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RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS. Evaluating and Identifying Healthy Relationships. Some Examples of Relationships:. Friendship Parent-child Boss-worker Boyfriend-girlfriend Sibling Acquaintance Roommate. What Relationships Provide. Emotional needs Social satisfactions Basic needs like shelter and food.

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RELATIONSHIPS

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  1. RELATIONSHIPS Evaluating and Identifying Healthy Relationships

  2. Some Examples of Relationships: • Friendship • Parent-child • Boss-worker • Boyfriend-girlfriend • Sibling • Acquaintance • Roommate

  3. What Relationships Provide • Emotional needs • Social satisfactions • Basic needs like shelter and food

  4. EVALUATING • How does your relationship affect your life? • In school • At work • My physical health • My emotional health • My use of drugs or alcohol • My family and friends • My ability to function independently

  5. In School • How does this person encourage me? • Have my grades improved or fallen? • Have I missed school because of this person? • Have I limited my extracurricular activities so I can spend time with this person?

  6. At Work • Have I ever missed work because of this person? • Has this person ever come to my place of work to check up on me or embarrass me? • Does this person give me any support in my career?

  7. My Physical Health • Have I had any physical injuries due to a fight with this individual? • Have I gained or lost weight? • Have I contracted any sexually transmitted diseases from this person? • Have I become physically upset because of confrontation with this individual? • Have I been coerced into having sex? • Have I had any unplanned pregnancy from this relationship?

  8. My Emotional Health • Do I feel better or worse about myself since entering this relationship? • Am I more stressed, anxious, depressed? • Do I have trouble sleeping?

  9. Use of Drugs & Alcohol • Have I increased my use of alcohol, drugs, smoking in this relationship? • Has this person pressured me into using? • Do I drink or use to feel more comfortable around this person/friends?

  10. My Family and Friendships • How do my family and friends feel about this person? • How does this person feel about them? • Have I grown apart from family and friends since forming this relationship? • Does this person ever act jealous of my family/friends? • Do I lie to my family and friends to cover up for this person? • Do we spend time separately with others we know?

  11. Ability to Function Independently • Do I have control over my own money? • Have I become dependent on this person for my living arrangements? • Do I feel that I just couldn’t make it on my own without this person?

  12. A Balancing Act • Healthy relationships maintain a balance between the individuals involved in the relationship.

  13. A Balancing Act me you us

  14. A Balancing Act • If the relationship is all about ME, then I am focusing on getting my needs met and expect you to make my needs your priority as well—and your needs suffer. me you

  15. A Balancing Act • If the relationship is all about YOU, then I am focusing on getting your needs met at the expense of my own. you me

  16. A Balancing Act • If the relationship is about US, then we are both focused on the relationship that we lose our individuality. us

  17. A Balancing Act • In a healthy relationship, YOU, ME and US are in balance most of the time. • However, sometimes YOU or ME may need more attention…and that’s ok. me you us

  18. Healthy Relationships • How healthy is your relationship? • The next few slides contain questions that may help you determine the health of your relationships.

  19. Healthy Relationships • Can you name 2-4 things about this person you really like? • Can your name 2-4 things about this person you really dislike? • Can you name 3 things this person is interested in besides you? • Can you name 3 activities you can be involved in without this person?

  20. Healthy Relationships • Do you both have equal decision-making power in the relationship? • How do you handle conflicts? • Do you think this person’s relationships with family/friends are healthy? • Since forming this relationship, do you generally feel worse, better, or the same about yourself?

  21. Healthy Relationships • If you’re confused about your relationship and where it’s going and what it’s doing for you, please get help from the appropriate counseling services.

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