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Key features for a secure relationship in family life

For a secure Relationship in family life Multiinfomatrimonial.com the No.1.Tamil Matrimony Website with lakhs of Brides and Grooms provides some Key Features for Tamil people to lead a Happy and prosperous family life.

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Key features for a secure relationship in family life

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  1. Key Features for a Secure Relationship in Family Life Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  2. The Key Features For a Secure Relationship in The Family are: • Better Communication • Sex • Money • Struggles Over Home Chores • Making Your Relationship a Priority • Conflict • Trust Each Other www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  3. Better Communication • Make an actual appointment with each other. If you live • together, put the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed, • and let voicemail pick up your calls. • If you can’t “communicate” without raising your voices, go to a public spot like the • library, park or restaurant where you’d be embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming. • Set up some rules — like not interrupting until the other is through or • banning phrases such as “You always …” or “You never … www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  4. Sex Even partners who love each other can be incompatible sexually. Mary Jo Fay, author of Please Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual self-awareness and education compounds these problems. Yet, having sex is one of the last things you should be giving up, Fay says. “Sex,” she says, “brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy”. www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  5. Money • Discuss and Share Your Financial Goals • Make a Joint Spending Plan • Find a Comfortable Balance • Save Room For Your Love • Be Honest About Spending • Manage Money As a Couple • Being Broke Ain’t a Joke • Discuss Credit Fears and History www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  6. Struggles Over Home Chores • Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So it’s important to fairly divide the Labourat home. To solve the issues raised by the struggles over home chores • Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the home. Write all the jobs down and agree on who does what. Be fair: Make sure each partner’s tasks are equitable so no resentment builds. • Be open to other solutions, If you both hate housework, maybe you can appoint a maid. www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  7. Making Your Relationship a Priority • If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal • point should not end when you say “I do” Experts would say • “Relationships lose their luster, So make yours a priority” To solve the • issues • Make gestures of appreciation, complement each other, contact each • other through the day, and show interest in each other. • Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other • important event in your life. • Respect one another. Say “ Thank you ” and “ I Appreciate ….” • It lets your partner know that he or she matters. www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

  8. Conflict • Occasional conflict is an inevitable part of life. But if you and your partner feel like you are starring in your own nightmare version, it’s time to break free of this toxic routine. When you make the effort, you can reduce the anger and take a calm look at underlying issue. • Be honest with yourself. When you’re in the midst of an argument, are your comments directed toward resolution, or are you looking for payback? If your comments are blaming and hurtful, it’s best to take a deep breath and change your strategy. • Give a little; get a lot. Apologize when you’re wrong. Sure it’s tough, but just try it and watch something wonderful happen. • “You can’t control anyone else’s behaviour, The only one in your charge is you.”

  9. Trust each other • Call to say you’ll be home late. • Carry your fair share of the workload. • Don’t overreact when things go wrong. • Never say things you can’t take back. • Don’t dig up old wounds. Respect your partner’s boundaries. • Don’t be jealous. • Be a good listener. • Be consistent. • Be on time. • Do what you say you will do. • Don’t lie not even little white lies to your partner or to others. • Be fair, even in an argument. • Be sensitive to the other’s feelings. • You can still disagree, but don’t discount how your partner is feeling. • Call when you say you will. www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

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  11. Thankyou For more details visit www.multiinfomatrimonial.com www.Multiinfomatrimonial.com

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