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Safe Church Ministry. They will live in safety and no one will make them afraid --Ezekiel 34:28. What Does Safe Church Ministry Do?. A buse Prevention p olicies & education Abuse Response In & outside the church. Why Should M y C hurch C are A bout A buse?.

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safe church ministry

Safe Church Ministry

They will live in safety and no one will make them afraid --Ezekiel 34:28

what does safe church ministry do
What Does Safe Church Ministry Do?

Abuse Preventionpolicies & education

Abuse ResponseIn & outside the church

why should m y c hurch c are a bout a buse
Why Should My Church Care About Abuse?

It’s a Spiritual Thing

Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

-Ephesians 6:12

bible beginnings
Bible Beginnings

God created human beings in his own image,    in the image of God he created them;    male and female he created them. …

And God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.

Genesis 1:27 & 31

Humans, male and female, in God’s very image!

it s contrary to god s way
It’s Contrary to God’s Way

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” Philippians 2:3-4

It’s a question of power: power over others vs. power used in love and service to others

we are one body
We Are One Body

“From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” Ephesians 4:16

When one member hurts, it affects the whole body.

a light to the world
A Light to the World

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden… let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:14-16

We are called to be set apart, as a witness to our Lord– Allowing abuse dims our light

jesus loves children
Jesus Loves Children

“If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were drowned in the depths of the sea.” Matthew 18:6

We, who follow Jesus, must love and protect the precious children that have been entrusted to us.

it s real has real impacts
It’s Real & Has Real Impacts
  • Child abuse: A report every 10 seconds
  • Rape: 1 in 5 Women and 1 in 71 men
  • Intimate partner violence: 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men
  • Teen dating violence: 10% of high school students hurt in the past 12 months
impacts on children
Impacts on Children

Remember: Jesus loves children!

Traumatology – Trauma & brain development

  • Cognitive delay: language development, intelligence, trouble in school …
  • Emotional impairment: attachment disorders, inability to form relationships, isolation …
  • Spiritual formation stunted: inability to believe that God is good or that they are loved
impacts on adults
Impacts on Adults

Impacts can last a lifetime

  • Health Impacts:

obesity, gastro-intestinal problems, headaches, diabetes

  • Psychological Impacts:

depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, addictive behaviors

  • Spiritual Impacts:

inability to trust and form relationships, loss of faith & hope

it exists in our churches
It Exists In Our Churches

Even when we don’t see it, it’s there!

I don’t know anyone…

Somewhere else, not here in the CRC …

Listen to the Voices …

the vision
The Vision

Imagine…

In ALL Christian Reformed churches people are free to worship and grow in a safe place, free from any threat of abuse.

Relationships are open and honest; the value of ALL people is honored.

Where abuse has occurred, the church ALWAYS responds with compassionate justice that fosters healing.

the guiding goals
The Guiding Goals

Safe Church Top 5

  • Every church abides by a safe church policy
  • Every church uses a safe church curriculum for training children and youth
  • Every church follows approved protocols for responding to church leader misconduct
  • Issues of abuse can be freely discussed without shame
  • Leadership at all levels is committed to safe church ministry (support safe church teams)
prevention strategy 1 policy
Prevention Strategy #1 - Policy

Policy must be developed

  • Input from key stakeholders
  • Uniquely fits church situation and programs

Policy must be followed

  • Screening – application, interview, time at church, references, criminal background check
  • Supervision and accountability

Policy must be maintained

  • Regular review – committee, legal, insurance
  • Annual training
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Community 4%

Stranger/Other 3%

Abuse at Home 85%

Church 4%

School 4%

According to survey by Calvin College Social Research Center – Abuse in the CRC – Published 1992

prevention strategy 2 education awareness
Prevention Strategy #2 – Education & Awareness

Circle of Grace

A program that equips children and youth to participate in a safe environment for themselves and others.

structure supports vision
Structure Supports Vision

Each Classis or Region: A safe church team

Each Team: A safe church rep from each church

Each Church:A safe church committee

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Safe

Church Team

Mandates

1 education awareness
#1. Education & Awareness

Abuse Awareness –

4th Sunday in September

Different topics for different years:

2012 – Internet Pornography

2 support
#2. Support

Specialized support for churches & individuals

Confidential conversations, safe church advocate, a listening ear, policy help, etc…

3 advisory panel process
#3 Advisory Panel Process

For responding to allegations of abuse by a CRC church leader

  • Both sides present to a trained panel
  • Panel reports to church council
  • Council determines the appropriate response
  • Important safeguards for all parties
a restorative word
A Restorative Word

When the Advisory Panel Process doesn’t fit, or after an Advisory Panel – Restorative Practices may be used

Synod 2005 – Report on Restorative Justice

Synod 2010 - Abuse Victims Task Force Report

Restorative Justice practices:

Accountability, restitution, righting wrongs, healing broken relationships

safe church ministry a resource for you
Safe Church MinistryA Resource for YOU
  • Website – www.crcna.org/safechurch
  • Director – bnicholas@crcna.org 616-224-0735
  • Classis and Regional Safe Church resources