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3. OVER VIEW OF THE PLOT: • Middle class couple Danish and Mehwish . • Co-owner of a giant firm Shehwaar Ahmad. • Difficulty to afford luxuries in life that Mehwish craves. • Mehwish leaves Danish and her son to spend life with Shehwaar.

4. Reasons behind massive popularity: • More men than women are watching the show: for the first time the viewers got to see what a man goes through when he is hurt and betrayed. Drama showed other side of picture. There do exist good men like Danish who let go on their wives on such mistakes.

5. 1.More Men than women are watching “Meray Pass Tum Ho” • The show flipped the usual Pakistani drama plot line by making the man the victim of infidelity. • The only distinguished feature of Meray Pass Tum Ho is that it flipped the table on who is the victim and who is the “villain”. • Meray Pass Tum Ho is the first drama serial in Pakistan in which it is the woman who has stepped out and sinned, making her husband the innocent victim.

6. 2. Danish has portrayed a husband that has become an ideal for Pakistani women: 2. Danish has portrayed a husband that has become an ideal for Pakistani women: Drama viewers has been pleasantly surprised to witness on screen very calm and cool reaction from a husband .Danish become an ideal for Pakistani women and made them ask “is he for real?”

7. 3.Success of the show • The show became one of the most popular serial of 2019 after airing in Pakistan. The show received best ever TV ratings becoming the best ranked drama in the history of Pakistan. • The success of the show owes much to the triumph of marketing. • Peculiar storyline, regressive dialogues, persuasive performance of additional characters and unexpected twists in episodes further inclined viewers’ interest in the show. • The Performances and Chemistry among the leading roles were praised by critics.

8. 4.Delayed finale episode • The final episode was a 'mega double episode'  • The viewers were eagerly waiting for the ending as well as different speculations were made regarding the last twist at the end of drama. • ARY Digital decided to make the experience of the Pakistani audience more exciting accordingly they came up with the idea to screen the Last Episode in all big cinemas in Karachi and other Big Cities in Pakistan.

9. 5.Women usually forgive their dis-loyal partners Women usually forgive their dis-loyal partners for a happily-ever-after scenario in such cases, somehow, fans don’t want Danish (Male leading role) to forgive Mehwish (Female leading role) and are eagerly waiting to witness her fate after betraying a loyal, loving and caring husband for the lure of material luxuries. 6.The show correctly targets cheating • MPTH portray the misogynistic attitude of over society as writer has put up the major burden of disloyalty upon women and make women responsible for the modesty.

10. 7.Drama received its fair share of criticism • Some of the dialogues in the TV serial and some of the later statements of Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar invited debate controversies from liberal and feminists in social media and mainstream media both. • A female writer (Ayesha Jahanzeb feels Pakistani women and women, in general, have never been represented the way they actually are in serials. She found both female characters shallow. Qamar’s women are flawed with tragic traits, whereas the men are very rounded characters. In reality, women handle situations very differently and not how Qamar has depicted them. • A petition was filed in a court to stop its screening as, according to the petitioner, the story was giving a bad impression of women. It was dismissed.

11. WOMAN FILES PETITION AGAINST ‘MERE PASS TUM HO’ LAST EPISODE RELEASE. • According to the petition, the show has passed derogatory comments about women and has disrespected their status. • Maham has moved Lahore’s civil court and filed a petition against the release of the last episode of popular drama serial ‘Mere Pass Tum Ho’. Petition has claimed that the drama has negatively portrayed women in the society. • The show has repeatedly passed derogatory comments about woman and has disrespected their status, said the women, identified as Mahamchaudhry. ‘’This is an attempt to show women as weak and less important in society’’, she stated in her petition.

12. WOMAN FILES PETITION AGAINST ‘MERE PASS TUM HO’ LAST EPISODE RELEASE. • Maham added that this does not benefit Pakistani women at all and has put negative impact on them, local media reported. • The result has been field by a name Maham through her lawyer, Advocate Majid Chauhdharay and the petition names PEMRA punjab FILM Censor Board, ARY Digital, Nadeem Baig (Humayum Saeed as respondents0 • Adding fuel to the flame, the show is written by Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar, who says he is a feminist. His remarks and take on feminism has already sparked outrage amongst women. For someone like his mindset to be at the helms of mere pass tum ho and writing such dialogues is trouble.

13. WOMAN FILES PETITION AGAINST ‘MERE PASS TUM HO’ LAST EPISODE RELEASE. • A local court on Friday rejected an application to stay the airing of final episode of television drama serial ‘’Mere Pass Tum Ho’’. • Civil Judge NailaAyub heard the application filed by the petitioner, Maham is a pending suit drama. • However, a counsel on behalf of production team opposed the request. He argued that as per law, the court did not jurisdiction for hearing the matter. He submitted that if the petitioner had any grievance then she should approach relative forum. • He submitted that all the episodes of the drama had been broadcast and now the last episode was going to be aired in cinemas on 25 Jan.

14. WOMAN FILES PETITION AGAINST ‘MERE PASS TUM HO’ LAST EPISODE RELEASE. • He submitted that the provincial censor board had also issued clearance certificate to the drama ,therefore, no case was made out. • He submitted that there was no element which show that the drama was inappropriate for the society. • Subsequently, the court dismissed application to stop the airing of final episode of the drama. • The court also adjourned the suit for 17 feb and sought written reply from the respondents.

15. Controversial Reasons Of Mery pass Tum Ho 1.Khalil ur Rehman Qamar’s Interview: Khalil ur Rehman Qamar’s interview with Yahsfah Butt about feminism added fuel to fire. Thoughts and ideas of Khalil ur Rehman about feminism and gender equality shocked the audience., Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar stated his view of women and said that if women are convinced of equality with men, then they too should be abused by men. His thinking angered feminist educators and they made a public declaration war on Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar on social media. After listening to the interview, “Mery Pass Tum Ho” became more controversial.

16. 2. BOLD SCENES : • Pakistani plays are family plays that are seen in every household. This one in particular contains bold scenes that raise certain questions, like being in a hotel room with a stranger or Mehwish living with Shahwar without marriage. The story of the play and its scenes are controversial.

17. 3: Play Dialogue And People’s Reaction To Them: 1.”Is do takaykilarkikeliyeapmujhe 50 million de rahethay”

18. 3: Play Dialogue And People’s Reaction To Them: • Mere Pass Tum Ho is also the most talked about drama on social media , which trends on twitter weekly which is why there are many opinions about it.  • Humayun Saeed’s dialogue in Mere Pas Tum Ho has become a viral meme After begging his wife to stay for so long, Danish finally lets her out of his life by calling her a Do Takkay Ki Larki.

19. 3: Play Dialogue And People’s Reaction To Them: • Most of the Mery Pas Tum Ho memes were from the last episode because Danish the lead character had died of heart attack and there was no happy ending. • Here is how fans expressed their feelings.

20. 3: Play Dialogue And People’s Reaction To Them: • 2.Shauhar biwikamujrim ho jaye to uskesathwaqtachaguzertahai” • 3. “Mohabbat is not a stock market, yahanaik bar bhaogirgya, bus girgya!” • 4. “Shirk to Khudabhimaufnahinkerta” • 5. “Mohabbat main 2 tarha k gunahgaarhotehain, aik jo bewafahotehain, aik • jo bewafaa’on k liay rote hain!” • 6. “Meri kamyaabikepeechaymera beta hai” • 7. “Tum itnikhoobsurat ho kedekh k rashkaatahai, aur tum itnibadsurat ho k tmharemunpethooknekadilkertahai”

21. 4: In Case Of Wife, The Cowardly Man Should Be Brave For His Son: • In the play, Danish is shown a man who tolerates his wife’s infidelity and leaves her with his beloved hands. But when the question comes to his son, his sleep deprivation awakens overnight. And he hits the Shahwar in his office and makes threats. Even so, people say that if he had this intention for his wife, it would have been better.

22. Attention towards old trope: • Adnan Siddique's comment: 1.Adnan Siddique said that Shehwar was like any man, looking out for a chance. 2.Blame lays with the female character for accepting offer of affair.

23. Attention towards old trope: 2. Social media tweets: A young man declare that if a man can maintain self control, because woman was not beautiful enough. 3. Problem was not judging Shehwars Character: Shehwar also broke his marriage. He was also guilty as Mehwish, yet no one calls him cheap or worthless .

24. Some Reasons for watching the show: • Dainish got angry on Shehwar not because of Mehwish ,but threaten to take away Rumi. • When Shehwar is drunk he warns Mehwish not to pray because “Allah don’t like a women who get a divorce”. • Shehwar’s wife Maham sends him to jail on charges of fraud. • Maham slaps Mehwish putting an end to belated nikkah between the couple, the slap was celebrated by social media as well.

25. 5.Divorce is a divorce: • After watching Khalil urRehman Dramas some people guess there should be attempt at Halala but Halala is distasteful and moreover, “Divorce is a divorce” so one should move on.

26. 5 Lessons We Learned From Mere Pass Tum Ho • Cheaters Never Win • Gratitude Is a Gift • Greed Is a Curse • Betrayal Affects Children The Most • Good People Get Rewarded

27. Cheaters Never Win • Mere Pass Tum Ho in a really impressive and entertaining way has shown that people who cheat never win. • Shehwar and Mehwish both cheated on their spouses • Mateen sahib’s story also proved just that. He also cheated on his wife thinking he was going to lead a happy life with the woman he married. • The writer gave two different examples of both the genders to show that cheaters never win

28. Gratitude Is a Gift • Mere Pass Tum Ho showed two different perspectives from married partners and we are pretty sure many people learned how important gratitude is in a relationship from it. • Same was the case with Mateen sahib too who only later on realized what he had lost.

29. Greed Is a Curse • Mehwish’s materialistic approach right from the beginning was the main characteristic of her personality. • Same is the case with Shehwar as we will learn as the story progresses. He has been involved in fraud to get hold of his wife’s wealth. • Danish who never valued materialistic things will be happy in the end.

30. Betrayal Affects Children The Most • When a spouse betrays and there are children involved then the children suffer more than anyone else. • Rumi had a close relationship with his mother but after she left not only was his personality shattered for a while but he grew totally distant from her. • Mehwish thought she could come get Rumi any time she wanted but the writer aptly showed that even if you are a mother, children are not going to love you unconditionally if you leave them.

31. Good People Get Rewarded • This is the best lesson! Watching Danish do well in his life lately has definitely proved that things will only get better for him. • Apart from that Danish has also been rewarded with the gift of having faith in himself, something which was completely missing before • Mateen sahib’s wife too lead a good life with a man who loved and valued her. While Mateen sahib died alone and sad, his wife had someone by her side who loved her.

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