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Same School Same Class Same Teacher Same Fees Same Facilities Why is the difference in success?. Which one is more beautiful?. A. B. Which one is more beautiful?. A. B. We all are Sculptor who are making our own Sculpture of life. In sixth standard, got 47 th rank out of 48
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Same School • Same Class • Same Teacher • Same Fees • Same Facilities • Why is the difference in success?
Which one is more beautiful? A B We all are Sculptor who are making our own Sculpture of life
In sixth standard, got 47th rank out of 48 Failed in board exam Stole money for Beedi smoking Ate the meat Fear to go to backside of the house in the dark night How successful would this student be after 20 years?
Suggestion of Senior mate • go to the England & to become Barrister • advice liked, got a Goal • passed by good marks Set the Goal
England (First 3 months) • Took 10 min to tie the knot of the tie • Golden chain watch • Brother sent the money by selling home furniture • Brought the money for Suit-Boot • Learnt English Dance & Violin Attracted towards Glamour
After 3 Months Self-Evaluation Q. Who am I? Ans. A student. Q. What is my aim? Ans. To be a Barrister. Q. Would Tie, Suit, Golden watch & learning dance use in to become barrister or after that? Ans. No, these all are waste. Time to Time Self Evaluation
Self-Evaluation: How to take a habit? Write Diary
Gandhi ji made several mistakes, He made as many mistakes as we make in our life. Difference: Never repeat Mistake Why?
Why: Never Repeat Mistake • Self-Evaluation • Find your Mistake • Tell your Mistake • Understand your Mistake big • Understand others Mistake small • Feel the pain of the Mistake • Do realization • Take a Promise not to repeat it again • Be rigid on it • Move towards the Truth Never Repeat Mistake
Regret 13 years old child Mohandas gave a treat to his friends but he forgot to invite one of his friend. He didn’t eat his favorite fruit “mango” in that season. Regret
This way an ordinary child Mohandas took his first step of changing himself in an extraordinary personality like Mahatma Gandhi
20th century Two great invention
Two great invention of 20th century Satyagrah Atom bomb
South Africa Start to sit on Tonga Tongaman: Don’t Sit! Your Ticket is of Tomorrow. Gandhiji:No, My ticket is of 3 days. Tongaman start to beat. Gandhiji even stay there despite cried and didn’t leave the handle of Tonga. Other passengers sitting in the Tonga rebuked the Tongaman. Tongaman allowed gandhiji to sit in the Tonga. Pain : Sympathy
Research Pain: Sympathy Observation: Tonga man refused Idea: Resist nonviolently Hypothesis:Pain : Sympathy Testing: Freedom struggle Birth of Satyagrah
Pain : Sympathy + Pain = Sympathy 1 Non violence = Sympathy 11 Truth = Sympathy 111 Coward = Sympathy 0 + +
Intrepidity • Champaran : Aandolan • Jagirdar:Gandhi is always surrounded by dozens of people otherwise I will kill him if I find him alone. • Gandhiji heard it by someone and didn’t say anything except asking the address of that Jagirdar. • At 5 ‘O’ clock in the next morning, Gandhiji reached at his house. • Jagirdar got surprised by looking Gandhiji at the door.
What we are expecting to our loved ones? • Truth • Lie: it always hurt us
What is the Truth? Truth Thought Language Behavior Intrepidity is required for telling the Truth
What is the Truth? Lie Truth Thought Fear Language Behavior Greediness Intrepidity is required for telling the Truth
Truth v/s Humanity Veer Aalam In South Africa, Young Gandhiji got a dispute with a bad Afghani person, named “Veer aalam”. Veer Aalam hit him on his head several times by a rod. Gandhiji became unconscious. Police arrested the veer aalam. What did the Gandhiji do on getting consciousness? What will you do in that situation?
What did the Gandhiji done? As Gandhiji came in conscious, he asked “ Oh! How is Veer Aalam?” People told that he had been caught by the police. Gandhiji Got up and went to the police station and told police that Veer Aalam was innocent. Veer Aalam acquitted from the jail but became a slave of Gandhiji by heart.
One Question • Suppose 10 people are standing and you got dispute with one of them. That person slaps you then what will you do? • You will turn the other cheek. • You will slap him too. • You will run away from there.
Answer by Gandhinism What will Gandhiji do in that situation? Gandhiji will take favor of truth and continue the dispute and turn the other cheek after getting slapped on one cheek. He will continue nonviolent protest without surrender. Result: Nine other people except the one disputed person, will be with Gandhiji. That disputed person will also become follower of Gandhiji in near future.
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How would you feel on your classmate getting the prize? • He came first, he got the pen, I felt good. • I will also study hard and get the pen. • He got the pen. I didn’t like it. • May he lost his pen. One Question
How would you feel on your classmate getting the prize? • He came first, he got the pen, I felt good. • I will also study hard and get the pen. • He got the pen. I didn’t like it. • May he lost his pen. (Positive Thinking) Inspiration Envy Jealousy One Question
Three poor men: Used to remember god repeatedly? • First Men, One Daughter: Requirement of 1 Lac. • Second Men, Two Daughter: Requirement of 2 Lacs. • Third Men: Requirement of 3 Lacs. Who is the Poorest?
Money Happiness comes by hard earned money while money earned without hard work causes pain in several times.”
What is the Goal of your Life? • To become an officer Show Reputation Get Happiness • To become a politician Earn Name Get Happiness • To become a businessman Earn Money Get famousGet Happiness • To become a social worker help needy people Satisfaction Get Happiness The final goal of life is to get happiness.
Face : Hard Face : Polite & Soft
Face : Hard Face : Polite & Soft
Fun & Fun only Face : Soft Face : Soft we behave in the same manner, as we expect from other person.
What gives more happiness? A. By spending the money on yourself. B. By the helping others. ?
SatviktaEkPahal : Research Project • Spend money in the Next 7 Days: • on you: Rs. 50/- • Help stranger but needy one: Rs. 50/- Please send it us in writing the experience of “How much joy and happiness did you get?
www.becomegandhi.com • Set the Goal • Self – Evaluation • Never Repeat Mistake • Understand your mistake big compare to others • Regret for the mistake • Intrepidity : Win ahead of fear • Pain : Sympathy used in the life • Telling the Truth without Fear, greed and without excuses to others • Try to understand the truth of the others • Think without jealous • Earn money by the hard work and honesty, not by the fraud • At the time of helping, Expression of heart is kept as like you are taking help • Help to stranger but needy people by spending 0.01/0.1/1.0/10% of your income. • Help to others in their pain • Follows the Gandhiji’s thought and write your experience.
If you want be a little like mahatma Gandhi then test these things by following them in your daily routine and write us about changes as a consequences. SatviktaEkPahal(www.becomegandhi.com) Asthma Bhawan, Indian Asthma Care Society R-3, Sector 6, Vidyadhar Nagar, Jaipur (India) (www.asthmabhawan.com)