Unrequited limerence

1.  Join the limerence.net community Ruth and I are delighted that you are thinking of getting more support to help you manage your journey with limerence. On this page we give more details on what we o몭er and how the parts work as a whole to give you the best 몭ghting chance of minimising the fall out of this condition. We have built this community over the past 10 years based on our experiences as a married couple of more than 3 decades, as psychotherapists and coaches and also as people that have both had to manage their own journeys through limerence.  Limerence really is the mother of all battles and in our experience, the more support you get, the better.  And even better if its from fellow limerents who will really understand your struggles. It’s hard to know the agony of limerence unless you’ve been through it your self.  In this amazing community you will 몭nd many others who have walked a similar path – some are in front of you are there are likely some behind you. Some maybe on di몭erent paths however we are all heading in a similar direction – one of personal growth and wanting to be better versions of ourselves. Got any questions? I'm happy to help.

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3.   THE ORIGINS OF THE LIMERENCE.NET FORUM Limerence.net originally started out as a forum to help others. At that time there was only one other forum for limerence su몭ers called Tribes.limerence.net. Tribes was a community platform where anyone could easily create a group for any interest that too their fancy. The limerence community was created in 2008 by Meowbie and we have posted his story here. I came across the Tribe community in 2010 and found it a life saver.  However the reliability of the service began to su몭er and there were increasing outages. I started to panic wondering what would happen if that lifeline crashed and that was the motivation to start up a parallel forum. I took some heat in the early days with people claiming I was trying to draw away members.  My intuition which normally serves me well, was correct. In around 2015 the Tribe system collapsed completely. If you want to read more about Tribe and its founders, see this article here. 

4. Since its inception in 2014, the forum has grown to nearly 3,000 members. we also know that for every person that registers, many more lurk. Given challenges with the sensitive nature of limerence and the shame most people feel, we took the step to only allow registered users to see the forums.  Since the form was formed, we have not charged for access and self funded the expansion and maintenance. In 2021 Ruth and I decided to up our game as we had left the forum to drift whilst we focussed on growing our LoveRelations business  and create a more secure part of the forum where we will take a more active role in contributing to member’s posts.  A signi몭cant part of the forum  is still free to access whilst the more secure areas require a silver Membership plan.    Click to register for free forum Over the years David has been writing numerous articles about his experience with limerence. More latterly he has expanded his writings to the expereince he has gained through working as a psychotherapist and coach with clients struggling with their own limerence.  this has grown into a library of over 100 articles with at least 2 articles a week being added.  The articles are catalogued by date and searchable. Click to read articles Alongside the articles, we are also building a repository of Youtube videos and podcasts. Our aim is to make this the best free resource available for understanding and healing from limerence. Some of the videos and podcasts relate to other relationship issues, as afterall we are also couple’s counsellors and relationship coaches and have much to o몭er in these arenas too!

5. Click to view videos Click to listen to podcasts Overcome limerence in our guided video series When 몭rst discovered that there is a word that describes what you are likely experiencing, it can be overwhelming in knowing where to start. There is now such a wealth of information available, however its not structured in a systematic way and it can all be confusing.  If you want a more structured and guided way to work through  recovery from limerence, I have created a multi-module structures video training series along with worksheets and links to other relevant information. Below you will 몭nd information on the contents of each of the 4 modules. these have been created from the thousands of hours of expereince I have accumulated from helping others. When you consider my hourly coaching rate runs to hundreds of dollars per hour, you really are getting exceptional value! And we o몭er a 14 day money back guarantee.  If you are not satis몭ed for any reason, we will refund you your full amount. 

10. Silver and Gold membership - more tailored support  

11. For the cost of just a few co몭ees a month, you can now get direct access to world class limerence support which includes direct access to one of the most knowledgeable therapists on the subject.  I will hold your hand as you take your early steps through limerence recovery. I have walked a similar path and can relate to the turmoil in the early days. Silver membership gives access to all the limerence.net forums.  I only spend my time in these forums so if you want my input you will need to join up. As a Silver member, you will also receive membership to the limernece.net private facebook groups. The men’s group is moderated by myself and the Women’s group by Ruth.  Gold membership gives you all the bene몭ts of silver and you can also join the exclusive fortnightly 90 minute zoom webinars where I and/or Ruth host a topic and have time for questions and answers. Members can join anonymously and can just listen and ask questions using the chat facility of zoom. Membership is on a monthly basis and can be cancelled at any time. Please note it can take upto 24 hours to grant you access to the silver member forums., although it is usually much quicker and in many cases immediate.  At the moment we cannot automate the process and have to manually add you to the silver forums.  Please do not change your username, we will ask for this in the con몭rmation email of your subscription as it will be required to add your forum privileges. 

12. For those wanting the best limerence support available If resources are not an issue, than you may be interested in joining our platinum membership program. This is for those individuals and couples that really are looking for the best of the best support available when it comes to limerence.  Gold members receive all the bene몭ts of gold membership plus a lot more. Crucially you will receive direct private one to one coaching / therapy from either David or Ruth.   Face to face one to one sessions with either David or Ruth. These can be via zoom or if you live close enough or can travel and want intensive support. We work with clients from our dedicated therapy centre. We are based just north of London in the UK.  Click here for our contact details. All gold members receive  ongoing support between sessions via email and Voxer voice communication. Use of our coaching monitoring portal to monitor and keep track of your progress. Complimentary access to the online video training series with early access to new content. We work only 3 days a week and have a busy practice and we only work with a select number of clients. If you are interested in understanding more on how we work and to see if this could be a good 몭t for you, we recommend booking an initial exploratory session with either myself or Ruth. The link is below. We also work as a couple with couples through our LoveRelations practice.  The link here will take you to the booking page for a couple’s exploratory with both of us.

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