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relationships. Healthy vs. Unhealthy. There are many types of relationships; some are based on:. Physical attraction Friendship Understanding/caring Infatuation Companionship Commitment. Idealized concept of romance Loneliness Possessiveness Jealousy.
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relationships Healthy vs. Unhealthy
There are many types of relationships; some are based on: • Physical attraction • Friendship • Understanding/caring • Infatuation • Companionship • Commitment • Idealized concept of romance • Loneliness • Possessiveness • Jealousy
How do you know if you ARE in a healthy or unhealthy relationship? • A healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, open communication and compatibility. • One way to know if you are in a healthy or unhealthy relationship is to pay attention to how you feel when you are in the relationship.
How do you know if you Are in a healthy or unhealthy relationship? • Happy • Relaxed • Respected • Confident • Appreciated • Accepted • Energized • Trusting • Proud • Satisfied • Independent • Interdependent • Unhappy • Sad • Nervous • Scared • Anxious • Exhausted • Disrespected • Criticized • Rejected • Unworthy • Ashamed • Dependent • Violated • Abused • Chris Brown Article HEALTHY UNHEALTHY
Take the quiz to find out! How do you know if you ARE in a healthy or unhealthy relationship? Did you answer “YES” to questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 9, 16, 17 and 18? If so, you are probably in a pretty comfortable relationship. If you answered “YES” or “SOMETIMES” to questions 5, 6, 7, 8, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 you may be in an uncomfortable or even dangerous relationship.
STOPLIGHT QUIZ RED LIGHT: These are signs of a bad relationship. YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a relationship. GREEN LIGHT: These are signs of a good relationship .
RED LIGHT You are afraid of this person’s temper.
You usually feel happy when you are with this person. GREEN LIGHT
RED LIGHT Your girlfriend or boyfriend pressures you to do things you do not want to do.
YELLOW LIGHT You are unsure about your feelings for this person.
YELLOW LIGHT You rarely get to plan what the two of you will do together.
Your girlfriend or boyfriend respects your feelings and opinions. GREEN LIGHT
RED LIGHT The person you are dating threatens to hurt you.
RED LIGHT Your boyfriend or girlfriend criticizes you or people you care about.
YELLOW LIGHT The person you are dating tells you not to hang out with certain friends.
The person you are dating talks to you about his/her feelings. GREEN LIGHT
YELLOW LIGHT The person you are dating often asks where you are, who you are with and what you are doing.
RED LIGHT Your boyfriend or girlfriend makes you feel nervous about sharing ideas with him/her.
YELLOW LIGHT You say that you agree with the person you are dating, even though you really disagree with him/her, because you are afraid that a fight might end the relationship.
Your boyfriend or girlfriend celebrates your successes and he/she is happy when good things happen to you. GREEN LIGHT