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Romance

Chapters. Romance. What should I do? Mental States Emotional States Physical States Altered States Atmosphere Senses Sensual Putting the kink in it. What should I do?. Mental. A woman need to be mentally stimulated in order to acknowledge a man’s intention. Emotional.

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Romance

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  1. Chapters Romance What should I do? Mental States Emotional States Physical States Altered States Atmosphere Senses Sensual Putting the kink in it

  2. What should I do?

  3. Mental • A woman need to be mentally stimulated in order to acknowledge a man’s intention.

  4. Emotional • A woman wants to be emotionally stimulated.

  5. Physical • Sensual touch vs. sexual touch is an important distinction.

  6. Altered Stated

  7. Atmosphere • Creating a romantic atmosphere can be simple or complex, depending on the mood.

  8. Senses • Stimulation of the senses can enhance romance. • Smell • Tactile • Visual

  9. Sensual • Sensual touch vs. sexual touch can communicate romantic messages.

  10. Timing • Timing is important for romance

  11. Chapters Putting the kink in it - The Basics Negotiation Pleasure and pain Spankme Tie me up, tie me down Candles can be fun D and S Tools of the trade Fetish Wear Physiology Too Much?

  12. Negotiations • In a vanilla relationship there are a lot of power struggles. • During the “Scene” you must agree on who is “Dominant” and who is “Submissive”. • The “Safe Word” must be established. • The submissive drives the scene and can end it with a word.

  13. Communication is key • Communication is the key to any relationship. • Communication of your fantasy and interests must be mutual. • Communication of your fantasy and interests must be honest.

  14. Pleasure and Pain • Pleasure can be derived from some minor pain. • Remember that if you can’t laugh while you’re playing, its too rough.

  15. Spank me • Spanking is a fine art. • Warm up is necessary and desirable. • Spanking can be fun!

  16. Tie me up, Tie me down • Bondage can be fun! • Use smooth and sensual materials. • Silk Scarves • Smooth Rope Tie loosely, in a comfortable position, your partner should be able to “escape” with little effort.

  17. Candles can be fun • Pure paraffin candles – light colors • Use at height • Don’t light your partner on fire! • Wax is hot, messy and a wonderful sensation!

  18. D and S • D = Dominant • S = submissive • The Dom(me) sets the scene, plans for it and seduces the sub. • The sub drives the scene (see negotiation) and allows the Dom(me) to take control.

  19. Out of the bedroom • D and s is over when the scene is over. • The normal relationship resumes outside of the bedroom. • D and s is not to be abused, it is a mutual decision.

  20. Tools of the trade • There are many “tools” one can purchase on line for lots of money OR you can go to a hardware store and find plenty of “tools” • Cane • Clips • Tape • Paint stirring sticks • Smooth rope cut by the foot

  21. Fetish Wear • Fetish wear can be expensive, but is fun! Corsets Gloves Boots Heels Stockings

  22. Physiology

  23. Too Much?

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