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Sexuality and Chastity -the Church’s perspective. Sexuality as Divine Fire Life is a gift from God, and sexuality is a great power within life so that we might also create life. In Genesis, after God creates, he says “It is good; indeed, it is very good.”

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sexuality as divine fire
Sexuality as Divine Fire
  • Life is a gift from God, and sexuality is a great power within life so that we might also create life.
  • In Genesis, after God creates, he says “It is good; indeed, it is very good.”
  • Mature sexuality is when we co-create with God, break out of selfishness and feel as God feels when he looks at creation.
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Sexuality as Divine Fire
  • Sexuality - the centre of the spiritual life.
  • Healthy sexuality - leads to selflessness and joy.
  • Unhealthy sexuality - revolves around selfishness and unhappiness.
  • Happiness in life hinges on how healthy is our approach towards sexuality.
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Sexuality as Divine Fire
  • Spirituality helps us understand sexuality correctly.
  • The power of sexuality can be the most powerful force on the planet, for love, life and blessing.
  • Abuse of this can lead to death, hate and destruction
toward a christian understanding of sexuality
Toward a Christian Understanding of Sexuality
  • Sexuality as an Awareness of Having Been Cut Off
  • Sexuality versus Genitality
  • A Christian Definition of Sexuality
  • A Few Nonnegotiable Christian Principles
sexuality as an awareness of having been cut off
Sexuality as an Awareness of Having Been Cut Off
  • Latin root word of ‘sex’ is secare - ‘to cut off’ or ‘to sever’.
  • To be ‘sexed’ is to be cut off from the whole.
  • A cut off branch of a tree would know that if it wants to flower and fruit, it needs to reconnect itself to the tree.
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In our experience of life, we are also ‘cut off’ from the great whole in our existence.
  • In our craving for sex, we are actually craving for a re-connection.
  • Sex is a dimension of our very awareness.
  • .We sense that we are incomplete, unwhole, lonely, cut off, from a whole.
  • We long for union. The sexes are like that.
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Alone, we are incomplete and aching for a wholeness.
  • This ache is an energy that is painful and great at the same time.
  • It is the engine that drives our body and spirit.
  • Sexuality thus is not just about having sex. Sex and having sex are NOT the same.
2 sexuality verses genitality
2. Sexuality verses Genitality
  • Sexuality - The drive for love, communion, community, friendship, family, affection, wholeness, consummation, creativity, self-perpetuation, immortality, joy, delight, humour, self-transcendence.
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Genitality - (having sex) is only one aspect of the larger reality of sexuality.
  • Genitality is only one particular focus of energy for a specific purpose.
  • Do NOT look down upon genitality as did many of our earlier spiritual fathers may have.
  • Celibacy is not to be seen as a spiritual ideal.
  • Sex is perhaps one of God’s greatest gift to life (animal and human).
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At its best, genitality offers humans the opportunity of genuine intimacy this side of heaven.
  • Theologians have even seen the sexual encounter as a taste of heaven.
  • Genitality does not hold all that sexuality is supposed to carry (the world’s view)
  • Popular culture sees sex as only having sex - a tragic reduction.
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We can have lots of sex but still lack real love, community, family, friendship.
  • We can be celibate and have all these.
3 a christian definition of sexuality
3. A Christian Definition of Sexuality
  • Sexuality is a good, powerful, sacred energy given by God to overcome our incompleteness.
  • It is given to find our way back to the Garden of Eden - to make us co-creators with God.
  • Sexuality in its full bloom has many faces.
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Sexuality is not about finding a lover of a friend. It is about overcoming separateness by giving life and blessing it.
  • Mature sexuality is about giving oneself over to community, friendship, family, service, creativity, humour, delight, so that we can help bring life to the world.
4 a few nonnegotiable christian principles
4. A Few Nonnegotiable Christian Principles.
  • Sex is something sacred.
  • Sex must be linked to marriage, monogamy, and a covenantal commitment that is all-embracing and permanent.
  • Sex is an inner dynamic that leads its partners to sanctity.
  • Sex always needs the protection of a healthy chastity.
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Chastity is not the same as celibacy.
  • Chastity has to do with an all experiencing, and the appropriateness of any experience.
  • Chastity is reverence. Sin is irreverence.
  • Chastity is non-violence and non-violating.
  • Chastity maintains integration - wholeness.
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Chaste acts do not cross others’ moral, psychological, emotional, aesthetic and sexual boundaries.
  • People are gifts in our lives, and chastity preserves this gift.
  • We lack chastity when we cross boundaries prematurely or irreverently.
  • Chastity is patience and respect, leading to gratitude and joy.
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Sex always needs the protection of chastity.
  • Sexuality is an energy that is powerful and is not always friendly.
  • Sexuality is a holy fire that is a good servant but a bad master.
  • Before sex, there needs to be some taboos.
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Our culture objects to this. Sexual revolution fought this.
  • Did the sexual revolution help us to:
  • -relieve loneliness?
  • -build lasting communities?
  • -build more stable souls?
  • -result in less sexual exploitation of others?
  • -create a society of less lonely, more loving, more gracious and happy adults?
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Christianity has struggled to celebrate fully and in a healthy way sexual passion.
  • The world is struggling to honestly look at what happens to our innocence when we devalue chastity.
  • Both need to learn from each other.
  • Passion and chastity, sex and purity must be brought together.
abuses of the gift of sexuality
Abuses of the gift of sexuality
  • Manipulating others sexually, treating them as objects
  • Rape
  • Pornography, prostitution
  • Fornication
  • Masturbation
  • Homosexual genital acts
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Christianity must be the moral force that challenges all to celebrate the goodness of sex.
  • Otherwise, Christianity will always be seen as the enemy.
  • Our culture must re-learn the values of chastity and purity.
  • The world must admit that there is a terrible price to pay for devaluing chastity and purity.
our lives as unconsummated passion a christian perspective
Our lives as unconsummated passion - A Christian Perspective
  • The frustration of an unfinished piece of art.
  • In this world, there is no full joy - we are always frustrated.
  • This applies to our sexuality - we all have needs that are not met, and may not even be met.
  • Key to understanding the following is important
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Understand the time we are living in.

- (interim time).

b. Understand that sexuality has a very ‘wide’ hunger.

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How to handle this ‘restlessness’

- Turn it into a healthy solitude.

- Solitude: making this aloneness into a strength that gives strength to others.

  • Accept that we are incomplete and dis-eased.
  • Stop expecting that there will be a perfect solution to be completely happy in this life.
  • Get familiar with an inner journey.
  • Know that this journey is an unending discovery of self.
d see sexual restlessness as oneness with the poor
d. See sexual restlessness as oneness with the poor
  • Jesus reveals something by his incarnation as a sexual being.
  • Shows that love and sex are not the same thing, and that chastity and ‘waiting’ and inconsummation are important in this in-between time
  • His celibacy was key to his solidarity with the poor.
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In choosing aloneness, Christ was one with those who did not choose this but were victims of poverty, violence, war, and and unjust economic system.
  • To sleep alone is to be poor, to be stigmatized; to be outside of the norm.
  • Sexual inconsummation puts us together with the victims.
  • Even married people have this element of ‘aloneness’ and they must use this energy creatively.
e in its inadequacy our love has a real power
e. In its inadequacy, our love has a real power.
  • In our deepest relationships, we need a confessor, someone we can stop lying to, someone we don’t have to wear masks in front of, someone to whom we know that our love we give is not enough.
  • We need to acknowledge that parts of us will forever remain untouched.
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This ‘tragedy’ has a life-giving power. Knowing that it’s there allows us to rise above it.
  • Once this is accepted, we come to the centre where even in its inadequacies, marriage and celibacy are places where God in his brokenness exist.