10 Benefits of Being a Single Parent

1. 10 Benefits of Being a Single Parent And why you should be proud of doing it solo. Have you just become a single parent and are worrying about the impact your relationship status might have on you and your children? Well, you needn’t to because there are many benefits to being a single mum or a single dad! Bringing up a child on your own is hard work, and the responsibility may feel like it’s all a bit too much at times, but there are many benefits and rewards to be reaped, too: 1. You grow up fast: I was a relatively young mum. By the time I was 29, I was a divorced single parent. Having grown up quite protected, with my mother as a housemaker, I never really had to take on much responsibility at home. I had to grow up fast as a result of my dysfunctional marriage and even more so my divorce. I lived abroad with no support network and there was no time for anything but work and home life or money for anything other than essentials. Whether the boiler needed fixing, there was trouble at school, or I had to travel for business – I had

2. to focus and figure out how to manage it all and let my own interests fall by the wayside. 2. Harmony at home: It was a relief to escape the daily arguments (over money and his drinking in my case). Where marriage had made me feel drained and helpless, divorce brought peace to our home. There was this instant relief that I had been craving for years. And even though the drama and harassment from my ex continued, our home started to feel safer and more peaceful. Admittedly, I was a rather stressed out single parent for some time, but the huge relief over not having to deal with the constant arguments at home, was imminent and our lives became much more harmonious. 3. You make your own decisions: It may be nice to have someone to discuss day-to-day affairs with, but it can also be stressful when every purchase or decision becomes an argument or a compromise. The benefit of doing it all alone, means you are your own boss, and you make your own decisions. You can, of course, involve the kids in any decision-making, they will enjoy being a part of the process, but the ultimate decision lies with you. Don’t give in to the temptation to make your children your confidantes when there are serious matters to be considered – they are not adults and should not shoulder the responsibility of one. If you need someone to bounce serious ideas off, call your friends. Read More Single Parents on Holiday Ltd 3 Hayes Court 116 West Common Road Bromley Kent UK BR2 7EG 0333 370 3701 info@singleparentsonholiday.co.uk https://singleparentsonholiday.co.uk