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Communicating With Your Teen

Communicating With Your Teen. Something to think about… Think of role models or mentors who had a positive effect on your behavior and feelings. What did these people do to have this effect?

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Communicating With Your Teen

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  1. Communicating With Your Teen • Something to think about… • Think of role models or mentors who had a positive effect on your behavior and feelings. What did these people do to have this effect? • Now think of a time when someone, especially someone you expected to care, did something to have a negative effect on your behavior or feelings. What did this person do or not do?

  2. Communicating With Your Teen • The way you talk with your teenager affects the way they feel about themselves. • When you talk to your teen in helpful ways, they feel good about themselves and about others. • When you talk in harmful ways to your teen, they feel bad about themselves and about others.

  3. Communicating With Your Teen • Let your teen know you accept them through your words and actions… • Letyour teen know you accept them – no matter what! • Acceptance is love. • You can accept your teen just as they are, as a person of value, even though you may not approve of certain behaviors. • Acceptance doesn’t mean approval.

  4. Communicating With Your Teen • Tips for talking and listening with your teen • Take time to talk with your teen regularly, not just when you are mad or you need something. • Listen more than you talk… and pay attention! • Really listen and value what your teen tells you. Sometimes teens just need someone to listen and not a lecture.

  5. Communicating With Your Teen • Let you teen know that they can confide and trust in you. • Praise your teen and give them positive encouragement. • Share your values, concerns and interests. • Try not to argue with, preach to, criticize, or nag you teen.

  6. Communicating With Your Teen What is the importance of good communication? • Good communication helps teenagers develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others. It makes life with them more pleasant. • Learning to talk with teenagers in a helpful way may be difficult, but it is worth the effort.

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