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2. AttractionTriggers LearnThePredictablePatternsthatMakeMenFallInLove FreeReportComplimentsofJack Shewasoneofmyfavoriteclients,andherwordskeptechoingthrough mymind... "Hedoesn'tseethepoint,James.That'swhathesaidtome.SoIdon'tsee the point either. If I can't win his heart with your help, I must not be cut outfor love." Andthatwasit. SheendedourSkypesession.Andbecauseshelivedontheothersideof theworld,I couldn'teven tellherit wasme whohadfailed. Ihadtakentoobigofarisk.Somethingmygutwarnedmeagainstbefore Ieven gave her theadvice. ButIignoredmygut.Iwentforthe"bigwin."BecauseIwantedtosatisfy myownego.IwantedhertobeamazedathowfastIcouldturnthetideof herrelationship. Iwasyoung,andnaive.AndIwaspracticingthecomplicatedartof relationshipcoaching. Ifeltlikegivingup.SoIwenttomymentorforadvice. Ihadcometotrustherwordsofwisdomwheneverthingsseemedtofall apart. Thiswasoneofthosedays.AndIneededtoseeher. Isatacrossfromherwithmyfaceinmyhands,tryingnottofeelthe sadnessand bitter frustration. Iwaslostinmythoughts.Lostinmyself-pity.Butshelookedpastthe patheticmansittingacrossfromher.Andshecalledouttothemanshe hadagreed to mentor. "James,"shesaid,"thoughyoumightwanttobelieveotherwise,youare destined to fail as a relationship coach. It's just part of the learning process.You will makemistakes. "Andsometimesit'sgoingtohurt.Butletmeremindyouofsomething youtold me long ago. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

3. "You told me you are on a mission to find the secrets of relationship success.Andeverytimeyoufail,yourefineyourabilitytoguideothers towardsuccess." Shehadaspecialability.Theabilitytocalloutthestrengthandresilience in others. The ability to reignite the fire that drives a person's core motivation. Mycoremotivation?Iwantedtobethebest.Notjustthebestaround,but thebest there ever was. Andforalongtime,thatblindedme.Itslowedmyprogress.Untiloneday IrealizedIcouldneverbethesolutiontosomeoneelse'srelationship. Yousee,beautysometimeseruptsspontaneouslyinrelationshipsbetween aman andwoman. Iwanted to understandwhy. SoIgotoutofmyownway.Istartedtosearchforpatterns.Isearched, andI searched. AndthisiswhatIfound. TheAttractionTriggers Withtherighttriggers,bothmenandwomenaredesignedtofallinlove. Weareliterallyhardwiredtofallinlove.Wearenotmeanttobealone. Didyouknowit'sillegaltoownjustoneguineapiginSwitzerland?I'm notmaking this up. In2008,theypassedseveralnewlawsaboutpetownership.Theoneabout guineapigsrecognizesthefactthattheyaregeneticallyhardwiredto thrive with companionship. While loneliness takes a serious toll on their health. Of course, psychologists have been telling us the same thing about humansforyears.Ourphysicalandemotionalhealthislargelydependent oncompanionship. Infact,ifyouwerestrandedonadesertedislandwithaman,everything that's feminine about you would call to him. Without competing distractions,thetwoofyouwouldbedestinedtobecomeacouple. Buthere'sthequestionIbecamefascinatedwith: Howcanyouamplifythenaturaltriggersthatcauseromanticattraction? VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

4. As I watched for clues, I began to see universal patterns. Relationship patternsthatseemedtoshowupoverandoveragainjustbeforesomething beautifulemerged in arelationship. ThenIbegantodiscoverwaystotriggerthosepatterns. These triggers could cause a couple to leap forward to deeper levels of intimacyandcommitment.Sparkinganewlevelofintimacythatcould only be called "true love." A selfless way of loving that was absolutely beautiful. Youcanprobablyimaginemyexcitement.Studyingpatternsin relationshipsbecame mynew obsession. Thatwaslongago.ButIneverstoppedsearching.AndI'vediscovereda fewrelationshippatterns youmight liketo knowabout. TheStrangestThingMenDesire It'sokayifyouwantanamazingrelationshipwithaman.It'sokayifyou refuseto settlefor a lukewarmrelationship. Butifyou'regoingtogoallout,andreallybuildabeautifulrelationship, youneedtosharethatdreamwiththemanyouinviteintoyourlife. Andtodoagoodjobofinvitinghim,youhavetounderstandwhat's enticingaboutarelationship fromaman's perspective. Infact,you'llwanttointeractwithhiminawaythatfeelsalmostlikea proposal.And here'swhat you'reproposing: "Let'srejectcynicism.Embracewhat'sbeautiful.Andcreatesomething magnificent." Butwhatholdsthosequalitiesforaman?Whatseems"magnificent"toa man? Hedoesn'tseearelationshipthesamewayyoudo.Soit'simportantto knowhow mensee relationshipsdifferently. Thatwayyoucanframeyourinvitationinawaythatgetsresults.Youcan frame yourinvitationinawaythatconnectswithhisnaturaldriveto createsomething beautiful withyou. You'llwhethisappetite.You'lltriggerhisdesiretogoafteradeeper romanticconnection with you. Soundsgood,right? VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

5. So,whatisthebeautyamanseesinacommittedrelationship?Well,it mightsound abit oddto youat first, buthere itis: Aromanticrelationshipsatisfiesaman'scravingforcompanionshiptothe extentthatitfitswithhisidentity...theway hewantstoseehimself. Understandingthisonestatementwillgiveyoutremendouspowerinyour relationshipswith men.So let meexplain. Generally speaking, we seek out relationships because of the other person'squalities.Welovesomeoneforwhotheyare.Butwealsoseek out relationships because of the way other people make us feel about ourselves. Letmeofferashortstorythatillustratesthisconceptwell. WhenIwasinhighschool,therewasagirlnamedStephaniewhohadit all.She wastall witha prettyface anda nicefigure. Her dad was one of the richest guys in town and gave her the choice of anybrand-newcarshewantedforhersixteenthbirthday.Nearlyallthe popularguysinourschoolstoodinline fortheirturntodateher. Ididnotstandinline. Ifyouaskedmeifshewasanattractiveperson,Iwouldhavesaid"yes" without a second thought. However, I was not attracted to the idea of myselfin her presence. Shewastallerthanmebyagoodinch.Sheworeclothesthatmademine look shabby. And the worst thing was her silly way of interacting with people. Iwaskindofseriousduringmyhighschoolyears,drivenbymyappetite for achievement. In contrast, Stephanie liked to engage people with as muchsilly banter asshe could. It'snotthatIcouldn'tseethevalueofthatplayfulstyleofinteraction;it's just that it didn't play to my strong suit. I could imagine myself feeling awkward and unlikable compared to her when trying to interact with her friends. In contrast, my friends appreciated my tendency to deeply consider questionsbeforeresponding.Ihadmysillysidetoo.ButIwouldn'twant tobe thatversion ofmyself twenty-four-seven. Here'swhatI'mgettingat... WhenI'mattractedtoyou,itmeansIwantmoreofyouinmylife.But VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

6. attractionalsomeansIenjoybeingmewhenIaminyourpresence. Idon'tknowifyouhavenoticedthis,butyouchangedependingonwho youare spending timewith. Some people draw out one facet of your personality while other people drawoutadifferentfacetofyourpersonality.Likeadiamondwithmany facets, the light you reflect back at others changes depending on your surroundings. "Somepeoplearesomuchsunshinepersquareinch." ~WaltWhitman Thisquotecapturessomuchtruth.IpersonallylikemyselfbetterwhenI aminthecompanyofpeoplewhohavethatspecial"sunshine"quality. The sunshine quality is very different than Stephanie's silly quality. You canbereservedinyourdemeanoryetbeamingwithsunshineassomeone approachesyou tostrike up aconversation. It's not that I like a sunny kind of person more than I like a sad person. I lovethemboth;butIlikemyselfbetterwhenIspendtimewithawoman whohas thatspecial sortof "sunshine" quality. Here's the number-one reason why I think you should consider how a potentialpartnerbringsoutvariousfacetsofyourownpersonality.My reasoningis reflectedin the quotebelow. "Livelifeasamonumenttoyoursoul." ~AynRand IwantmysoultoshineasIlivemylife.Therefore,Iwanttochoosea partnerwho willhelp mysoul togenuinely shine. Doesthismakesensetoyou?Doyouonlylookatthequalitiesand characteristics of a potential partner? Or do you consider how they magnifyordullthe radianceofyourown bestqualities? RelationshipSuccessIsPredictable VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

7. Beingsuccessfulinrelationships(inanything,really)issimple:justmake theright decision atevery turn. Oneofthedelightsofmycareerhasbeenmeetingpeoplewhocan actually do this. And here's what differentiates really good decision-makersfromtherestofus.Pattern recognition. Some people just seem to have a knack for getting what they want out of life.Butit'snotjustluck.Thesepeoplehavelearnedtorecognizepatterns. Andwhenyoucanseepatternsunfoldingaroundyou,it'salmostasif you'vebeen giventhe abilitytopredict thefuture. So I'll say it again. What separates exceptional decision-makers from the restofusispatternrecognition.Thisistheabilitytoseepatterns.Patterns that give you the power to see the invisible framework that causes things tohappen. I'll show you how this applies to your relationship in just a minute. But first,takeamomenttorecognizesomethingimportant.Peopleusepattern recognitionall the time. Whatmakesahighschoolstudentthestarfootballquarterback?It'shis ability to almost instantly recognize patterns on the field and make split-seconddecisionsbased onpattern recognition. What allows a world-renowned physician to make a diagnosis that others missed?Hehearsthesamelistofsymptoms,buthisdeeperknowledgeof anillnessallowshimtospotpatternsotherdoctorsdidn'trecognize. Howdidyoulearntochangetherouteyoudrivetoworkdependingonthe time of day? You noticed traffic patterns that allow you to avoid congestionand take alternateroutes. Here'sthepoint.Patternrecognitionallowsyoutogetmoreofwhatyou want. Theabilitytospotemergingpatternsinyourrelationshipmaybethemost criticalskill of all. It'snotexperience.It'snotmemory.It'snotintelligence. It'spatternrecognition.Becauseitallowsyoutocreateyourownluck. Buthere'sthereallyinterestingthing.Youcandeliberatelyimproveyour patternrecognitiontogetmuchbetterresultsinyourrelationships. Andperhapstheeasiestwaytodosoistostudythepatternsotherpeople VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

8. havealreadydiscovered.Itworksbetterandfasterthantrialanderror.havealreadydiscovered.Itworksbetterandfasterthantrialanderror. The fact is, you already use pattern recognition all the time. Without even realizingit,youcombinepastexperiences,intuition,andcommonsenseto predict what will happen next. And you can do so with a fair degree of accuracy. Theproblemis,muchofyourintuitionandcommonsenseis gender-specific. Meaning it is based on your own personal experiences in relationshipsasawoman.Soitoftenfailsyouwhenyoutrytounderstand andpredictwhatapersonoftheoppositegenderisthinkingandfeeling. That'swhereIcanhelp. Patternrecognitioncanbelearned.It'saskillyoucankeepgettingbetter at for the rest of your life. A great place to start is by learning to spot the patternsother peoplehave alreadyidentified. Thisstretchesyourmindinagoodway.Itcausesyourmindtostart recognizing other patterns that are more subtle and unique to your relationship. Let's take a look at three relationship patterns. I've specifically selected thesepatternsforwomenwhowanttogetmoreromanticinvestmentfrom aman.Think ofthese patternsas maleattraction triggers. The3PatternsThatUnlockHisPassionandRomanticDesire I'mgoingtoshowyouthreepatternsthataffecthowpeoplethinkandfeel. As you'll see for yourself, each of these patterns is very simple. There's no rocketscience here. In fact, the first one applies to both men and women. So you'll probably recognizethisfirstpatternfromyourpersonalexperience.Butthesecond two patterns have to do with the way men experience relationships and emotiondifferently. All three of the following patterns build on each other. They become somethingthatisgreaterthanthesumoftheirparts.Stickwithmeand you'll develop a very useful insight about the way the man in your life thinksand feels. TheHappinessPattern Peoplearehappiestwhenmakingprogress. Anditdoesn'tmatterhowtinyorincrementalyourprogressis.Aslongas VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

9. you feel like you're making progress, your brain is designed to release feelingsofhappiness.It'slikeabuilt-inrewardsystemdesignedtokeep youinterestedwhen somethingseems tobe working. And the funny thing is, progress is more important than goal attainment. Inotherwords,peoplearehappierwhentheyaremakingprogresstoward agoal thanthey areafter havingachieved the goal. Yes,there'salwaysalittlefeelingofcelebrationafteryoureachagoal. And that glow of positivity can stick with you for a few hours or a few days,depending onhow importantthe milestone. Butintheend,thatpositivefeelingfades.Becauseyougetusedtoyour newcircumstance. Buthappyfeelingswillreturnassoonasyousetanewgoalandstart makingprogress again. Have you noticed this pattern in your own moods? Many people don't noticeit.Butnumerouspsychologicalstudieshaveproventhistobea veryreliablepattern forpredicting humanhappiness. Ifyouwanttobehappy,setagoal,andmakeitaverysmallgoal.Gofor incrementalprogress. Young children play computer games because of the way these games regularly deliver a sense of satisfaction. And that satisfaction comes from makingregularprogress.Theymakeprogressbygettingfromonelevelto another,bygaining points,or bywinning smallbattles. Infact,thisiswhythemodernerahasseentheemergenceofanewform ofaddiction: video gameaddiction. Video games are designed to deliver little doses of happiness. Because there'salwaysalittlegoalrightinfrontofyou.Therewardsmaybetiny, butthey are nearlycontinuous. Now consider this. Society and genetics have wired men to pursue achievementasawayofgainingapproval.Andthatpartlyexplainswhya manonlyfeelshappyifhe'smakingincrementalprogresstowardagoal. Thisiswhymanywomenhavesuccessfullyusedthe"playinghardtoget" strategy. Theyentice aman withthe hunt,tapping intohis instinctual driveto pursuesomething just outof reach. Buthowdoesitallend?Whathappensoncehefinallycapturesyourlove andaffection?Sadly,theintensityoftherelationshipoften fades. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

10. Now here's the good news. There is a never-ending way to engage your man'sdrivetopursueyou.Andwe'llcomebacktothatinjustaminute. Butfirst, let'sexamine another pattern. ManonaMission Ifaguyhasfeelingsforyou,he'sgoingtowanttomakeyouhappy.But there'sa problem withthat. Thegoalistoovague.Andhe'snotexactlysurehowtoaccomplishit. Plus, guys aren't that good at predicting what will actually make you happy.Becausetheirpatternrecognitionmostlytellsthemwhatmakesa guy happy. They don't have very sophisticated models when it comes to theopposite gender. Asaresult,menoftenfeelfrustratedinromanticrelationships.Sometimes theygetgrumpywithyouasifit'syourfaulttheycan'tmakeyouhappy. He'sfrustratedbecausehe'snotgettingthelittlejoltsofhappinessthat comefrom making progress. Imaginea14-year-oldgirlfleeingawar-torncountry.She'salone,andshe onlyhasafewpossessionsinthesmallbackpackshecarrieswithher. Imagineherplightasshetriestofigureoutwhattodouponarrivingalone ina foreign country. Nowtrytoimaginetheplightofmillionsofpeoplefleeingfroma war-torn nation. It's not quite as easy, is it? And I bet you don't feel the sametugofempathyonyourheartwhenyoutrytoimaginemillionsof people,do you? Whyisthat?It'sbecauseourcapacityforfeelingempathydeclinesasour abilityto offermeaningful help declines. Thisisapatternofthehumanmind.Apsychologicaleffectcalled "compassioncollapse." And here's why it's important. This phenomenon is much stronger for men.Becausemenarenaturallylessempatheticthanwomentostartwith. Here'sthepatternIwantyoutorecognize... Amanwilldrifttowardnotcaringunlessyoutriggerhisempathy.And you can trigger his empathy by giving him ways to please you that are specific,concrete, andeasy topicture inhis mind. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

11. Doing so triggers feelings of happiness, because now it feels like he's makingprogress.He'llfeelexcitedabouttherelationshiphe'sbuilding withyou. Hewill feelmore emotionallyinvested. Nowletmeputthisinperspectiveforyou.Thetruthis,menenjoybeing on a mission, no matter how small. So you don't need to think up some elaborateplotto activatehis mission-focusedenergy. A problem can be very insignificant, but still trigger his mission-focused instincts.LestyouthinkI'mexaggerating,letmeshareanexampleofjust how insignificant a mission can be while still bringing about a change in malebehavior. First, some background information. "Splash back" is the technical term for the mess men leave behind as urine splashes out of urinals and ends up onthefloorandwallsofabathroom.Asyoucanprobablyimagine,splash backis thebane of everycustodian's existence. In fact, that's probably what inspired Jos Van Bedaf, a custodian in Amsterdam'sShipholAirport,todoalittleexperiment.Hehadtheideato put a small decal with a picture of a fly in each of the urinals, to create a sortof "targetpractice" for themen usingthem. Did it work? You bet. It cut the amount of splash back in half. Some estimatessayitreducessplashbackby80%.Allbecausetheygavemena targetto aim for. Wouldithaveworkedtojustnicelyaskmentoaimmorecarefully?No. Becauseitwouldnothavetriggeredhismission-orientedbraintocare. Andapparently,theflypictureisparticularlyeffectiveasatarget,because men see it as something unsanitary and unconsciously think a stream of pee will kill it. Guys always respond well to the opportunity to be on a mission. I know this example is a little gross. Sorry about that. But I shared it becauseit'salsokindoffunny.ParticularlybecauseIknowitwouldwork onme. Plus,thisexampleillustratesabroadertruthabouthowmenthinkand react. Show a man any kind of target, and he'll feel eager to prove his worth.Justmakesureit'satargethecaneasilyseeandunderstand. Watchforthispatterninthemanyoulove.Onceyoubegintolookforit, you'll see it all the time. You'll begin to recognize how powerfully it impacts his choices and motivates his behavior. He wants to be on a mission. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

12. Doesitinfluencehisrelationshipwithyou?Youbet!Andthat'swhyI wanttoshowyouonemoresecretabouthowthemalemindworks. TheAttractionTrip-WireThatAwakensaMan'sDeepestLongingfor Love TripWire:"Ahiddentriggerthatsetsoffoneormoreexplosiveevents." Deepwithintheheartofeverymanisanintenselongingtobesomeone's hero. Thislonginghasancientorigins. Yousee,thecauseofthislongingiswrittenintotheveryfabricofhis DNA. And there it lies, dormant... until one day, the right trigger unleashesits power. I'dliketoshowyouhowtobecomethattrigger,andhowtoawakenthe fullforce ofyour man's bondinginstinct. ThePowerOfStory Butfirst,astory.It'sthestoryofhumanconnection. Before we can care deeply about someone, we must know something abouttheirlifestory.Becausestoriesevokeempathy.Storiesallowusto pictureourselves insomeone else's shoes. Storiesformthefoundationofallhumanconnection.Theycreatethe sensationof oneshared life experience. It'sstrange,buttrue,thatwecanevenfindourselvesrootingforthieves and criminals as long as we see their story unfold. Movies like Ocean's ElevenandTheItalian Jobillustrate this well. InthemovieOcean'sEleven,actorsGeorgeClooney,BradPitt,andMatt Damon make for a cast of likable thieves. But beyond their good looks, weget pulled intothe story. Wediscoverwhat'sdrivingDannyOcean'smotivationtorobacasino.A casinothatjusthappenstobe ownedbyhisex-wife'snew lover. We can empathize with Danny Ocean's pain. And by the end of the movie, weareactuallyrootingforhimtogetawaywithit.Tostealthemoneyand disappearintothe sunsetwith hisex-wife Tessbyhis side. Perhapsstrangerstillisthewaywerespondtofictioninthefirstplace.A skillednovelistcanhavemeontheedgeofmyseat,rootingforaperson VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

13. whodoesn'tevenexistinreallife. Literary critics may scoff, but I actually liked the Twilight series by StephanieMeyer.Ithinkmyhandwasactuallytremblingfromadrenaline astheVolturibegantomarchacrossthefield,intentondestroyingBella's daughter. Butwait,that'sallmake-believe.Sohowcoulditcauseaphysicalreaction inmy body? Theanswer,ofcourse,isthepowerofstory. Since ancient times, stories have been the primary means by which humanscommunicatedimportantinformation.Becauseofthat,ourminds areliterally wired forstory. Storiesinfluenceouremotions.Theyareattheheartofcommunication. Allowingus tofeel connected toeach other. WhenIreachtheendofmylife,IknowwhichpeopleIwillwantbymy side.Itwill bethose whohave witnessedmy lifestory. The friendly, pretty nurse may be a wonderful person. But if she is a strangertome,itdoesn'tmatterwhatpositiveattributesshehas.Iwillstill feelalone.Becauseshedoesnotknowmystory,andIdonotknowhers. Knowingthisinstinctively,shewillexpendgreatefforttoquickly summonmyfriendsandfamily.Thepeoplewhoknowmystory. To trigger a man's deepest feelings of attraction, you need to become a specialpartofhisstory.Youdothatbyrevealingyourneedsandallowing himtohelpyoumeetthem.Why?Becauseittriggershisheroinstinct. Here'stheformulafortriggeringaman'sheroinstinct: Story+Need=ActivatedHeroInstinct. Aman'sheroinstinctcompelshimtoseekarelationshipthatletshimtake on the role of a provider. That's why guys fall for women who know how totrigger this attractiontripwire. Itsetsoffaseriesofreactionsinhisemotionalworld.Itmakeshimhappy in a way that's hard for women to understand. Because they do not share hisdeeply rootedinstinct tobecome someone'shero. Many women are vaguely aware of a man's desire to see himself as a provider.Theyunderstand,forexample,whyhemaybecomedepressed andpullawayfrom othersduringaperiodof unemployment. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession

14. Butthesesamewomenfailtorecognizethepoweroftheoppositeeffect...Butthesesamewomenfailtorecognizethepoweroftheoppositeeffect... Makeamanfeellikeyourhero,andyouunleashhisdesiretocommitto somethingmore.Hecan'thelpit.Hejuststartstoseeyoudifferently. It'sasifyourrelationshipunlocksaversionofhimselfhehasalways longedfor.It feelsrightin awayhe can'tputinto words. Itunleasheshisprotectiveinstincts,thenobleaspectsofhismasculinity, and,mostimportantly,hisdeepestfeelingsofloveandattraction. Ifthatsoundsgoodtoyou,clickheretolearnmoreaboutthisrelationship enhancement tool. It's something you can learn once, but then use for the restof your life. Youalreadyhaveneedsanddesires.Whynotlearnhowtotranslatethose desiresinto requeststhat triggerhis heroinstinct? Thenrelaxintothewarmthandpassionheisonlycapableofshowingtoa woman who has triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly howtobecome thecentralcharacter inhisemotional world. --- Ready to put this idea to use? Great! Because I've recorded an online videotoshowyouasetoftriggersyoucanusetogetexplosiveresults withthisonesimpletechnique.Clickherenowtoseeforyourself. After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn a man can actuallyfeelmoredeeplyinlovewhenhefeelsmoredeeplyneeded.That seemsstrange,doesn't it?Andyet thatis therealityfor men. Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receiveourselves.Itcanbelikethatwithlove.Wetrytoloveourpartner theway we wantto be loved. Soyoumakehimfeelspecial.Yetheseemsunaffectedbythat.Youspeak yourownnativelovelanguagetohim.Apparently,hespeaksanother. ButI'mheretotellyouaboutoneincredible,universalmethodyoucan usetograb hisattention bytriggering hisheroinstinct. Clickherenowtodiscoveranunfairadvantagethatworkswithallmen,in everyphase oflife. Helphim finallysee youas theone. VisitourFreePresentationonhowtobecomeHisSecretObsession