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The Quest for Authentic Manhood. A Man and His Wife, Part 2 Session 20. Sense of Direction Nuclei. FEMALE BRAIN. Need for Commitment Hemisphere. Ice Cream Receptor. Jealousy. Irrational Thoughts. 1 2 3. Choc. Center. Argue & Debate Lobe. 1 - Phone Skills

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the quest for authentic manhood

The Quest for Authentic Manhood

A Man and His Wife,

Part 2

Session 20

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Sense of

Direction Nuclei

FEMALE

BRAIN

Need for

Commitment

Hemisphere

Ice

Cream

Receptor

Jealousy

Irrational

Thoughts

1 2 3

Choc.

Center

Argue &

Debate Lobe

1 - Phone Skills

2 - Shopping

3 - Indecision

Sex Particle

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Commitment

Molecule

C.F. Lobe

Stick

Shift

Lame

Excuses

Gland

Sports

MALE

BRAIN

SEX

R.C.

Addiction

Center

Math

TV

Interrupt Lobe

Listening Particle

Personal Hygiene Atom

Short Attention

Span Fragment

“Ask for Directions”

Resistance Center

our key verse
OUR KEY VERSE …

You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow-heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

1 Peter 3:7 (NASV)

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OUR KEY VERSE …

You husbands must be careful of your wives, being thoughtful of their needs and honoring them … Remember that you and your wife are partners in receiving God’s blessings, and if you don’t treat her as you should, your prayers will not get ready answers.

1 Peter 3:7 (Living Bible)

3 models of marriage
3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE
  • The Top-Down Traditional / LORD
  • 50-50 Identical/ PARTNER
  • 3. Side-by-Side Biblical / HEAD
core issues
CORE ISSUES …

“CORE”A small but essential ingredient that every marriage must not ignore, neglect, or compromise if it is to be successful overall.

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CORE ISSUES …
  • Core Roles …That God gives a husband and wife in marriage
core roles
CORE ROLES

Wife

Husband

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CORE ROLES

Wife

Husband

HELPER

proverbs 31 10 12 27 29
Proverbs 31:10-12, 27-29

An excellent wife, who can find? Her worth is far above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and bless her; her husband also, and he praises her, saying, “Many daughters have done nobly, but you excel them all.”

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CORE ROLES

Wife

Husband

HELPER

HEAD

ephesians 5 23
Ephesians 5:23

For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.

core issues2
CORE ISSUES …
  • Core Roles …That God gives a husband and wife in marriage
  • Core Responses … That empower your mate’s role
core responses
CORE RESPONSES

Honor & Praise

Wife

Husband

1 peter 3 7
1 Peter 3:7

You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow-heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

proverbs 31 28b 29
Proverbs 31:28b-29

Her husband praises her, saying, “Many daughters have done nobly, but you excel them all.”

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CORE RESPONSES

Honor & Praise

Wife

Husband

Submission

colossians 3 18
Colossians 3:18

Wives, be subject to your husbands as is fitting in the Lord.

core issues3
CORE ISSUES …
  • Core Roles …That God gives a husband and wife in marriage
  • Core Responses … That empower your mate’s role
  • Core Concerns … That meet your mate’s deepest needs
core concerns
CORE CONCERNS

Honor & Praise

Companionship

Admiration

Support

Physical Responsiveness

Wife

Husband

Companionship

Security

Significance

Emotional Responsiveness

HELPER

HEAD

Submission

companionship
COMPANIONSHIP

MUST DO

Regularly “date” your wife (and talk about your world and hers).

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COMPANIONSHIP

CAN DO

Develop a common “play together.” The couple that plays together, stays together.

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COMPANIONSHIP

COURAGE TO DO

Plan a special “just for you two” getaway. It will build great memories, strengthen your relationship, and encourage romance.

security
SECURITY

MUST DO

From time to time, tell your wife, “I am committed to you for life!” Your wedding anniversary is a good time to say this or put it in writing.

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Life insurance

  • A savings plan
  • A health plan
  • A well thought through will
SECURITY

CAN DO

Establish financial disciplines. Avoid debt as much as possible. Develop a long-range security plan for your wife that includes:

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SECURITY

COURAGE TO DO

Seek to provide financially so that your wife doesn’t have to work, especially while raising young children.

significance
SIGNIFICANCE

MUST DO

Regularly tell your wife how much you value what she does and how important she is to you.

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SIGNIFICANCE

CAN DO

Surprise your wife with a “note of praise” (with flowers is even better!) or a special night out just to say “thank you” for all she does for you.

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SIGNIFICANCE

COURAGE TO DO

From time to time, lavish your wife with special gifts: jewelry, a surprise trip, money just to spend on her, etc. The costlier, the better.

how a husband speaks woman3
HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS “WOMAN”

EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS

emotional responsiveness
EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS

MUST DO

Regularly tell your wife (with a hug), “I love you.”

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EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS

CAN DO

Learn to say, “So, tell me how you’re doing” in a quiet place with time to listen.

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EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS

COURAGE TO DO

On special occasions, let your wife know why you love her, with spoken words, a card, or in a poem, etc. Spell out in detail all the things you admire and love about her. Be specific and romantic.

why side by side biblical
WHY…SIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?
  • It positions a man and a woman for what they naturally do best.
  • It organizes a man and a woman to complement each other rather than compete with each other.
  • It creates an environment that is best for the healthy development of children.
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WHY…SIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?
  • It becomes the ideal we can train our children from an early age to embrace.
  • It honors God’s Word and is blessedby Him.
  • It prospers and advances society as a whole.