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+. How to Stay. POSI. IVE. in a. Work Environment. TOUGH. Changing Environment. Other People’s Behavior. Ouch!. Past Experiences. Negative Work Environment. Negative World View. Determinism Theory. The Environment. YOU. Beware the Bullets!. Negative Work Environment.

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How to stay

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How to Stay

POSI

IVE

in a

Work Environment

TOUGH


The environment

Changing Environment

Other People’s

Behavior

Ouch!

Past Experiences

Negative Work Environment

Negative World View

Determinism Theory

The Environment

YOU

Beware the Bullets!


How to stay

Negative Work Environment

-Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead

- No one appreciates your contributions

- Too much work . . . not enough help

- Deadlines are unrealistic

- Longer hours . . . additional work

- Budget Constraints

- Competition is eating us alive

- Poor management / direction

- Job insecurity


How to stay

Other People’s Behavior

Gossips

Bulldozers

Complainers

Negatives

Patronizers

Whiners

Snipers

Backstabbers

Clams

Controllers

Walking Wounded

Sluffers

Brown Nosers

Exploders


How to stay

Changing Environment

CHANGE . . .

“The only person who always

likes change is a wet baby”

  • Challenges our paradigms

  • Alters the way we think

  • Makes life more difficult for a while

  • Causes Stress

  • Is an ongoing fact of life


How to stay

Past Experiences

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!


How to stay

Negative World View

Media Frenzy

A recent Statistic:

Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,

Look at what you are looking at !!!


How to stay

Determinism Theory

  • GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits)

  • PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing)

  • ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings)


Life s little question

Life’s Little Question

“Are some people just born positive thinkers

. . . or is it their CHOICE?”


Choose the right luggage

Choose the Right Luggage

Dodge Bullets

Be Bulletproof


The problem with dodging bullets

The Problem With Dodging Bullets

You’re going to get hit!


Choice 2

Choice #2

Wear Bulletproof Armor


Bulletproof armor comes from

Bulletproof ArmorComes from

SELF CHANGE


Putting on the armor

Change

3 Things!

Putting on the Armor


How to change your attitude

How to Change Your Attitude

ATTITUDE

Changes happen personally

from the

INSIDE OUT!

ATTITUDE


So accept responsibility

So . . . Accept Responsibility

I am responsible . . .

. . . for who I am

. . . for what I have

. . . for what I do

ATTITUDE


Step 2 take control

Step #2 Take Control

YOU

Ownership

Values

Negative world view

Mission

Discipline

FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!

ATTITUDE


How to change your thinking

How to Change Your Thinking

THINKING

Changes come

from observing

logically in

every situation

THINKING


Observe your thinking

Observe Your Thinking

I refuse to let this hook me!

What can I do to defuse this?

Tomorrow it will look very different.

This is all very interesting

I’d like to beat the …

It sucks to be him.

THINKING


Manage your self talk

This is going to be a wonderful day!

This is going to be a crappy day!

Manage Your Self-Talk

If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…

YOU’RE RIGHT!Henry Ford

THINKING


How to change your behavior

How to Change Your Behavior

BEHAVIOR

Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline

BEHAVIOR


Choose your behavior

Stimulus

Response

Stimulus

My Choice

My Response

Choose Your Behavior

REACTIVE

RESPONSIBLE

BEHAVIOR


Steps toward changing behavior

Steps Toward Changing Behavior

The New YOU!

1.Unconscious Incompetence

BEHAVIOR

4.Unconscious Competence

3.Conscience Competence

2.Conscience Incompetence


Add posi ive behavior

AddPOSI+IVEBehavior

INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!

Replace the BAD HABITS!

  • Spread a SMILE around

  • Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives

  • Focus on the good of each day

  • Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”

  • Say “please” and “thank you”

  • Practice EMPATHY

  • Evaluate YOUR behavior

  • Never miss an opportunity to complement

BEHAVIOR


More posi ive contributions

More POSI+IVE Contributions

  • Before you say anything to anyone, ask

    yourself three things

1. Is it true?

2. Is it harmful?

3. Is it necessary?

  • Keep promises

  • Have a forgiving view of people

  • Keep an open mind with changes

  • Count to 1000 if necessary

  • See criticism as opportunity to improve

  • Cultivate your sense of humor


How to stay

Remember to . . .

Watch your definitions -

they become thoughts

Watch your thoughts -

they become words

Watch your words -

they become actions

Watch your actions -

they become your destiny


How to stay

The Choice is YOURS

With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day


Choose posi ive living

ChoosePOSI+IVELiving

Your Choice…..


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