Child Abuse and Neglect Caldwell County Department of Social Services

1. Child Abuse and NeglectCaldwell County DepartmentofSocial Services Children have the right to be safe! Adults have the responsibility to ensure this basic right for children.

2. What is abuse/neglect? How to identify it. Why, when and how to make a report. What happens next? To report child abuse and neglect you need to know:

3. The Law Abuse North Carolina General Statute 7B-101(1) Neglect North Carolina General Statute 7B-101(15) Dependency North Carolina General Statute 7B-101(9)

4. An Abused Juvenile, as defined in General Statute 7B-101(1), is a child whose parent, guardian, custodian or caretaker does any of the following: • Inflicts or allows to be inflictedon the juvenile a serious physical injury by other than accidental means; or • Creates or allows to be createdby other than accidental means a substantial risk of serious physical injury to the juvenile; or • Uses or allows to be usedupon the juvenile cruel or grossly inappropriate procedures or cruel or grossly inappropriate devices to modify behavior; or

5. Commits, permits, or encouragesthe commission of a violation of the following laws by, with, or upon the juvenile: first degree rape, second degree rape, first degree sexual offense, second degree sexual offense, sexual act by a custodian, crime against nature, incest, preparation of obscene photographs, slides, or motion pictures of the juvenile, employing or permitting the juvenile to assist in a violation of the obscenity laws, dissemination of obscene material to the juvenile, displaying or disseminating material harmful to the juvenile, first and second degree sexual exploitation of the juvenile, promoting the prostitution of the juvenile, taking indecent liberties with the juvenile; or Creates or allows to be createdserious emotional damage to the juvenile. Serious emotional damage is evidenced by a juvenile’s severe anxiety, depression, withdrawal or aggressive behavior toward himself or others; or Encourages, directs or approvesof delinquent acts involving moral turpitude committed by the juvenile.

6. unexplained bruises in various stages of healing self-destructive behaviors welts, human bite marks unexplained burns, especially cigarette burns unexplained fractures, injuries or abrasions nervous, hyperactive, aggressive, disruptive, and destructive behaviors unusually wary of physical contact unduly frightened of parent or caretaker expresses little or no emotion when hurt unduly shy, withdrawn and passive injuries inconsistent with the child’s age injuries inconsistent with the explanation Identifying Child Abuse and NeglectSigns of possible Physical Abuse:

7. Engages in ongoing sexual activity that is not appropriate for the child’s age has detailed and sophisticated understanding of sexual behaviors regress to such behaviors as bed-wetting, speech loss, etc. suffers sleep disturbances or nightmares pain, itching, bruising or bleeding in genitalia venereal disease frequent urinary tract or yeast infections Signs of possible Sexual Abuse:

8. The sexually abused older child may: • Exhibit delinquent or aggressive behavior • show signs of depression • act out sexually • display self injurious behaviors such as: substance abuse, self mutilation, attempts at suicide, prostitution and running away

9. A Neglected Juvenile, as defined in General Statute 7B-101(15), is one who: • Does not receive proper care, supervision or discipline from his parent, guardian, custodian or caretaker. • Has been abandoned • Is not provided necessary medical or remedial care. • Lives in an environment injurious to his welfare, or • Has been placed for care or adoption in violation of the law

10. ADependent Juvenile, as defined by General Statute 7B-101(9), is a juvenile in need of assistance or placement because: • He has no parent, guardian or custodian responsible for his care or supervision; or • His parent, guardian or custodian is unable to provide for his care or supervision due to physical or mental incapacity and the absence of an appropriate alternative care arrangement.

11. Abandonment by parent or caretaker unattended medical needs consistent lack of supervision consistent hunger, inappropriate dress, poor hygiene indiscriminate with his or her affection pale, listless, begs or steal food falls asleep in class, regularly displays fatigue self- destructive Signs of Possible Neglect:

12. Name, address and age of the child Name of the child’s parent, guardian or caretaker Child’s condition, including the nature and extent of the injury Any information regarding the presence of weapons in the home, alcohol/drug abuse or other factors affecting a social workers safety After hours, weekends and holidays, you may call the Caldwell County Sheriffs Department 758-2324. A social worker is always on call 24 hours a day 365 days a year How to make a report.426-8257 or 426-8200(it takes MORE than 5 minutes)

13. What happens after a report is made? Unsubstantiated 24 hours Parenting Classes Counseling 72 hours Court Group Home Petition

14. Who should report suspected child abuse and neglect? Any person or institution who has cause to suspect that a child is being abused or neglected is required by law to report. GS 7B-301

15. Listening carefully to what the child is saying Telling the child you believe them Telling the child the abuse was not their fault Letting the child know you will make a report to help stop abuse You can help by:

16. You will not be helping the child if you: • Make promises you can not keep, such as promising that you will not tell anyone • Push the child into giving details of the abuse • Ask direct questions of the child • Discuss what the child told you with others who are not directly involved in helping the child

17. Discipline- Helps the child learn a lesson that will carry over and positively affect future behavior. Abuse- Affects the child’s behavior in ways that become increasingly less desirable to the parents. Discipline or Abuse?

18. Explain the rules to your child. Make sure he understands. Tell your child exactly what you expect him to do or not to do. Ask your child to repeat what you said. Explain what will happen if the child breaks the rules. Follow through! Change the rules when necessary. As your child gets older, some of your rules should be evaluated to encompass more responsibilities. Make sure the limit is really necessary. Too many rules are hard for children to understand and give children too much to remember. Concentrate on the really important behaviors. The purpose of discipline is to help children to achieve for themselves and to feel proud when they do what is right.Explain and stick to it!!!

19. 1,033 total reports were made to DSS involving 1,682 children. 125 reports were substantiated or found to be in need of further services. Of the cases substantiated/in need of services, 1 was physical abuse, 3 sexual abuse, 115 neglect, and 6 dependant. In another 181 cases, services were recommended. 69 children were taken into DSS custody. Caldwell County Department of Social Services Children’s Services StatisticsCalendar Year 2008