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Relationships. Lets here what Vince Vaughn has to say about relationships! Relationships= bond or connection you have with another person Friendship-Significant relationship between two people that is built on trust, caring , and consideration https:// www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAGNvvd2FAA.
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Lets here what Vince Vaughn has to say about relationships! • Relationships= bond or connection you have with another person • Friendship-Significant relationship between two people that is built on trust, caring , and consideration • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAGNvvd2FAA
Intimacy- Closeness between two people that develops over time • Infatuation- Exaggerated feelings for or toward a person
What is the end goal of relationships??? • Marriage??? • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSDmfdiiT94 • The Engagement • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtPkxzHKLpk • The Wedding • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HrWBjF9zAq0
Food for thought… • 95% of all Americans marry at least once • The average marriage lasts 9.4 years • Most remarry again
Think, Pair, Share • What are some traits or qualities of a healthy relationship (same sex or opposite sex)?
Think, Pair, Share • What are some traits or qualities of an unhealthy relationship (same sex or opposite sex)?
Some traits to look for…Healthy Relationships • Mutual respect • Care • Honesty • Commitment • Trust • Boundaries • Priorities- goals, tasks, values • Setting limits- deliberate decision to avoid certain behaviors (sexual activity, drugs, alcohol)
Skills for Building Healthy Relationships • Communication • Cooperation • Compromise
3 Types of Communication Style • 1. Passive- Unwilling or unable to express thoughts and feelings in a direct manner • Ex: I guess you can do that, just don’t tell anyone
3 Types of Communication Style • Aggressive- Being overly forceful, pushy or hostile
3 Types of Communication Style • Assertive- Expressing your views clearly and respectfully • * The best and most effective way to communicate. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6LcPfnwGec
Question • How important do you think communication is in relationships?
Question • What do you think is the most important quality in a relationship? • Guy/girl • Guy/guy • Girl/girl
What is a clique? • Do you think having cliques is helpful or harmful regarding relationships? • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBAYiBoy43M
Have you ever been envious or jealous of a friend? • How do you feel? • How do you handle the situation?
You come back next school year from summer break. You notice your best friend has changed…a lot. You’re not clicking like you used to. • What do you say to him/her? • How do you handle the situation?
You are in a dating relationship. Your significant other is consuming all your time. Your grades are suffering and your other friends are complaining you never hang out with them. • How do you balance this???
You have been dating your significant other for almost a year now. Other peers are picking on you because of the fact you are still a “virgin.” You are proud of your decisions thus far, yet your friends don’t seem to be supportive. • What would you do?