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Who Doesn’t Need Friends

Who Doesn’t Need Friends. John 15:9-17. Duncan & His New School. Question. What went wrong? Was Vince really Duncan’s friend? Why?. Scary Statistics. In 3,795 church teens throughout US & Canada 66% lied to a parent, teacher or other adult. 60% lied to their peers.

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Who Doesn’t Need Friends

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  1. Who Doesn’t Need Friends John 15:9-17

  2. Duncan & His New School

  3. Question • What went wrong? • Was Vince really Duncan’s friend? Why?

  4. Scary Statistics • In 3,795 church teens throughout US & Canada • 66% lied to a parent, teacher or other adult. • 60% lied to their peers. • 33% cheated in an exam. • 25% smoked a cigarette. • 20% tried to physically hurt someone. • 12% had gotten drunk. • 10% had used illegal, non-prescription drugs.

  5. Worldview of Friendship • someone who will support you • someone you can trust and who won’t judge you • someone who won’t put you down • someone who is kind and has respect for you • someone whose company you enjoy • someone who can laugh when you do • someone who is willing to stick around • someone who is there to listen • someone who will cry when you cry.

  6. Definition of Friendship • One who multiplies joys, divides grief, and whose honesty is inviolable. • One who understands our silence. • A volume of sympathy bound in cloth. • A watch that beats for all time and never runs down.

  7. The Winning Definition • A friend is someone who comes in when the whole world has gone out.

  8. Biblical View of Friendship • God is a relational God • God created us as relational beings • We cannot live alone • We need relationship

  9. Three Components of Friendship • Association • Loyalty • Affection

  10. Two Types of Friendship • Acquaintance • True Friendship

  11. Who is My True Friend?

  12. David & Jonathan

  13. Characteristics of Bad Friends • Fail to dissuade one from doing evil. • Lead one into sin. • Lead one to worship other gods. • Cause grief through misunderstanding

  14. Reason for Bad Friends

  15. Jesus Wants to be Our Friends • John 15 • Context • He is the true vine and we are the branches • Upper room discourse

  16. Love Each Other

  17. Obedience to Jesus

  18. Our Appropriate Response • Obey Jesus • Love one another

  19. Our Appropriate Response • Get to know and befriend with the people of the church.

  20. Our Appropriate Response • Be a welcoming friend to new comers

  21. Our Appropriate Response • Love our family

  22. Who Doesn’t Need Friends?

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