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An Outline of Response Abilities Pathways. Some Key Concepts Young people depend on adults for emotional security. Pain and the Brain Experiences that trigger stress and trauma cause pain to register in the anterior cingulate cortex in the brain (Anglia; Dowman). Fighting Pain With Pain
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An Outline of Response Abilities Pathways
Some Key Concepts Young people depend on adults for emotional security.
Pain and the Brain Experiences that trigger stress and trauma cause pain to register in the anterior cingulate cortex in the brain (Anglia; Dowman)
Fighting Pain With Pain Most traditional approaches to discipline centre around the use of punishment.
Tit for Tat Emotional Reaction (ER) Cycles 2005 Circle of Courage emotion emotion reaction reaction Young person reacts With PAIN-BASED BEHAVIOUR Adult reacts With PAIN-BASED DISCIPLINE
We Need an Alternative Approach ‘…….look beyond my faults to find my needs’ Lyric by Joyce Reba Rambo
The Circle of Courage Generosity Independence Belonging Mastery
Disconnected Kids High Risk Behaviours of Young People With Weak Bonds to Adults
The First Stage of RAP - Connecting The human brain has programs that motivate us to connect to others. Young people connect to adults and peers who meet their needs. Respect Trust Empowerment Understanding
The Private Logic of Adult Wary Kids – Barriers to Connection
Bidding To Connect We need to recognise when kids make bids to connect with us.
The Second Stage of RAP - Clear Thinking From Risk to Resilience ChallengeLogicEmotions ActionsResults Challenge What event triggered the stress? Logic What thoughts came to mind? Emotions What feelings triggered action? Actions What coping strategy was used? Results What consequences followed?
BAMMS Thinking Errors Blaming Others always try to start fights with me. I’m worthless and don’t deserve to live. Assuming the Worst You can’t trust anybody – they always lie to you. No matter how hard I try, I always fail. Minimising and Mislabeling Everyone does it so what’s the big deal? So I slapped her around – she’s just a ho! Self-centred If I see something I like, it’s mine. Why should I care? I take care of myself.
Rescripting is a Key Scripts are terms or phrases designed to influence thinking. Done well, they have the power to alter private logic. A Sample Belonging Script It’s great to have you here. A Sample Mastery Script A great kid like you – I know you’re going to be able to handle it. A Sample Independence Script Seems to me you’re a person who likes to think for themselves. A Sample Generosity Script Thank you for helping out.
The Third Stage of RAP - Restoring With the Circle of Courage STRENGTHS PROBLEMS RESTORATIVE GOALS