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Transform Your Speech with Right Goals

Discover the power of speaking with a right heart and set goals to improve your speech. Learn to please God, build up others, and benefit your listeners. Follow the fundamental guideline to build up those who hear you.

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Transform Your Speech with Right Goals

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  1. Speech that Prospers

  2. Right speech comes from a right heart Matt. 12:34 …how can you who are evil say anything good? For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. • Submit your old goals to the Lord • Ask him to give you a heart that wants to • Please him more than impress others • Bless others in the moment, not just look out for yourself • Protect the right things rather than damage them

  3. Goals for my Speech WRONG GOALS • Basic: to please myself • Get what I want at the expense of others • Make people think I am exceptional & impress others by my… • Intelligence • Prestige • Power of personality RIGHT GOALS • Basic: to please God • To build up others who hear my words • According to their need • Benefitting them • To prosper my stewardships: to… • Protect them • Do well to them

  4. The Fundamental Guideline: Build up Those Who Hear You Eph. 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs,that it may benefit those who listen. • Think before I speak – Prov. 16:23 • Select my words – don’t simply let them fly • Choose to say only what will benefit those who listen • Build them up – strengthen and grow them • In line with their needs

  5. Think Before You Speak • The wise man man’s mouth is a follower, not the leader (Prov. 16:23) • We tend to let words gush out, which… • Mark us as a fool (Prov. 15:2) • Result in sin (Prov. 10:19) • Damage us (Prov. 21:23) • Stopping the gush improves our reputation(Prov. 17:28)

  6. Select our Words: What is Fitting? • Ask yourself: Is this occasion a time for… • Silence? (Eccl. 3:1,7) • Listening? (Prov. 18:13) • Giving space? (Prov. 27:14) • Letting the other person shine? (Prov. 15:23) • Chit-chat? Then encourage (Heb. 10:24) • Business? Then operate in truth (Prov. 21:6) • Celebration? Don’t instruct, brag or talk tragedy • Sadness? (Prov. 12:25, Rom. 12:15)

  7. Say Only What Will Benefit • When you speak, bless. • Refresh people (Prov. 10:11) • Give them something valuable (Prov. 10:20) • Choose words that are a blessing in… • Content: words whose meanings fit the need • Package: in a form that is pleasing (Prov. 25:11)

  8. Response Paradigm The Usual Approach • Judge • Instruct • Probe • Clarify • Support The Wise Approach • Support • Clarify • Probe • Instruct • Judge

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