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Milton S. Magness D Min, MA Psy , MA(RE), LPC, CSAT. Recovery By the Numbers the Recovery points system. Basic Tools. What are the basic tools of recovery? Which of these do you consider essential? Why?. Lifestyle. Originally coined by Austrian psychologist Alfred Adler in 1929.
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Milton S. Magness D Min, MA Psy, MA(RE), LPC, CSAT Recovery By the Numbersthe Recovery points system
Basic Tools • What are the basic tools of recovery? • Which of these do you consider essential? • Why?
Lifestyle • Originally coined by Austrian psychologist Alfred Adler in 1929. • In sociology, a lifestyle is the way a person lives. • A characteristic bundle of behaviors that makes sense to both others and oneself in a given time and place. • Includes social relations, consumption, entertainment, and dress. • A mixture of habits, conventional ways of doing things, and reasoned actions. • Reflects an individual's attitudes, values or worldview.
Lifestyle • “The typical way of life of an individual, group, or culture” • From Merriam-Webster’s Online Dictionary
Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous • March 31, 1984 to September 2, 1995 • Produced and hosted by Robin Leach • Featured the extravagant lifestyles of wealthy entertainer, athletes and business moguls. • One of the first shows to capitalize specifically on Americans' interest in the lives of the wealthy. • Today would be called a “reality show”
Recovery as a Lifestyle • Recovery is a way of life • Practiced behaviors become habit • Recovery routines are automatic • Motivation is intrinsic
Survival Phase—Beginning of Recovery • Marked by: • Fear of going back to former behavior • Relationship crises • Learning about Recovery • Understanding addiction • Lasts at least 6 months • To move to next phase • Minimum of two meetings a week • Must have sponsor • Sober at least three months
Stability Phase • Settled into recovery routines • Continue minimum of two meetings a week • Focus is on: • Working the steps • Establishing recovery routines • Settling into solid sobriety • To move to next phase • Recovery time: minimum of 18 months • Sobriety time: minimum 6 months • Recovery has become a lifestyle
Sustaining Phase • Deepen recovery habits and routines • Recovery is not a chore but a choice • Friendships developed with recovering persons • Relationship has stabilized • To move to next phase • Recovery time: minimum of 2 ½ years • Sobriety time: minimum 1 year • Have worked all 12-steps
Freedom Phase • The place in recovery one aspires to • Focus is on: • Gratitude • Service work • Continuing all recovery routines • Sponsoring others
For Discussion • When did recovery first begin to become a lifestyle for you? • As you look at your recovery, what is going well? • What is not going so well? • Are changes necessary?
Four Primary Areas of Recovery Focus • Recovery Activities/Behaviors • Spiritual • Mental/Psychological • Physical
Recovery Activities/Behavior • Meetings • Sponsor/Sponsee Meetings • Step Work • Program Calls • Recovery-Related Reading • Recovery Night • Recovery Activity With Partner
Spiritual • Spiritual Activity • Attending Services, Tai Chi, Yoga, structured meditation • Recovery Prayer/Meditation • Journaling • Affirmation
Mental/Psychological • Individual Therapy • Group Therapy • Couple’s Therapy • Affirmations • Something Just for Fun
Physical • Physical Exercise • Healthy Eating • Adequate Sleep • Healthy Sex (Also in Spiritual & Mental/Psychological area) • Doctor or Dentist Visit • Date Night
Recovery Activities/Behavior • Meetings • Sponsor/Sponsee Meetings • Step Work • Program Calls • Recovery-Related Reading • Recovery Night • Recovery Activity With Partner
Spiritual • Spiritual Activity • Attending Services, Tai Chi, Yoga, structured meditation • Recovery Prayer/Meditation • Journaling • Affirmation
Mental/Psychological • Individual Therapy • Group Therapy • Couple’s Therapy • Something Just for Fun