Want To Experience Greater Connection In The Bedroom

1. Want To Experience Greater Connection In The Bedroom? Try these suggestions Although this one seems straightforward, it's not necessarily simple. It runs counter to a behaviour pattern that many of us have developed through time. You'll need to break this behaviour to feel more connected in the bedroom. When you attempt these tips for the first time, it could bring up many things; it's normal to feel exposed, confronted, and uncomfortable. But if you persist, these easy methods will help you and your spouse experience greater closeness and connection. or a relationship with yourself if you're on your own. Want to feel closer to your partner in bed? Turn on the lights. Simple, right?

2. However, it could be alarming for many. You're not alone if the idea of doing it with the lights on worries you. In a 2012 survey, 56% of respondents said they typically get busy while the lights are off. Official statistics differ. There is now nothing wrong in doing it in the shadows. Your intimate life might be made much more exciting by sensory deprivation. Your other senses become more active when you can't see what's happening, which can be quite tantalising. But if you usually shut the lights off, you're passing up a wonderful chance to feel closer in the bedroom. Not persuaded? Here are 5 reasons to keep the lights on at all times: 1 Eye-Candy Although it may seem obvious, if you're always freaking out in the dark, you can't see what's happening. It's a feast for the eyes to observe how your partner's hips thrust, her bust bounce, or his arms flex. When you witness your spouse enjoying, it might get you both extremely turned on. But if you're lost in the dark, you miss out on all of this. (Not to mention all those missed chances to reach for a grope here or a lick there, to playfully nibble her neck as she arches her back, to playfully bite on his fingers as he slides his hands within reaching distance.) 2 It’s Safer When using condoms, people frequently make a lot of mistakes. If you're using condoms to prevent STIs or unplanned pregnancy, you need to check there aren't any nicks in the rubber or air bubbles trapped in the teat, which can cause bursting. With internal condoms (aka femidoms), which essentially act as "female liners," it's crucial to see that during penetration, the manhood goes inside them rather than accidentally sliding down the side or all the superior barrier. You don’t have to worry that being safe might ruin all the fun because there are a lot of ways you can have fun without compromising safety and comfort. You and your partner can try flavoured condoms if you are tired of using your old regular condoms.

3. 3 Stay Concentrated It's challenging to be fully concentrated on anything. Although having a wandering mind is a characteristic of being a human, it is all too simple to lose track of time when the lights are off. So keep the lights on and keep your eyes open if you want to significantly improve your ability to stay present and feel more connected in the bedroom. It also means that your spouse can detect when you start to become sidetracked and can softly nudge or bite you playfully to get your attention. The bottom line is that you are more open to enjoyment and connection when you are more present. 4 Own Your Body Our society is experiencing a crisis of body confidence. And it's not only women, despite what many people think. Because they are ashamed of their bodies, 1 in 4 males prefers to sleep with the lights off. However, fleeing something doesn't lessen its hold on you. Those devils grow in size the more you resist. And it goes beyond body shame. Additionally, shame over having an "ugly bedroom face" can be a major barrier. A potent approach to feeling more connected in the bedroom and an intense expression of self-love is to leave the lights on. You have two options: either you continue to fight your body and how you feel about it, or you embrace radical self-acceptance. 5 Wide-Eyed Climax When you have the big-o, you automatically close your eyes. However, the climactic moment is an intense one to share with your partner. In reality, you can enter into more intense levels of pleasure and climax ecstasy by actively changing your natural peak reflex response (relaxing during pleasure, breathing deeply, and keeping your eyes open). Going there while maintaining eye contact with your companion takes it a step further. Sharing that moment of surrender, loss of control, and unadulterated joy is the height of vulnerability.

4. You can only share this spiritually and aesthetically expansive experience when the lights are on. 6 A Closer Bond And this is indeed the main point. When asked "what do you want more of in the bedroom?" responses to this topic were by far the most well-liked. This is it: greater intimacy and connection. You can SEE and CONNECT with your spouse when the lights are on. You can sense them on a soul level when you gaze intently into their eyes. They may witness you, and you can witness them. To experience being fully seen, known, acknowledged, accepted, and embraced. Yes, that might be terrifying, but so does provide yourself with your greatest desires.