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RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS. DEPOSITS Seek first to understand Keeping promises Kindnesses, courtesies Clarifying expectations Loyalty to the absent Apologies Open to feedback. WITHDRAWALS Seek first to be understood Breaking promises Unkindnesses , discourtesies Violating expectations

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RELATIONSHIPS

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  1. RELATIONSHIPS • DEPOSITS • Seek first to understand • Keeping promises • Kindnesses, courtesies • Clarifying expectations • Loyalty to the absent • Apologies • Open to feedback • WITHDRAWALS • Seek first to be understood • Breaking promises • Unkindnesses, discourtesies • Violating expectations • Disloyalty, duplicity • Pride, conceit, arrogance • Rejecting feedback Support systems are simply networks of relationships. Adapted from Stephen Covey, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

  2. RELATIONSHIPS II • DEPOSITS MADE TO INDIVIDUAL IN POVERTY • Appreciation for humor and entertainment provided by the individual • Acceptance of what the individual cannot say about a person or situation • Respect for the demands and priorities of relationships • Using the adult voice • WITHDRAWALS MADE FROM INDIVIDUAL IN POVERTY • Put-downs or sarcasm about the humor or the individual • Insistence and demands for full explanation about a person or situation • Insistence on the middle-class view of relationships • Using the parent voice

  3. RELATIONSHIPS II • DEPOSITS MADE TO INDIVIDUAL IN POVERTY • Assisting with goal-setting • Identifying options related to available resources • Understanding the importance of personal freedom, speech, and individual personality • WITHDRAWALS MADE FROM INDIVIDUAL IN POVERTY • Telling the individual his / her goals • Making judgments on the value and availability of resources • Assigning derogatory character traits to the individual For adults from poverty, the primary motivation for their success will be in their relationships.

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