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The Good-Enough Mother: After effects. Presented by Jessica Ferreira and Colette Spear. Overview. Object Relations What is object relations theory? Freud’s views Mahler’s process of separation individuation Piaget’s object permanence. Overview Cont. Donald Winnicott’s Theory

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the good enough mother after effects
The Good-Enough Mother:After effects

Presented by

Jessica Ferreira and Colette Spear

overview
Overview
  • Object Relations
    • What is object relations theory?
    • Freud’s views
    • Mahler’s process of separation individuation
    • Piaget’s object permanence
overview cont
Overview Cont.
  • Donald Winnicott’s Theory
    • Good-enough mother
    • Holding/facilitating environment
    • Subjective omnipotence
    • Transitional experience and objects
    • Objective reality
    • True and false self
  • After effects
    • Optimal development
    • Psychopathology and therapy
object relations theory
Object Relations Theory
  • What is Object Relations Theory?

Object relations theory is a psychoanalytic approach that explains:

    • human development,
    • behaviour,
    • psychopathology and
    • relationships

according to the affectionate attachments that children make in early life

object relations
Object Relations
  • Object:

particular people, or the targets of children’s affection,feelings or intentions

  • Relations:

relationships and interactions that take place between children and the significant people in their lives

object relations1
Object Relations
  • Internal Working Model of Attachment Relations:
    • Conscious and unconscious rules and mental representations
    • Guide behaviour with reference to attachment relationships and events
    • Expectations about patterns of relationships and interactions
    • Are able to change as the individual develops
object relations freud
Object Relations: Freud
  • Infant cannot discriminate between things in the environment: between person and object
  • This creates tension within the infant and frustration of the libido or life drive
  • The infant may experience signal anxiety (separation anxiety) when the object or mother is separated from the infant
  • Infant’s initial attachments and internal working model of relations develop as a result of the mother gratifying the infant’s needs and drives
object relations freud cont
Object Relations Freud Cont.
  • Infant will view the mother as being good or bad, depending on whether she successfully satisfies or frustrates the infant’s needs
  • Infant will gradually achieve a sense of object constancy
object relations mahler
Object Relations: Mahler
  • Process of Separation Individuation:
    • Symbiotic phase
    • Differentiation phase
    • Practicing phase
    • Rapprochement phase
    • Object constancy
object relations piaget
Object Relations: Piaget
  • Stages of Cognitive Development:
    • Sensorimotor stage
    • Preoperational stage
    • Concrete operational stage
    • Formal operational stage
  • Object Permanence:
    • The awareness or recognition that a physical object is permanent and continues to exist, even when the object is no longer visible
    • Example: Searching for a hidden toy
donald winnicott terms
Donald Winnicott: Terms
  • The ‘good-enough mother’
  • Holding (facilitating) environment
  • Transitional experience
  • State of maternal preoccupation
  • Subjective omnipotence
  • Objective reality
  • True Self
  • False Self
focus
Focus
  • The mother’s role in her child’s emotional development from a dependent infant into a ‘nearly’ independent adult
  • What makes a mother a good-enough mother?
stage 1 subjective omnipotence me
Stage 1: Subjective Omnipotence (Me)

Birth…

  • The infant is totally dependent on the mother to fulfill basic needs, e.g. food
  • Mother responds to infant without hesitation

At this stage the mother is in a ‘state of maternal preoccupation’

  • Baby cries when hungry  mother breast-feeds child
  • Baby cries when hungry  mother produces object (breast)
  • Baby cries when hungry  breast appears
  • Baby wishes for breast  breast appears

Baby believes itself to be magical : ‘subjective omnipotence’

subjective omnipotence cont
Subjective Omnipotence Cont.
  • The mother, or the mother’s breast = the object of the infant’s love
  • The infant perceives the object as part of the self

Selfobject/mother/breast

  • The infant cannot differentiate between the mother (or breast) and the self
  • This is a subjective phenomenon – an illusion of being-at-one with the object.
subjective omnipotence and the good enough mother
Subjective Omnipotence and the Good-Enough Mother

Within the context of the first stage, what is a ‘good-enough mother’?

  • A mother who is in a state of maternal preoccupation: creates the illusion of subjective omnipotence
  • A mother who intuitively knows when her baby is ready to move to the next stage
illusion disillusion
Illusion  Disillusion
  • The good-enough mother begins to distance herself from her child in response to her child’s growing need for independence.
  • The good-enough mother first provides the child with an illusion that a breast appears when wished for (omnipotence)
  • Then she creates the disillusion (removal of omnipotent thinking) that progressively introduces the child into the social world as a separate being.
object reality not me other than me
Object Reality (Not-Me/Other-Than-Me)

An awareness of the mother as an object separate from the self begins to form

Self object/mother/breast

The baby begins to realise:

  • There is a world outside of the self which does not respond to a wish (the dissolution of the subjective omnipotence)
  • The object of reality (outside world) sometimes responds negatively
  • The good-enough mother ensures that the child feels safe without being overprotective
final stage near independence
Final Stage:‘Near-’Independence

Self objects

Winnicott makes the important distinction between:

  • pure independence; and
  • ‘never absolute’ independence

Throughout life it’s necessary to both:

  • depend on others; and
  • be depended on

A psychologically healthy person is neither overdependent, nor isolated.

the transitional experience
The Transitional Experience
  • The mother allows for increasing time lapses between the child’s demands for attention or need gratification and her responses.

Refers to this as the mother’s ‘failure’

  • The child experiences both frustration at having to wait and a new found freedom within which to grow.
  • The good-enough mother will only ‘fail’ her child at a rate that the child is able to deal with.
coping with frustration
Coping with Frustration

In order to cope with the mother’s failure and the resulting frustration, the child will:

  • Recognise that the time lapses are limited
  • Become aware of a sense of progress
  • Develop mental activities which assists in deterring the child during times of frustration
  • Indulge in auto-erotic stimulation, for example thumb sucking
  • Experience memories, fantasies, dreams, and reliving previous experiences: the integration of the past, present, and future.
transitional experience
Transitional Experience

Subjective Objective Near

Omnipotence Reality Independence

  • The intermediate zone between stages = the transitional experience
  • The mother’s ability to provide a facilitating environment during this transition is essential
transitional object
Transitional Object

As the mother increases the distance between herself and her child the child may become anxious

A transitional object acts as a:

  • Psychological comforter
  • Psychological connection with the mother
  • A defense mechanism for fear and anxiety

during the mother’s absence.

The transition object is not a replacement

for the mother, but rather a representation

of the mother during her absence.

holding environment
Holding Environment
  • “Nothing takes place in emotional growth except in relation to the environmental provision, which must be good enough”
  • The good-enough mother provides a good-enough holding environment
holding environment cont
Holding Environment Cont.

An Analogy: The tale of the butterfly

Once upon a time a little girl came across a cocoon which was wriggling around as a butterfly began it’s entry into the world…

the holding environment cont
The Holding Environment cont.

Upon seeing this, the little girl decided to help the butterfly on it’s journey into the world and she plucked the cocoon from the bark of the tree and proceeded to open the cocoon herself to set the butterfly free…

  • The butterfly spread it’s wings…
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……..

………and promptly died.

The butterfly was not quite ready to experience the transition between stages. The holding environment was suddenly changed and the butterfly was not yet able to exist in the new, adapted, environment.

holding environment cont1
Holding Environment cont.
  • The mother adjusts the holding environment (distancing herself to create more freedom for her child to become an individual) only in accordance with her child’s capacity to cope
  • The good-enough mother:
    • follows her child’s cues
    • intuitively understands her child’s changing needs
    • adapting the holding environment accordingly – creating the ideal therapeutic environment
  • A continuity of care is essential in the holding environment for a child’s healthy development, i.e. the quality of care changes but the child knows the mother continues to care.
holding environment the good enough mother
Holding Environment: The Good-Enough Mother
  • The good-enough mother knows how to gradually increase the distance between herself and her child.
  • This process of differentiation cannot be sudden for the child will become insecure and untrusting if his, or her, feeling of control is shattered.
  • The good-enough mother is finely tuned to her child’s progression towards an independent self, moving at the child’s pace and not at her own.
the true self the false self
The True Self & the False Self

healthy true self

healthy false self unhealthy false self

pathology

THE TRUE SELF:

  • Within every infant a true self exists.
  • The true self is the self that behaves spontaneously, is built on integrity, and exists, that is, the true self is not created.
  • The good-mother facilitates the growth and expression of the child’s true self by allowing the child to be creative and spontaneous
the true self false self cont
The True Self & False Self cont.

THE FALSE SELF

  • The false self is a mask which an individual wears when complying with the social norms of society
  • The not-good-enough mother wears this mask when interacting with her child  her child, in response to the unnaturalness and unauthentic relationship with the mother, develops his or her own false self.
  • The child continues to develop new relationships as the false self, adapting to the demands of the environment with compliance.
true self false self
True Self & False Self

Healthy individual:

  • On average behaves in accordance with true self
  • When called upon to wear the false mask – still stays true to self
  • Future authentic relationships with others

Unhealthy Pathological Individual:

  • When wearing the false mask, continues to be false to himself or herself
  • Feels a sense of unreality, of not being alive and happy.
after effects
After Effects
  • Optimal Development:

Healthy development of an independent and responsible individual who is able to form and maintain warm, loving relationships with others as well as maintaining a healthy balance between the false and true self

after effects psychopathology
After Effects: Psychopathology
  • When the false self dominates over the true self and the individual is then unable to express him or herself in an authentic manner
  • Defence mechanisms that are used by the infant in order to cope with external demands may become maladaptive and pathological later in life
  • Splitting, introjection, projection
  • Emotionless, abusive, ineffective or inconsistent parenting can also lead to psychopathology
after effects therapy
After Effects: Therapy
  • Importance of genuine understanding and the personal relationship between therapist and child or adult
  • Winnicott’s squiggle game

Therapeutic Steps:

Step 1:

  • Assess the child or adult and build a

trusting relationship in order to

gain better insight

after effects therapy cont
After Effects: Therapy cont.

Step 2:

  • Identify the child or adult’s maladaptive relational patterns and problems and restructure them in a cognitive and affective manner

Step 3:

  • Encourage behavioural change to occur, with the therapist providing a secure platform for the child or adult to experiment and explore
conclusion
Conclusion
  • Object Relations Theories:
    • Focus on how relatedness and love form the motivation for human behaviour and attachment in relationships
    • Winnicott (2005): “a baby can be fed without love, but loveless or impersonal management cannot succeed in producing a new autonomous human being”
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FINALLY!!!

The End