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  1. Dating Q & AWhat You Have Always Wanted to KnowBut Were Afraid to Ask www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  2. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  3. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? Why do people date? NEEDS It’s all about ________. www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  4. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? What are your needs? Rearrange your needs into the three categories: spiritual, emotional, and physical. www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  5. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? Mark 2:3-12 What spiritual needs did this man have? What emotional needs did this man have? What physical needs did this man have? How did Jesus meet his needs? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  6. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? 1 Thessalonians 4:18 __________________________ James 5:16 __________________________ John 13:35 __________________________ Galatians 6:2 __________________________ encouragement confession & prayer love bear one another’s burdens www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  7. What’s the Big Deal with Dating? 1 Corinthians 12:25 __________________________ Hebrews 10:24 __________________________ 1 John 3:11 __________________________ have concern encourage to love & service love www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  8. Who are You Looking for? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  9. Who are You Looking For? What do you look for in a date? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  10. Who are You Looking For? List the godly characteristics of the men in these verses: 1 Peter 3:7-9 1 Timothy 5:1-2 1 Timothy 3:8-9 www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  11. Who are You Looking For? Check out what these passages say about being a woman of God: 1 Peter 3:1-6 Proverbs 31:10-30 Titus 2:4-5 www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  12. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  13. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? Do you believe you have a soul mate? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  14. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? Look at how God worked in Isaac’s life in Genesis 24. [1] This servant believed that God had ________________ a wife for Isaac. (v. 14) [2] Abraham believed that God would ______________________ to help him find a wife. (v. 40) chosen send an angel www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  15. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? [3] Rebekah’s parents believed God ______________________ for her to become Isaac’s wife. (v. 50-51) arranged www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  16. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? Check out the Book of Ruth and her love story. [1] Ruth’s first husband, Malhon, led her to _______________. (1:16) [2] After Malhon died, God’s law said she should marry her ____________ _________________________. (4:3-5) God closest next-of-kin www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  17. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? [3] After the person who should have married Ruth refused, Ruth married ________________. (4:9-10) Boaz www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  18. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? Check out Hosea’s love story. [1] God asked Hosea to marry a woman who would ___________________. (1:2) [2] Hosea obeyed God and chose to marry _____________. (1:3) cheat on him Gomer www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  19. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? How do you find that special someone God has for you? Return to the story of Isaac in Genesis 24. [1] Choose someone with a __________________ foundation. (v. 3-4) [2] ____________ for God to bring you someone. (v. 12) spiritual Pray www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  20. Does God Have Someone Picked Out for You? [3] Look for someone with a _________________ heart. (v. 13-14) servant www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  21. How Do You Build a Spiritual Relationship? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  22. How Do You Build a Spiritual Relationship? What kinds of things do you like to do on a date? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  23. How Do You Build a Spiritual Relationship? How do you keep your dating relationship God-centered? Here are 4 dating secrets: [1] Spend time _______________ with God. (James 5:13, 16) [2] Spend time ______________ with God.(Luke 5:16) together alone www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  24. How Do You Build a Spiritual Relationship? control [3] Give God ______________.(Luke 6:46) [4] _________________ God together. (Matthew 25:34-36) Serve www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  25. Do You Believe In Love at First Sight? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  26. Do You Believe In Love at First Sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  27. Do You Believe In Love at First Sight? [1] At first, Jacob and Rachel’s relationship began with a __________________ attraction. (29:17) [2] Their relationship soon was based on an ___________________ attraction. (29:18-20) physical emotional www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  28. Do You Believe In Love at First Sight? [3] After they were married, _______________ set in. (30:1-2) Rachel became _____________. Jacob became ______________. [4] Their _____________________ lasted to the end. (33:1-2; 35:16-18) reality jealous angry commitment www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  29. What Do You Need? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  30. What Do You Need? What are your emotional needs? Here are two of your greatest emotional needs thatoften go overlooked: ___________ and ________________ trust reassurance www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  31. What Do You Need? When you trust or donottrust,you usually judge someone’s: ___________________ (1 Timothy 3:8-11) ___________________ (Hebrews 11:6) sincerity reliability www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  32. What Do You Need? Here are just a look at some of the “trust” dilemmas that people face: • Can I trust _________ person? • Can I trust that I am ____________________for a Christian relationship? • Can I trust ___________? • Can I trust ________? another good enough myself God www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  33. What Do You Need? What do these verses say about listening? Proverbs 12:15 Proverbs 31:28,31 1 Timothy 3:7 www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  34. What Do You Say? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  35. What Do You Say? What kinds of things do you talk about on a date? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  36. What Do You Say? Girl Tendencies Girls talk to get information and to connect or to gain rapport. They talk about people rather than things. They convey feelings and details. They are relationship oriented. www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/ www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  37. What Do You Say? Boy Tendencies In general, boys talk to give information or to report. They talk about things -- school, sports, and food -- rather than people. They convey facts, not details. They are goal-oriented. They focus on solving problems. www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/ www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  38. What Do You Say? List the communication principles found in the following verses: Proverbs 31:28Proverbs 28:13 Proverbs 18:13Proverbs 11:13 Proverbs 12:19Proverbs 12:18 Proverbs 16:28Proverbs 22:11 www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  39. What Do You Say? Emotional Benefits Saying the right things in the right ways lead to your partner being: __________________________ __________________________ __________________________ noticed valued loved www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  40. How Do You Know if Someone Really Loves You? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  41. How Do You Know if Someone Really Loves You? How do you know if someone loves you? How does a person learn to love? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  42. What Do You Say? Show Me Love Here are three ways in which people show other people love: __________________________ __________________________ _________________________ what they say touch what they do www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  43. How Do You Know if Someone Really Loves You? Check out God’s pictures of love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  44. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  45. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do to maintain a relationship? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  46. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? God’s Super Glue God offers one thing that will keep relationships together and strong. Check out the answer in Ephesians 5:21: _____________________________ SUBMISSION www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  47. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? What it is. • _____________________________ • _____________________________ yielding your rights willing to suffer www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  48. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? What it isn’t. • _____________________________ • _____________________________ • _____________________________ • _____________________________ weakness use and abuse inferior don’t get to voice your opinions www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  49. How Do You Keep the Relationship Together? Peter offers these submissive tipsfor both women and men in 1 Peter 3:1-7: Women Men __________________________ _____________ _____________ gentle considerate quiet spirit respectful www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/

  50. What are You Waiting For? www.bipamerica.com/bipdating/