Safety Planning and Healthy Relationships Finding ways to keep yourself safe and happy!
Feeling Safe Means: • You know the people you are with will take good care of you. • You know what is expected of you. • You have an idea of what will happen next. • You are not worried that you or someone else will get hurt. • You don’t feel scared or lonely. • You are not afraid to say what you think. • You feel GOOD!!!
How Does Your Body Feel When You Feel Unsafe? • Butterflies In Stomach
How Does Your Body Feel When You Feel Unsafe? Cont. • Weak Knees
How Does Your Body Feel When You Feel Unsafe? Cont. • Tingling/ Funny Feeling in Chest
I Feel Unsafe When… • People are fighting at home • Someone is asking and/or telling me to do something I am not comfortable with and telling me not to tell anyone • I am being bullied • I am not being properly cared for at home • Someone is physically hurting me
Touches making you feel safe or unsafe • What is a right touch • Someone holding my hand • When mom or dad help you bathe • If you are at the doctor’s office • What is a wrong touch • If it a secret • If it hurts • If it makes you feel bad or weird
Safe Places I Can Go When Feeling Unsafe A safe place has more than one exit. An unsafe place has things that can be used as weapons (like the kitchen).
Planning Safe Places I Can Go When Feeling Unsafe • Inside My Home • Outside My Home • At School
What is a Healthy Relationship • Relationships are the people you interact with. Family Friends Classmates Teachers, doctors, guidance Having a healthy relationship means your not afraid to talk to this person. They show you respect by listening to you and you trust and feel safe with them. Who are some people you feel safe with?
When Calling 911… You Need to: • Tell your first and last name • Describe what is happening • Tell your address • Tell your phone number • Stay on the phone to answer questions
Is It Safe to Break Up a Fight Between People Bigger Than You? If yes what would you do if you were hurt and unable to get help? Always seek help when witnessing a fight.
In an Unsafe Situation Who Are You Responsible For? You are responsible for yourself and to make sure you are safe
What If Someone Doesn’t Believe You When You Tell? Tell Someone Else Until Someone Believes You
Remember Everyone has the right to feel safe all the time including YOU!
Activity Time Yes or No Students will be given a YES or NO sign, then they will be read scenarios in which they can decide to answer yes or no.