1 / 17

The Effects Of Autism on Siblings; How You Can Support Their Current and Future Needs

The Effects Of Autism on Siblings; How You Can Support Their Current and Future Needs. By: Nicole Hadley, CCLS Child Life Specialist II And EDAC Outreach Programs Coordinator. Agenda. Introduction to Child Life Sibling’s reactions to diagnosis or healthcare experience

salome
Download Presentation

The Effects Of Autism on Siblings; How You Can Support Their Current and Future Needs

An Image/Link below is provided (as is) to download presentation Download Policy: Content on the Website is provided to you AS IS for your information and personal use and may not be sold / licensed / shared on other websites without getting consent from its author. Content is provided to you AS IS for your information and personal use only. Download presentation by click this link. While downloading, if for some reason you are not able to download a presentation, the publisher may have deleted the file from their server. During download, if you can't get a presentation, the file might be deleted by the publisher.

E N D

Presentation Transcript

  1. The Effects Of Autism on Siblings; How You Can Support Their Current and Future Needs By: Nicole Hadley, CCLS Child Life Specialist II And EDAC Outreach Programs Coordinator

  2. Agenda • Introduction to Child Life • Sibling’s reactions to diagnosis or healthcare experience • Unusual opportunities • Helping siblings and families cope

  3. Child Life Specialist • Child Life Specialist at UC Irvine Medical Center are professionally certified (CCLS) and have Bachelor’s or Master’s degree in child life, child development, or a related field • Child Life specialist have extensive training in techniques that help children and families cope and gain a better understanding of the healthcare experiences or life-changing diagnosis

  4. Common Reactions of Siblings • There are a variety of feelings and reactions about the disability/health care needs family members may experience, and there are a number reasons why. These depend upon the developmental level and the level of perception the sibling/ family member may have towards the diagnosis or needs. These feelings can and will change from day to day

  5. Factors that influence a sibling’s reaction to disability or healthcare experience • Age and developmental level. • Seriousness of the need/where on the spectrum • Amount of time separated from parents • The amount of attention given to needs • The quality of explanations and answers the healthy children receive to questions

  6. Abandonment Displacement Fear Loneliness Anger Guilt Over Identification Loss/Grief Pressure to Succeed Increase Responsibility Confusion Embarrassment Common Feelings of Siblings

  7. More clinging or dependency on parents Eating changes Withdrawing Acting out or misbehaving Showing outburst of stored feelings Regression Sibling Rivalry Display feelings of jealously and competition Declining school performance Socially withdrawn Becoming withdrawn from the family unit Showing signs of denial or disinterest Becoming obsessed with the patient’s things Common Expressions of concerns and feelings

  8. Common Concerns Heard • “My brother gets away with EVERYTHING!” • “We never get out” • “People Stare at us” • “It scares me when my brother hits me.” • “I can’t talk to my parents because they are too stressed already.” • “I never get to do anything fun!!”

  9. Maturity Social Competence Advocacy Loyalty Tolerance Pride Vocational Opportunities Appreciation Unusual Opportunities

  10. Helping Siblings Cope with Healthcare Experiences • Information is the key component in supporting siblings and helping them cope with a disability or healthcare experience • Incomplete information may create fantasies that are often worse than the real situation

  11. Helping Siblings Cope with Healthcare Experiences • Be honest • Encourage them to ask questions and share feelings • Allow siblings to participate in healthcare experiences • Take tour of clinics and specialty schools • Allow to attend or be a part of therapies and interventions

  12. Helping Siblings Cope with Healthcare Experiences • Act out hospital experiences with people ,dolls, puppets • Read or color books with stories about hospitals • Allow children to create their own books and stories • Use active or vigorous play for outlets

  13. Activities to promote coping • Maintain as close to normal routine as possible • Maintain communication between sibling and patient through pictures, written letters, tape- recording messages, phone conversations • If part exchange special items between healthy sibling and parents, as well as healthy sibling and patients • Create individual time and attention for healthy children • Communicate to healthy sibling of scheduled departures and returns • Attend siblings support groups and camps

  14. Resource for siblings and families • Comprehensive Information and Referral System, 2-1-1 Orange County • Formally known as “Info-link" www.211oc.org • Family Resource Centers “FRCs” • Resources Specific to Children • Help Me Grow - 866-476-9025 • Children’s Home Society • The Prevention Center/Children’s Bureau In-home services 714-543-4333 .

  15. Children with Special Needs • Regional Center 714-796-5100 • 4 OC KIDS 714-939-6118 • Comfort Connection 714-558-5400 • UCP (United Cerebral Palsy) 714-200-2600 • FSN (Family Support Network) 714-854-7762 • Fiesta Familiar (Spanish) 714-633-7532

  16. Special Education • TASK Team of Advocates for Special Kids 714-533-8275 • PSRS Procedural Safeguards and Referral Services 800-564-0445

  17. Questions?

More Related