DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE. Have I contributed to this problem ? In what way?. Have I extended the duration of the problem in some way? Have I talked to others about it without talking to the person. Have I treated this person differently than I would treat others? Less respect
In what way?
Have I talked to others about it without talking to the person
Have I decided not to forgive them?
Did I needlessly take a remark personally?
When the behavior changes?
When I’ve shared my concern or discomfort with this person?