Authentic Manhood. Winning at Work & Home. Session 3:. Engaging “Your Woman” Successfully. “Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way .” 1 Peter 3:7. Long Standing Wisdom. A. This “way” is not natural for men.
Winning at Work & Home
Engaging “Your Woman”
A. This “way” is not natural
B. This “way” is not just head
“Men, win with your woman through wise actions supported by proven insight.”
1 Peter 3:7
A. He’s the man who knows his
woman’s key needs and is actively
engaged in meeting them.
B. He’s the man who knows his
woman’s personality and wisely
adjusts to it.
C. He’s the man who knows his
woman’s love language and
speaks it often.
Making initial contact with people
Creating enthusiasm and excitement
Encouraging and uplifting others
Insuring the group has fun
Outgoing and engaging
Fun and adventure
Motivating people to action
Giving quick and clear instruction
Getting it done
Authoritative and convincing
Action and excitement
Staying calm and functional
Not over-reacting to a negative situation
Making sure the group is relaxed and
Rest and quiet time
Planning and explaining the details
Doing it right
Sensitive to the needs of others
Good with numbers, charts, graphs, etc.
Accurate and sincere
Order and understanding
1. A person’s personality can grow and
mature, but it’s not going to change.
2. Honestly embracing your woman’s
personality and appreciating it is
essential for a long term, love
3. Marrying this personality says
something deep about you as a man:
opposites usually attract to balance,
refine, and mature one another.
• Words of Affirmation
• Quality Time
• Receiving Gifts
• Acts of Service
• Physical Touch
1. You like to express love this way
to your mate.
2. You ask for this love from your
3. You are deeply hurt when your
mate gives you the opposite of
1. Talk it out with her.
2. Get specific applications