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Supporting F amilies T hrough The Trauma of Recovery. Burr Cook - RN, CAS II, NCAC, BRI-II Family Intervention Now & The Center For Family Recovery. Stages of Recovery. Stage One: Drinking /Using Stage Stage Two: Transition Stage-from drinking/using to abstinence

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supporting f amilies t hrough the trauma of recovery

Supporting Families Through The Trauma of Recovery

Burr Cook - RN, CAS II, NCAC, BRI-II

Family Intervention Now

&

The Center For Family Recovery

stages of recovery
Stages of Recovery
  • Stage One: Drinking /Using Stage
  • Stage Two: Transition Stage-from drinking/using to abstinence
  • Stage Three: Early recovery
  • Stage Four: Ongoing recovery
  • Brown/lewis
slide3

Characteristics of the Family Impacted by Addiction

  • Hyper-Vigilance/Hyper-Sensitivity
  • Unspoken Rules
  • Doubting of Perceptions
  • Fear of Normal Conflict
  • Survival Roles
  • “Open” Secrets
  • Rigid Short-Term Crisis Focus
  • Boundaries are porous within family/rigid externally
  • Dominated by defenses/anxieties/ tensions / chronic trauma
  • Pre-occupation/focus on addict/using
  • Shame
  • Denial
  • Pre-occupied with “control”
  • Inconsistency & Insecurity
  • Emotional cycling to extremes
  • Communication(none, indirect, looped, repetitive reactive/defensive)
  • Interaction chaotic/avoidant
slide4

Anger Rage

Pain Abandonment

Co-Addiction..

B. Maher-interventioncenter.com

Frustration - mistrust

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Shame

Disappointment

structure and process in the addicted family system
Structure and Process in the addicted family system:
  • Rules: tend to be rigid, arbitrary and protective of addiction and core beliefs around the family's behavior.
  • Roles: generally inflexible, adaptive, serve to hold family and system together.
  • Rituals: generally include alcohol/drugs. With progression of disease, can be a source of “dread for families”.
  • Boundaries: overly porous, enmeshed within the family and rigid outside the family.
  • Hierarchies: In place, rigid- anyone who challenges drinking behavior is seen as disloyal, “less than” other family members.

Brown/Lewis-FIN

structure and process in the addicted family system cont
Structure and Process in the addicted family system cont.-
  • Communication: Typically defensive/avoiding reality that might threaten denial. Underlying environment of fear discourages honesty/spontaneity .
  • Interaction: Can be tentative or confrontational-system ruled by impulse. Does not allow connectionorseparation. Members can experience both enmeshment and isolation, choice becomes of extremes.
  • Stability: tends to be unstable and inflexible and easily thrown off balance by unexpected or traumatic events.
  • Change: resisted at all costs, denial, anxiety and shame keep members gravitating toward what’s familiar.

One or more members in system must break through denial and “hit bottom” before change can occur……………….

Brown/Lewis-FIN

family recovery stage 1 addiction
Family Recovery Stage 1 (addiction)
  • Family Environment: Anxious, unsafe, chronic/acute trauma, tension, shame, chaos, emphasis on control (denial!), inconsistent and unpredictable
  • Family System:Isolated, chaotic, reactive/defensive

inconsistent boundaries, unhealthy communication patterns, rules and roles subordinate to addiction-struggle for control

  • Individual: Maintains unhealthy beliefs, behavior and emotions to support the system, sacrifices individual development to preserve the family system

Individual and family energy directed at maintaining denial & core beliefs, there is no problem, invent rationalizations/explanations for addicted reality and to cover up and protect family secret

Family Intervention Now Stephanie Brown

tasks support drinking stage 1
Tasks/Support: Drinking Stage 1

“This is addiction (or co-addiction)”

“It is out of control”

“I/we are out of control”

Brown/Lewis- FIN

Family Member(s)

Supporting professional

Support therapeutic alliance

Support challenge of denial by

acknowledging realities of

addiction.

Provide appropriate referrals

Patience

Break denial

family recovery stage 2 transition abstinence
Family Recovery stage 2(Transition - abstinence)
  • Environment: anxious, chaotic, “feels” unsafe, chronic and acute trauma- beginning of “trauma of recovery”
  • System: in a state of collapse, chaotic, may be highly defensive - shift towards external support (therapy, 12 step, family programs etc.)
  • Individual: shift from family focus to individual focus. Confusion, depression, fear, anger and abandonment. Intense feelings of loss of control. Dominated by impulses (“I want to divorce this family!....)
  • Family Intervention Now Stephanie Brown
tasks for transition
Tasks for transition
  • Break through denial
  • Realize family life is out of control
  • Begin and continue to challenge core beliefs
  • Allow addicted system to collapse
  • Shift focus from family to individual
  • Begin detachment and recovery for individuals
  • Enlist outside support
  • Education on addiction, codependency, enabling, healthy communication and boundaries
  • Learn new abstinent thinking and behaviors Brown-Lewis
  • Brown-Lewis/FIN
treatment in transition stage
Treatment in Transition Stage

Impatient treatment allows for the family and addict a break from the addictive environment.

Focus shifts from preserving the addictive system toward family/ individual recovery.

Personal growth is now possible as the family is detached from addict and has a chance to focus on themselves.

Little or no contact during treatment until clinically indicated is advisable.

Process of self discovery.

LVRC

supporting families in the transition stage
Supporting families in the transition stage
  • Supporting professional needs to have a clear understanding of addictive system dynamics and the challenges individual family members face when making the transition to recovery.
  • A “vacuum” is created as the addicted system collapses- the trauma of addiction is replaced by the trauma of recovery.
  • External support can provide a systematic process for healthy growth and an anchor for the individuals in this traumatic period

Brown/Lewis-FIN

transition stage support
Transition Stage support:
  • Assess family Hx /dynamics
  • Education on addiction/co-addiction and it’s impact on family
  • Education on recovery and what family can expect-realistic expectations. Encourage patience –internalizing reality of transition takes time….
  • Emphasize individual reliance on outside supports (AA, NA, Ala/Nar anon, family/children’s programs, therapy, workshops, tx. centers etc.)
  • FIN-Brown/Lewis
transition support cont
Transition Support cont.
  • Continue to support in challenge of denial and self defeating core-beliefs/behaviors
  • Collaborate on strategies to re-direct impulses and reframe anxiety
  • Help member to identify triggers/explore choices & balanced responses to problem solving
  • Utilize and reinforce the “language of recovery”
  • Encourage working on “self” vs. “relationship” and support creation of individual boundaries to support self focus

Brown/Lewis-FIN

stage 3 early recovery
Stage 3: Early Recovery
  • Environment: hope mixed with tension and some anxiety, depression/confusion, moving from unsafe to safe
  • System: still chaotic, but moving toward stability and health. Recovery organizes the system; less dominated by impulses; Parallel recovery*/lives focused on external support (AA, Alanon, Coda, aftercare group, therapy)
  • Individual: New recovery identity, sense of self development and sense of recovery values, intense self-examination May still experience periodic depression/anxiety.

Family Intervention Now Stephanie Brown

tasks for early recovery
Tasks for early recovery…

Steady abstinence, new attitudes, behaviors and thinking becoming integrated – focus on individual development takes precedence over family system…...

  • Cont. detachment/reduced focus on family
  • Maintain close contact with external supports
  • Cont. to learn and practice recovery language/

abstinent behaviors and thinking

  • Stabilize individual identities: “I am addict/co-addict and I cannot control my using/the addict”
  • Break denial over the past
  • Maintain parenting responsibilities
  • Brown/Lewis
early recovery
Early Recovery

Not typically as traumatic as the transition stage but……

Fear of relapse of addict/co-addict is common,

Emerging emotions can cause feelings of loss of control

“surrendering” feels superficial at first-can provoke anxiety, once internalized it allows recovery to take it’s coarse……

Old system still collapsed/collapsing-reliance on external support crucial……

Brown/Lewis-FIN

early recovery support
Early Recovery Support
  • assist in exploring long term solutions/strategies

over short term “fixes”

  • Communication/Boundaries workshops*
  • Help explore realities of drinking/transition stage (system, environment, thought, attitudes and behaviors)*
  • Explore realities of new recovering identity*
  • Reinforce use of recovery language/principals
  • Challenge attitudes/defenses/behaviors that threaten relapse

Brown/Lewis FIN

stage 4 ongoing recovery
Stage 4: Ongoing Recovery
  • Environment:stable, predictable and consistent. Not organized or dominated by crisis or trauma. Supports abstinence; comfortable, secure and safe.
  • System: stable/healthy new system organized by recovery principals. Capacity for self and system focus- “I” and “we” without sacrificing either. (Sobriety without recovery = no system change, likely unhealthy).
  • Individual: stable individual recovery-behavior/identity secure. Capacity for interpersonal focus, combine “I” and “we”. Spiritual development; shift from external control to internal (higher power). Intensive self examination and development.

Stephanie Brown

ongoing recovery tasks
Ongoing Recovery Tasks
  • Continue abstinent behavior
  • Continue and expand addict/co-addict identities
  • Maintain individual recovery program/12 steps –internalize 12 step principals-deepen spirituality
  • Work through consequences of addiction/

Co-addiction to self and family

  • Add focus on couple, parenting and family issue’s
  • Balance/integrate combined individual and family recoveries
  • Brown/Lewis
ongoing recovery support
Ongoing Recovery support

While the need for professional ongoing recovery support may be minimal/unnecessary at this stage, family members experiencing ongoing problems with past or present issue’s/ trauma’s may need:

Referrals to professional support when appropriate

Support in challenging defenses-self defeating or unhealthy behaviors

Encouragement to deepen self-exploration

Monitoring for signs of relapse and re-evaluation of personal recovery program

Brown/FIN

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Supporting Families Through The Trauma of Recovery

Burr Cook - RN, CAS II, NCAC, BRI-II

Family Intervention Now

&

The Center For Family Recovery