Additional Knowledge: • Sex Education • Sexually Transmitted Diseases • Substance Abuse
At the end of the session: • Difference between: • a boy and a girl • a lady and a gentleman • Producing human babies • Caring for yourself
At the end of the session: Familiar with: • AIDS • Gonorrhea • Syphilis.. • Chlamydia • ETC. AND HOW TO PREVENT SUCH ILLNESSES
At the end of the session: YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE: • To smoke or NOT? • To drink ALCOHOL or NOT? • To take SHABU or NOT? • To delay SEX or NOT?
When, Where, from Whom did you learn about SEX? • DID YOU GET THE REAL FACTS? • DID YOU SHARE YOUR APPREHENSIONS? • DID YOU SHARE YOUR FEARS? • To WHOM?
Children need to know about sex? • Help kids cope with their feelings & peer pressure • Enable them to take charge of their lives & have a loving relationship • Help protect them from sexual abuse • Prevent • Teen pregnancies • STD (sexually transmitted diseases) • Sexual violence
WHAT to tell our kids? It must be age appropriate! 3-5 years old • Teach the correct names of parts of the body like teaching them the elbows, knees • Tell the difference between a boy & a girl • Some parts are private: teach them on inappropriate touching by other poeple • Where babies came from? • “Babies grow in a special place inside the body”
WHAT to tell our kids?..... 5-7 years old • Awareness of their own gender and of others • Explain the terms they see and hear on TV • “Sex is part of a loving relationship between grown-ups”
WHAT to tell our kids?... Preteens: 8-12 years old Explain • Breast budding • Baby fat disappearance • Pimples • Body hair • Enlargement of the male organ • Color change of the sex organs
WHAT to tell our kids?... Preteens: 8-12 years old • What is menstruation? • What is circumcision? • What is masturbation? • Be ready to answer.. questions about wet dreams.
WHAT to tell our kids?... Preteens: 8-12 years old • Let them know that everyone is different and develops differently • Remind them that “touching” of some body parts have some norms • Explain if ready: sexual responsibility, STD, birth control and consequences of teenage pregnancy
WHAT to tell our kids?... Teens • LEARNING HOW TO SAY NO • How to have a relationship without SEX • How to deal with peer pressure BE frank BE straight forward BE a teacher
Sexuality means Identity Feelings Curiosity Independence
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE What exactly does "having sex" mean? "Having sex" can mean many things. • It can refer to intimacy or closeness between a man and a woman, between two men or between two women. • "Having sex" doesn't just mean when a man's penis enters a woman's vagina.
MORE QUESTIONS ON SEX: What is vaginal sex?Vaginal sex usually means having a man's penis placed inside a woman's vagina.What is oral sex?Oral sex means one person placing his or her mouth on another person's genitals (penis, vagina or anus).What is anal sex? Anal sex is usually when a man's penis is place inside someone else's anus, or butt hole.
If we will not control the increase in population, this will happen and it is happening!!!
You might decide not to have SEX.. REASONS: • You want to wait • You just don’t feel ready • It would upset your parents • You have other PLANS!
Tips for success on saying NO: • Use “I” statements • Stay calm • Use body language • Do not GIVE IN to PRESSURE • Set your limits • Talk about your feelings • DO NOT USE ALCOHOL OR OTHER DRUGS • SIMPLY ….SAY NO
DO YOU WANT….. • to be an alcohol user? BRAIN OF AN ALCOHOLIC
Why Alcohol is a major KILLER? Alcohol intake: • Slows judgment • Results to poor reaction time • Creates a notion “of a no problem” state • Impairs visual reaction • Has physical effects on the body system: liver, kidneys, vitamin absorption, wastage • Has negative mental effects
Reason for alcohol drinking: • To forget the problems • “my friends are doing it” “I have to belong’ • I want to make a Statement • Curiosity
Reason for alcohol drinking:To FORGET PROBLEMS Reminder, if with problems: • Calm down • Describe the problem • Think of solutions • Think of options • Think of cause and effect • Choose “God made problems with corresponding solution!”
RECOMMENDATION TOGETHER WITH Your PARENTS WHO DOH “young people still in school should be taught to abstain from alcohol,drugs and sex”
SUBSTANCE ABUSE Experimentation & learning Mood swing Regular use/seeking the mood swing (TOLERANCE) Daily use/preoccupation with the mood swing (CRIMINAL ACTS) Dependency/using drugs to feel normal
Hair loss Cataracts Wrinkling Hearing loss Skin Cancer Tooth Decay LungCancer Emphysema Osteoporosis Heart Disease Stomach ulcers Discolored Fingers Cervical Cancer Deformed Sperms Psoriasis THE SMOKER’S BODY!
Sexually Transmitted Diseases STD • Infection spread by having SEX with another person who is infected. • SOME are curable , OTHERS are not • Those who have it might look HEALTHY, But they have it!
NON CURABLE: • HEPATITIS • AIDS/HIV
AIDS Acquired • Not born with the disease compared to most immune deficient conditions • *You can only be born with AIDS if your mother had AIDS when pregnant Immunodeficiency • Characterized by a weakened or ineffective immune system with no resistance to infections. Syndrome which means: • AIDS is a combination of signs and symptoms which occur together due to the HIV infection as well as many other infections as a result of theimmunodeficiency
AIDS….HIV HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus • This virus causes AIDS • It is an infection of the immune system • It destroys the body's ability to fight off infections. • It remains quiet for a long time • Drug therapy only destroys the active virus, DOES NOT CURE • HIV infects the cells (T Lymphocytes) of the immune system weakening the entire system.
AIDS AIDS Transmission • Blood or blood products • Mother to infant • Sexual contact • Sharing of needles or syringes
AIDS….HIV HIV has been located in fluids such as: • blood • breast milk • saliva • semen • tears • vaginal fluids It appears that the disease can only be transmitted through: • blood • blood products • sexual fluids
AIDS…. The infection can be spread from unprotected sex (sex without condoms) with an infected partner, including: • anal intercourse • oral intercourse • vaginal intercourse
AIDS…. and is spread from: • men to men • men to women • women to men • women to women
AIDS…. The virus can enter the body during sex through the: • lining of the vagina • mouth • penis • rectum • vulva
Crabs (Pubic Lice)(curable with medication) • Tiny little blood-sucking bugs (lice) that live in pubic hair • They cause a lot of itching. • They are transmitted via: • Skin-to-skin contact with an infected person • Sleeping on infested bedding • Wearing infested clothing • Contact with an infested toilet seat • They can be transmitted even if you use a latex condom to • help prevent other STDs.
Bacterial Vaginosis The risk of acquiring Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is increased by: • changing sexual partners • douching • using intrauterine devices (IUDs) The infection can not be spread from person to person by casual contact, such as: • clothing • eating utensils • swimming pools • toilet seats
Bacterial Vaginosis • When different types of bacteria outnumber the normal bacteria, Lactobacillus, an imbalance is caused in the bacterial organisms that exist in the vagina. • Caused by: Hemophilus ducreyi
Bacterial Vaginosis Symptoms • Although more than 50% of women with Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) have no symptoms, when symptoms do occur they include the following: • Excessive, thin gray or white vaginal discharge that sticks to the vaginal walls • Fishy or musty, unpleasant vaginal odor, most noticeable after sex • Vaginal itching and irritation
CHANCROID • soft chancre • venereal sore • bacterial disease causing painful, irregularly shaped sores, but is a localized infection which can be treated and cured and has no long-term effects.