Isa Town Secondary Commercial School Kingdom Of Bahrain

1. Isa Town Secondary Commercial SchoolKingdom Of Bahrain • This my students project about family values in reducing violence in society. My students are: • Eman Radhi • Eman Jassim • Ameera Khalil • Mariam Baqer • Najat Mirza • Ayat Mohammed They are all in their second level (age 16)

2. Introduction The subject of this chapter is one way to bring the change into focus. The concept of the vulnerable child . They are under violence of their parents, they are forcing the children to behave in certain way that dose not match with their actual personalities. Instead of helping them to Move on and get successful in their lives when they face problems in their future they will be able to solve the issues by taking suitable decisions.

3. Stories from society Most of the problems are related to the family behavior with their children… There are many parents who use a lot of violence. For example: They are used to beat them, there is a story about a boy who had faced a lot of violence and aggressiveness by his own father, he used to beat him a lot when he was a child and he always tied his hands and hanged him, when the boy had grown up (19 years old) he started to ignore and beat his father. Also he got used to steal money from people and use drugs. His mother said that he was really good and honest kind of a boy when he was a kid. But all these negative points occurred because of his father’s behavior.

4. These days we can find other types of violence in families, like sexual violence with children and teenagers. There are many girls who had been reaped by there own fathers one of these sexual violence stories is this: There were small family of one father and his two daughters (one of them were 9 years old and the other sister were 12 years old). The girls parents were divorced and they were forced to live with their father. One year ago, the two girls were raped by their own sick father. Now he’s in jail and the two girls are under care of the government custody.

5. Advice to reduce the violence in the society • First, the parents should quit practicing there bad habits such as: drinking, using drugs and arguing specially around the children, because the results of these habits would affect the children future. • We should stop our children from playing video games and watching films which does not suit there ages. • Parents should discuss their problems with their children and get to understand what they need and not to punish them by using the violence. • They should give their children a limited freedom unlike the western people who has got unlimited freedom which causes losing control in many serious situations.