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Communication. PIXAR – One Man Band. ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION . Listening , TWO-WAY communication. Congruent body language. ASSERTIVENESS : saying what you think and feel in a POLITE, constructive way. Using effective communication to get what you want.
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Communication PIXAR – One Man Band
ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION • Listening, TWO-WAY communication. • Congruent body language. • ASSERTIVENESS: saying what you think and feel in a POLITE, constructive way. Using effective communication to get what you want. • Use “I” statements, “When you , I feel _______________“. Then assertively ask for what you want. • Appropriate SELF-DISCLOSURE - share personal thoughts and feelings.
The two most essential elements of any good relationship: • COMMUNICATION • TRUST
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Big and Rich - I Wanna Talk About Me • We talk about your work, how your boss is a jerkWe talk about your Church and your head when it hurtsWe talk about the troubles you've been having with your brotherAbout your daddy and your mother and your crazy ex loverWe talk about your friends and the places that you've beenWe talk about your skin and the dimples on your chinThe polish on your toes and the run in your hoseAnd God knows we're gonna talk about your clothesYou know talking about you makes me smileBut every once in a whileI wanna talk about meWanna talk about IWanna talk about number one • Oh my, me, mineWhat I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I seeI like talking about you, you, you, you, usually but occasionallyI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about meWe talk about your dreams and we talk about your schemesYour high school team and your moisturizer cremeWe talk about your nanna up in Muncie, IndianaWe talk about your grandma down in AlabamaWe talk about your guys of every shape and sizeThe one's that you despise and the one's you idolizeWe talk about your heart, about your brains and your smartsAnd your medical charts and when you start
Oh, me You know talking about you makes me grinBut every now and thenI wanna talk about meWanna talk about IWanna talk about number oneOh my, me, mineWhat I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I seeI like talking about you, you, you, you, usually, but occasionallyI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about me Me, me, me, me, meI wanna talk about meMe, me, me, me, meYou, you, you, you you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, youI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about meWanna talk about IWanna talk about number oneOh my, me, mineWhat I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I seeI like talking about you, you, you, you, usually, but occasionallyI wanna talk about meI wanna talk about me
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