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Care for the Spirit

This workshop provides an introduction to the PAIRS ESSENTIAL program, exploring key concepts such as empathy, compassion, and bonding. Learn about the language of love, stress styles of communication, and constructive conflict resolution techniques. Join us to enhance your emotional literacy and build healthier relationships.

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Care for the Spirit

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  1. Care for the Spirit An Introduction to PAIRS ESSENTIAL Workshop Can you hear me now?!!

  2. A Brief History of the Formation of PAIRS • A Brief History of the Warrior to Soul Mate Program Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!!

  3. Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!! Key Concepts: • Good Will • Empathy • Compassion • Bonding • Relationship Road Map

  4. PAIN Anger Sadness Hurt Fear PLEASURE Happiness Joy Serenity Love Our Future WB-16

  5. Relationship Road Map IThe Logic of Emotion and Bonding DIS-EASEDISTRESSDISTRUST UNHAPPINESS PAIN DANGER FEAR/ANGER BIOLOGICALLY BASED NEEDSAir – Food – Water – ShelterBONDING(Emotional Openness/Physical Closeness) EASEEU-STRESSTRUST HAPPINESS PLEASURE DESIRE LOVE WB-17

  6. The Language of Love“BONDING” In the context of PAIRS, bonding represents the biologically-based human need for the combination of emotional openness and physical closeness with another person. WB-9

  7. Laying the Foundation “The Heart of Intimacy • Levels of Learning • Three Hopes – Three Fears • Stages of Relationships • Relationship Roadmap • Leveling/Congruent Style • Daily Temperature Reading • Talking Tips • The Love Bank Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!!

  8. Stress Styles of Communication The Computer The Placater or “People Pleaser” TheBlamer The Distracter WB-18

  9. Leveling Posture

  10. Daily Temperature Readingwith appreciation to Virginia Satir • Appreciations • New Information • Puzzles • Concerns with Recommendations • Wishes, Hopes, Dreams WB-23

  11. Session Two: Constructive Conflict • Emotional Stages of Development • Dirty Fighting • The Emotional Jug • Emptying the Emotional Jug • Fair Fight for Change Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!!

  12. PAIRS Emotional Jug - Blowing your Top -Popping Your Cork Leaks Through DIRTY FIGHTING: Sarcasm Ridiculing Threatening Accusing Labeling Taunting Laughing At Leaks Through DIRTY FIGHTING: Assuming Sneering Contempt Ignoring Blaming Stonewalling WB-36

  13. EMPTYING THE EMOTIONAL JUG WB-37

  14. Session Three: Emotional Literacy • Love Knots – Irrational Assumptions • Prowergram – Who Decides • Emotional Allergy Negative Infinity Loop • Confiding an Emotional Allergy • Transforming the Loop Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!!

  15. Questions?? Care for the Spirit : Can you hear me now?!!

  16. Chaplain Dick Millspaugh Email: uni4peas@gmail.com PAIRS Website: www.pairs.com

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