the
casual category and you will stay there indefinitely, until a woman comes along
that leads him into putting her in the “relationship” category.
Men do this on a subconscious level. They are not aware of these categories unless
you point them out to him. If he’s being honest, he will admit it once thinking