First Date By Chun, Gary, Nicolai, Linh, Jared, Beverly
Clothing (Male) • Always take a shower before going on a date. • Wear a collar shirt. • Wear pants if the date is at night. (Unless you are going to the beach or something like that.) • Wear nice shoes. • Don’t go overboard when getting ready for your date.
Clothing (Female) • Always take a shower before going on a date. • Looked well put-together. • Most men are attracted to a woman more than her clothing. • Don’t go overboard when getting ready for your date.
Meeting The Parents • The awkward “Hello” • The parents’ stare up and down • Sweating during small-talk • The rude comments about your style • “If you EVER disrespect my daughter…” • Staring through the window as you walk away
Tips to Easing the Process • Say “Sir” and “Ma’am” often • Nice, Firm Handshake • Look parents in the eyes and don’t be intimidated • Compliment the house (mom) and the car (dad) • Choose your humor wisely • Flatter them by saying what a wonderful son/daughter they’ve raised • Lastly, Always SMILE!
Food on your Date A Beginner’s Guide Nicolai chow
Casual Date • Go for coffee or tea • Chance to talk without distractions • No pressure or big bill • No chance of having food in your teeth • Short • Easy to leave if there’s no spark. • Starbucks, Jamba Juice, etc.
Bite to Eat • Inexpensive • Don’t have to dress too nice • Informal • Cons: may come off as cheap or broke • Burger King, Subway, Mcdonalds
Nice Dinner • Shows you are a provider • Impresses your date • Chance to enjoy a nice meal • Cons: expensive, may be a waste if you are incompatible • Roy’s, Longhi’s, Outback Steakhouse
Sexy Dinner • Cook dinner for you date • Show off your culinary skills • Intimate environment • Cheaper than going out • Not recommended for a first date because it is moving too fast. • Your place
Top 10 Romantic Movies • Titanic (1997) • Gone With the Wind (1939) • Pretty Woman (1990) • Dirty Dancing (1987) • My Best Friends Wedding (1997) • When Harry Met Sally (1989) • Sleepless in Seattle (1993) • West Side Story (1961) • Notting Hill (1999) • The Princess Bride (1987)
Top 10 Most Popular Horror Movies Silent Hill Saw 3 Resident Evil: Extinction Black Christmas Friday the 13th Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Origin Wrong Turn 2 Night of the Living Dead 3D White Noise 2: The Light Halloween 9
Should Start with a nice movie theatre Choose one that your date would like Show that you are interested in this type of movie Should not Keep cell phone ringer on Fall asleep Talk too much First Date Movie Tips
Stargazing Beach Walk In-car DVD Glow Putt Bowling Karaoke Bar Clubbing Free Free Free $20 $20 $25 $30 $40 ActivityEst. Cost
Be on time Be interesting Laugh at jokes Listen Be yourself Be late Be boring Just talk about yourself Use putdowns Use rude mannerisms Date EtiquetteDo’sDon’ts
END OF THE DATE • He takes her home in his car
THEY ARRIVE He walks her to the door
DECIDES TO… Give her a friendly hug or A kiss goodbye