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The predicament of maintaining cleanliness in a shared living space can often lead to conflict, especially when commitments to keep the house tidy are broken. This guide explores how to communicate effectively with roommates to address these issues while preserving friendships. We discuss various approaches—aggressive, passive, passive-aggressive, and assertive—highlighting assertiveness as the most effective communication method. The goal is to achieve a resolution that leaves both parties satisfied, avoiding the pitfalls of win-lose or lose-lose outcomes.
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Dirty Little Roommates By:SKYLER LODER & brittany kinder.
The Predicament • Our roommate’s lack of commitment to the promise we made to keep the house clean.
The Underlying Problem • How do you avoid conflict in this situation or everyday situations with others you desire to maintain friendships with?
Plan of Attack • As roommates, we need to decide how we want to approach the others about the impending issue. • Aggressive • Passive • Passive-Aggressive • Assertive
Aggressive • Very radical way to express emotions. • Often the least productive option to resolve a disagreement.
Passive • Not willing to fight for what one wants. • Can be seen as being flaky or a pushover. • Ineffective.
Passive-Aggressive • Being nonchalant about an issue that bothers you, and expressing your emotions in annoying ways. • Don’t be Passive Aggressive • http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?videoId=222474&title=games-passive-aggressive-race&xrs=share_copy
Assertive • Overall best method of communication. • Typically expresses all emotions and resolves issue at the same time.
Resolution • Once the problem has been assessed, the outcome is determined.
Win-Lose • One sided victory. • Most common outcome of a conflict.
Win-Win • Outcome is favorable for both parties. • Jiffcommercial.
Lose-Lose • Outcome is dissatisfactory for both parties. • No one wins in a headbutt.