Have a stable and Successful married life

1. Have a stable and Successful married life

2. Couples That Learn From The Separation Can Have Stronger Marriages: When I hear from couples who tell me that their marriage is better after their separation, most admit that the separation made them appreciate their spouse more. When they were alone, they often realized how much they took their spouse for granted or how much comfort their spouse's presence actually gave them.

3. To answer the original question, with intention, the separation can improve some marriages. You have a much greater chance of this if you go in with a plan, commit to regular communication and checking in, and commit to making a very strong effort toward clear improvements. However, if you just "wait and see" what happens and don't regularly communicate or strive to improve things, then sometimes the separation will actually make the marriage worse and contribute to a divorce.

4. It Helps To Agree To Check In Regularly And To Work Toward Improvements: Following up on mend the marriage above, when you're both committed to making the marriage better, the natural progression of this is to regularly check in with one another and honestly discuss what has been working and what hasn't. This allows you to stop whatever is deteriorating the marriage and to continue on with (and hopefully increase) what is actually improving things. • These insights can increase feelings of intimacy and allow a sense of "us against the world" that can actually enhance your marriage. Because you don't want to separate again, you're more likely to address problems the second that they come up and fight really hard to make your marriage work. • http://www.themendthemarriagereview.com/