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Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution. A Tool To Assist Pastors and Ministers. Definition of Conflict. A natural disagreement resulting from individuals or groups that differ in attitude, beliefs, values, or needs. Synonyms: Discord, Contention, Battle, Fight, War. Biblical Example of Conflict.

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Conflict Resolution

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  1. Conflict Resolution A Tool To Assist Pastors and Ministers Bishop-Designate Marcus D. CampbellBishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  2. Definition of Conflict • A natural disagreement resulting from individuals or groups that differ in attitude, beliefs, values, or needs. • Synonyms: Discord, Contention, Battle, Fight, War Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  3. Biblical Example of Conflict • Acts 15:39-40 “And the contention was so sharp between them, that they departed asunder one from another: and so Barnabas took Mark, and sailed unto Cyprus; and Paul chose Silas, and departed, being recommended by the brethren unto the grace of GOD.” Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  4. Causes of Conflict • Past Rivalries (Unforgiveness) • Personality Differences • Egotism • Personal Agendas • Lack of Communication • Ignorance • Spitefulness • Pride Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  5. Conflict Resolution Resolving Conflict Within the Family Bishop-Designate Marcus D. CampbellBishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  6. Factors that cause conflicts within a family: • Lack of effective communication • Perceptions of reality • Personal Opinions • Power struggles • Lack of respect • Morals/values • Feelings and emotions • Lack of a desire to understand Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  7. Factors that cause conflicts within a family cont’: • Personal Fears • Stress • Life changes • Differences in growth and maturity patterns Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  8. Resolution for Family Conflicts • Sit down and talk about the REAL problem • Be willing to LISTEN • Talk TO the family and NOT AT the family • Take ownership for YOUR part • Ensure that you understand the problem • Agree to consciously work together • FORGIVE! (Matthew 18: 21-22) Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  9. Resolution for Family Conflicts cont’ • Remember your Love for them • Be patient with them • Consciously be kind • Be honest always • Pray together Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  10. Scriptural Reference • Proverbs 14:35 ; Proverbs 15:1,18 • James 1:19-20 • Ephesians 4:26-27, 31 • Ecclesiastes 7:9 • Hebrews 12:15 • Psalm 4:4 Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  11. Conflict Resolution Resolving Conflict Within Employment Bishop-Designate Marcus D. CampbellBishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  12. Factors that cause conflicts on the job: • Lack of effective communication • Perceptions of reality • Personal Opinions • Power struggles • Lack of respect • Morals/values • Feelings and emotions • Lack of a desire to understand Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  13. Factors that cause conflicts on the job cont’: • Personal Fears • Stress • Life changes • Differences in growth and maturity patterns • Denial of promotions and merit raises • Family problems Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  14. Resolution for Employment Conflicts • Pray about the entire situation • Discuss your conflict with those involved • Set an office call with your supervisor and discuss the conflict and guidance • Document all occurrences and conversations • Utilize the chain of authority or command • Consider relocation within the company or to a new company or field of employment Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  15. Scriptural Reference • Deuteronomy 30:15-16 • Matthew 7:21, 24-25 • Job 36:11 • Romans 8:28 • John 15:10 • James 1:25 Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  16. Conflict Resolution Resolving Conflict Within the Church and Groups Bishop-Designate Marcus D. CampbellBishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  17. Causes of conflict in the church • Lack of effective communication • Ignorance • Gossip • Clicks, factions, and sets • Power struggles • Money • Acceptance of TRUE Structure and Authority Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  18. Divine Structure of The Church Our: 1. Relevance 2. Respect 3. Responsibility Our: 1. Authority 2. Guidance 3. Foundation Why we serve! Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  19. Resolution of conflicts in the church • Corporate prayer and fasting • Establishment of effective communication • The Doctrine of Belief (The Holy Bible) • The Bylaws and/or Constitution of the church • Setting the standard and upholding it • Advocating and living holiness • Sincere Listening and Loving • Always be willing to reason • Remember where the true authority exists Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  20. Scriptural References: • Acts 1:4-5 • Hebrews 10:12-14 • Matthew 24:14 • Isaiah 52:8 • 1 Corinthians 1:10 • John 10:15-16, John 16: 13-16 • Ephesians 4 Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  21. Conflict Resolution Resolving Personal Conflicts Bishop-Designate Marcus D. CampbellBishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  22. Causes of personal conflicts: • Denial • Stress • Loss of focus • Frustrations • Unappreciation • Lack of rest • Unhealthy diet • Absence of a prayer life Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  23. Resolution of personal conflicts: • Acknowledge where you truly are in life • Be REAL with yourself • Be real with GOD • Seek clarity from GOD on your purpose • Disconnect from the inhibitors in life • Love yourself • Take care of yourself • Forgive yourself Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

  24. Scriptural References: • Matthew 5:44-45 • Mark 11:25 • Luke 6:36-38 • Proverbs 20:22 Bishop-Designate Marcus D. Campbell

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