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SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD

Chapter 14. SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD. SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD. Learning Objectives. Developmental Tasks of Adulthood. Intimacy, Liking and Loving in Early Adulthood. Forging Relationships

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SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD

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  1. Chapter 14 SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD

  2. SOCIAL AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY ADULTHOOD

  3. Learning Objectives

  4. Developmental Tasks of Adulthood

  5. Intimacy, Liking and Loving in Early Adulthood Forging Relationships • Imagine you have an exchange student living with you. • She originates from an imaginary culture where all relationships are scripted by parents and confides she has become interested in a classmate. • She asks your advice about how relationships work in America. What will you tell her?

  6. What makes young adults happy? • Happiest memories = psychological needs rather than material needs satisfied • Unhappiest memories = basic psychological needs left unfulfilled • Culture influences which psychological needs are most important in determining happiness

  7. What makes us tick? Social Clocks of Adulthood • Definition • Cultural influence • Helson's research

  8. Seeking Intimacy: Erikson's View of Young Adulthood Intimacy versus isolation stage • Intimacy = Close, intimate relationship with others • Isolation = Feelings of loneliness and fearful of relationships

  9. Emerging Adulthood: A New Stage of Life? Arnett: Emerging adulthood • Period between 18 and the late 20s • May be response to shifting cultural forces; delayed onset of full adulthood • Increasing amount of education needed for good career • Fewer employment opportunities overall • Frequency of cohabitation without marriage • Continued growth and change in brain development • Prefrontal cortex • Continued identity exploration • Not knowing place in life • Not fitting into adult role • Insecurity, instability, self-focus • Criticism • Ability to spend time not available to everyone • True developmental stages are not option

  10. Friendship Most of our relationships with others involve friends, and for most people maintaining such relationships is an important part of adult life • Basic need for belonging • Influenced by proximity, similarity, and personal qualities • Although most adults claim on surveys to have a close friend a different race, when they are queried regarding the names of close friends, few include a person of a different race (See Figure 14-1)

  11. The Friends We Choose Figure 14-1 Rephrasing the Question Although a relatively high percentage of whites and blacks claim to have a close friend who is a member of a different race, actually name a person of another race or ethnicity when asked to list the names of their close friends. (Source: General Social Survey, 1998.)

  12. Falling in Love: When Liking Turns to Loving How does love develop?

  13. Passionate and Companionate Love: Two Faces of Love Some psychologists suggest that our love relationships can fall into two different categories: • Passionate love • Companionate love

  14. Labeling Theory of Passionate Love If it hurts…it really love? How do you know?

  15. Sternberg's Triangular Theory: Three Faces of Love

  16. The Combinations of Love

  17. The Shape of Love Over the course of a relationship, the three aspects of love intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment—vary in strength. How do these change as a relationship develops? (Source: Sternberg, 1986.)

  18. Choosing a Partner: Recognizing Mr. or Ms. Right

  19. Seeking a Spouse: Is Love All That Matters? • U.S. – love as a major factor • In other cultures, love may be a secondary • Emotional maturity, health, similar education, chastity

  20. Choosing a Mate Evolutionary perspective (Buss and colleagues) • Gender differences • Species requirement

  21. Does the evolutionary explanation make sense to you?

  22. Filtering Models of Mate Selection Louis Janda and Karen Llenke-Hamel • Broad determinants of attractiveness • Specifics • End result

  23. Filtering Potential Marriage Partners

  24. Do you think you will use the principle of homogamy to select a mate?

  25. Marriage Outside of Racial/Ethnic Group

  26. What happens when the marriage gradient faces the cougar?

  27. Attachment Styles and Romantic Relationships Infant attachment style is reflected in adult romantic relationships (Shaver) • Secure • Avoidant • Anxious-ambivalent

  28. Gay and Lesbian Relationships: Men with Men and Women with Women • Research findings suggest that gay and lesbian relationships are quite similar to relationships between heterosexuals • Most gays and lesbians seek loving, long-term, and meaningful relationships that differ little qualitatively from those desired by heterosexuals

  29. Should marriage a legal option for lesbians and gays?

  30. Review and Apply

  31. Review and Apply

  32. Review and Apply

  33. THE COURSE OF RELATIONSHIPS

  34. Are you a POSSLQ?

  35. To Marry or Not to Marry: That is the Question Figure 14-5 Cohabitation The number of couples living together prior to marriage increased by 41 percent from the year 2000 to 2010. (Source: U.S. Bureau of the Census, 2010.)

  36. Why do people choice cohabitation rather than marriage? • Not ready for lifelong commitment • “Practice” for marriage • Reject institution of marriage

  37. Why marry? • Preferred alternative during early adulthood • Desirability of spouse roles • Legitimatization of children • Legal benefits and protections

  38. Why do people wait?

  39. What makes marriage work? Successful married partners: • Show affection • Communicate relatively little negativity • Perceive themselves as interdependent • Experience social homogamy, similarity in leisure activity and role preferences • Hold similar interest • Agree on distribution of roles

  40. Divorce Around the World Increases in divorce rates are significant worldwide

  41. But the news is not all bad! Most married couples: • View early years of marriage as deeply satisfying • Find themselves more deeply in love than before marriage • Report newlywed period as one of happiest in entire married life

  42. Americans’ Ideal Number of Children for a Family, 1936-2011 Figure 14-9 Smaller is Better Continuing trends over the last 75 years, U.S. parents continue to prefer families with fewer children. What do you think is the ideal number of children for a family to have? (Source: Saad, 2011.)

  43. Parenthood: Choosing to Have Children Deciding whether to have children is one of the most important decisions couples make • Young adults typically cite psychological reasons for having children • Vicarious reinforcement from child successes • Care or companionship in old age • Response to societal norm

  44. What produced the decline in the US fertility rate? • Availability of more reliable birth control methods • Increasing numbers of working outside the home • Choosing to have children later • Cost of raising and educating children • Fear of not being good or accessible parent

  45. Dual-Earner Couples One of the major historical shifts affecting young adults that began in the last half of the twentieth century is the increase in the number of families in which both parents work • Close to three-quarters of married women with school-aged children are employed outside the home • More than half of mothers with children under the age of six are working

  46. Dual-Earner Couples Figure 14-10 Division of Labor Although husbands and wives generally work at their paying jobs a similar number of hours each week, wives are apt to spend more time than their husbands doing home chores and in child-care activities. Why do you think this pattern exists? (Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics, 2012.)

  47. Two's a Couple, Three's a Crowd? • Having children can well lead to greater marital satisfaction—at least for couples who are already satisfied with their marriage • For marriages in which satisfaction is low, having children may make a bad situation worse • Dramatic shift in spouse's roles • Challenges to marital satisfaction • Successful coping

  48. Gay and Lesbian Parents • About 20% of gay men and lesbian women are parents • No difference in psychological adjustment from children raised in heterosexual homes • Specialization of roles develop • For children, no differences in terms of eventual adjustment from those raised in heterosexual households

  49. Staying Single: I Want to Be Alone • Statistics • Rationale • Societal view

  50. Review and Apply

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