Enhancing Your Relationship with Your Spouse 如何提升和你的伴侶有更高品質的關係

1. Enhancing Your Relationship with Your Spouse如何提升和你的伴侶有更高品質的關係 ProgramOutline:課程簡介 Duration: 1day 課程為期:一天

2. Introduction程式介紹 • Welcome and workshop initiation 歡迎辭及工作坊介紹 • Introduction to Workshop 工作坊介紹 • Objectives目標 • Scope覆蓋範圍 • Approach如何入手

3. WHY??????為什麼??? Your own objectives 你的目的

4. Scope 覆蓋範圍 What? 什麼？ why? 為什麼？ What if.... 如果 How? 如何？

5. Approach課程流程 天生本格

6. Perception Clarifications: Male/Female 現今男女觀念 The Process過程 Roles 角色 How Well do you Know each other? 你和你的伴侶瞭解有多深? Introduction 介紹 Inborn Thinking Process 天生思考模式 Do you know WHY?? 你知道「為何」? Integrated Self 結合分晰 九型人格 CLEANSING 清洗 Into the Future 邁向未來 Enhancing Vitamins 補品 Desired Outcome 理想結果

7. Into theFuture邁向將來 Enhancing each other關系的提升 • Building on 3 important Elements3個重要的元素 • Faith信心 • Hope希望 • Love愛 • The Greatest of these is Love最偉大的就是愛 • “Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insists on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.... Now faith , hope and love abide, these three, but the greatest of these is love.” (1 Cor 13: 4-8, 13) 愛是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈，愛是不忌妒。愛是不自誇，不張狂。不做害羞的事，不求自己的益處。不輕易發怒，不計算人的惡，不喜歡不義，只喜歡真理。凡事包容凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。愛是永不止息。”

8. Into theFuture邁向將來 Enhancing the children提升與子女的關係 • What’s the greatest gift to give them?給孩子最大的禮物是什麼? • Good relationship with your spouse與伴侶有良好的關係 • What’s the greatest power you can give them? 你給他們最大的力量是甚麼? • Allowing opportunities for them to make decisions 能夠給孩子最大的力量是結予他們可以做決定的權利。 • How to enhance your relationship with them? 怎樣提升和小孩子的關係? • Having True Conversations真誠的對話 • How best to provide for them? 怎樣能供給他們最好的? • Meeting the needs appropriately 適當地滿足他們的需要。

9. Enhancing day to day living提升生活品質 Into theFuture邁向將來 • Dealing with daily chores and choices處理日常瑣事及選擇 • Dealing with finances and budget issues處理財務及收支事務 • Dealing with daily preferences of 處理日常生活選擇 • Food 食物 • Entertainment娛樂 • Friends 朋友 • Relatives親人 • Dealing with plans for the future處理將來的計畫 • Distinguishing between the urgent and important分辨「緊急」及「重要」 • Future 將來

10. Enhancing relationship with spouse 提升與伴侶的關係 From 從 From 從 Things I need to Do我需要做的事 Adjustments Needed 需要的調整 From 由這裡 To 到這裡 From These To These From “Vitamin Activity 從「維生素」活動 From Group Activities 小組活動 All rights reserved 2009

11. Important Fundamentals重要的基本要素 • So You Think You Understand Yourself 你認為你瞭解自己嗎? • Explore the Inborn You 發掘你先天的性格特質 • Explore the Cultured You 發掘你後天的特質 • Explore the Integrated You 瞭解你先天及後天性格的結合

12. Important Fundamentals重要的基本要素 • So You Think You Understand Your Spouse 你瞭解你的伴侶嗎? • Discover Your Spouse’s Inborn Self 發掘你的伴侶先天的性格特質 • Discover Your Spouse’s Cultured Self 發掘你的伴侶後天的特質 • Discover Your Spouse’s Integrated Self 瞭解先天及後天性格的結合

13. When you come Together當你和你的伴侶一起相處時 • How does each of You Function? 你們兩個人是怎樣運作的 • From Thoughts to Behavior 由思想到行為上 • From the Conscious to Sub-conscious 由有意識思想上到潛意識思想上

14. When you come Together當你和你的伴侶一起相處時 • Interaction of the 2 complex Personalities 當兩個複雜的思想互動時 • Especially the integrated Selves 特別是你們兩人的先天及後天性格一起運作時 • Dealing with the Likes and Dislikes 處理你們的愛好及厭惡 • Underlying Values and Beliefs 兩人內心的信念及價值觀 • Match相配的 • Mismatch不相配 • Mastering the Adjustments怎樣調節兩者?

15. When put Together (dynamics)當兩人一起相處時 • What do you REALLY want from each other? 你最想在你的伴侶身上得到什麼? • How did you go about achieving that? 你們怎樣做才能獲得你最想得到的東西 • What Happened to Love? “愛”發生了甚麼事? • “Do you love me?”… {“Do I love him/her?”} • 〝你愛我嗎?”… {“我還愛他嗎?”}

16. Everyday Happenings…hot topics日常熱門關注的問題 • How to educate and teach the children? • How to deal with the Balance Sheet? • How to live meaningful lives together? • How to deal with Differences appropriately? • How to communicate effectively? • 如何教育及培養孩子? • 如何處理你的財務? • 兩人如何一起活出有意義的人生? • 二人如何處理差異? • 如何有效地與你的伴侶溝通?

17. Bring about the Freshness in the relationship?如何為你們的關係加入一些新鮮感? • How to Increase your own Attractiveness 如何增加你個人的魅力? • The Real meaning and Importance of Support 支持對方的重要性及其真正的意思 • How to Bring out the Strengths within you both 如何活出你們兩人的長處及力量 • Manage the weaknesses處理你們二人的缺點 • How to put “Play” back into your Relationship 如何把“娛樂”帶回到你們的關係

18. Continue to live the Fun & Happy Family Life活出一個快樂及有趣味的家庭生活 • How to Work towards Gratitude and Real Happiness 如何令你的家庭凡事感恩及獲得真正快樂? • The Root of it All萬事根源 • Faith信心 • Hope希望 • Love愛 • How to continually Regenerate Radiance in the Family 如何不斷地為你的家庭加添溫暖及發光 • come and find out 我誠意邀請你來參加這個對你的家庭有極大影響的課程

19. H Cp Human Capital Perspectives INTEGRATE ALL LEARNED IMPLICATIONS from from Things I need to Do Adjustments Needed From These To These From “Vitamin Activity From Group Activities All rights reserved 2009

20. Enhancing Relationship with Spouse “I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.” Mother Teresa

21. Enhancing Your Relationship with Your Spouse如何提升你和你的伴侶有更高品質的關係 Program Outline Duration: 1 day

22. Introduction程式介紹 • Welcome and workshop initiation 歡迎辭及工作坊介紹 • Introduction to Workshop工作坊介紹 • Objectives目標 • Scope覆蓋範圍 • Approach如何入手

23. Important Fundamentals重要的基本要素 So You Think You Understand Yourself 你認為你瞭解自己嗎? • Explore the Inborn You 發掘你先天的性格特質 • Explore the Cultured You 發掘你後天的特質 • Explore the Integrated You 瞭解你先天及後天性格的結合

24. Important Fundamentals重要的基本要素 So You Think You Understand Your Spouse 你認為你瞭解你的伴侶嗎? • Discover Your Spouse’s Inborn Self 發掘你的伴侶先天的性格特質 • Discover Your Spouse’s Cultured Self 發掘你的伴侶後天的特質 • Discover Your Spouse’s Integrated Self 瞭解你先天及後天性格的結合

25. When you come Together當你和你的伴侶一起相處時 • How does each of You Function? 你們兩個個人是怎樣運作的 • From Thoughts to Behavior 由思想到行為上 • From the Conscious to Sub-conscious 由有意識思想上到潛意識思想上

26. When you come Together當你和你的伴侶一起相處時 Interaction of the 2 complex Personalities 當兩個複雜的思想互動時 • Especially the integrated Selves 特別是你們兩人的先天及後天性格一起運作時 • Dealing with the Likes and Dislikes處理你們的愛好及厭惡 • Underlying Values and Beliefs兩人內心的信念及價值觀 • Match相配的 • Mismatch不相配 • Mastering the Adjustments怎樣調節兩者?

27. When put Together (dynamics)當兩人一起相處時 • What do you REALLY want from each other? 你最想在你的伴侶身上得到什麼? • How did you go about achieving that? 你們怎樣做才能獲得你最想得到的東西 • What Happened to Love?“愛”發生了甚麼事? • “Do you love me?”… {“Do I love him/her?”} • 〝你愛我嗎?”… {“我還愛他嗎?”}

28. Everyday Happenings…hot topics日常熱門關注的問題 • How to educate and teach the children? 如何教育及培養孩子? • How to deal with the Balance Sheet? 如何處理你的財務? • How to live meaningful lives together? 兩人如何一起活出有意義的人生? • How to deal with Differences appropriately? 二人如何處理差異? • How to communicate effectively? 如何有效地與你的伴侶溝通?

29. Bring about the Freshness in the relationship?如何為你們的關係加入一些新鮮感? • How to Increase your own Attractiveness 如何增加你個人的魅力? • The Real meaning and Importance of Support 支持對方的重要性及其真正的意思 • How to Bring out the Strengths within you both 如何活出你們兩人的長處及力量 • Manage the weaknesses處理你們二人的缺點 • How to put “Play” back into your Relationship 如何把“娛樂”帶回到你們的關係

30. Continue to live the Fun & Happy Family Life活出一個快樂及有趣味的家庭生活 • How to Work towards Gratitude and Real Happiness 如何令你的家庭凡事感恩及獲得真正快樂? • The Root of it All萬事根源 • Faith信心 • Hope希望 • Love愛 • How to continually Regenerate Radiance in the Family 如何不斷地為你的家庭加添溫暖及發光 • come and find out 我誠意邀請你來參加這個對你的家庭有極大影響的課程

31. REFRESH YOUR RELATIONSHIP Spend the rest of your lives Happily together