Exploring Parenthood: Choices Between Childlessness and Parenting
This comprehensive guide delves into the complex choices surrounding parenthood, exploring the advantages of remaining childless, such as increased personal freedom, financial resources, and less marital stress. It also highlights the joys of having children, including love, enhanced relationships, and a sense of accomplishment. Additionally, the text addresses infertility issues, reproductive technologies, and the emotional dynamics of pregnancy for both partners. It also considers the significant impact of elective abortion decisions, offering a broad overview of societal trends and personal factors influencing these critical life choices.
Exploring Parenthood: Choices Between Childlessness and Parenting
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Parenthood as an Option:Advantages of Remaining Childless • More time for self and partner • More financial resources • Marriages less stressful • More spontaneity • More devotion to career
Parenthood as an Option:Advantages of Having Children • Children give & receive love • May enhance relationship • Builds self-esteem, sense of accomplishment • Greater meaning & satisfaction
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Becoming Pregnant:Enhancing the Possibility • Intercourse just prior to or at ovulation • Predicting ovulation • Mucus, calendar, BBT methods • Ovulation-predictor urine tests
Infertility • Diagnosis • More than 6 months of trying = problem • 1 in 6 U.S. couples seek help • Causes • Complex, hard to determine • Unidentifiable in 15% of the cases
Female Infertility • Failure to ovulate regularly • Below normal body weight • Smoking and substance abuse • Infertility increases with age • Cervical mucus may destroy sperm • Sperm may not reach the egg • Fertilized egg may not implant
Male Infertility • Abnormal sperm count or motility • Caused by poor nutrition • Substance abuse • Environmental toxins • STDs • Impaired sperm production • Varicocele • Congenital abnormalities
Reproductive Technologies • Artificial insemination • Surrogacy • Assisted reproductive technology (ART) • In vitro fertilization (ZIFT or GIFT)
Concerns Regarding Reproductive Technologies • Expense • 75% failure rate • 20-30% end in multiple embryos • Health and financial concerns
Pregnancy Detection • First signs: Light period, spotting, or no period; fatigue; tender breasts • Nausea/Vomiting: appetite change • Blood or urine for HCG • Subtle softening of uterus at 6 weeks
Miscarriage: Spontaneous Abortion • Occurs in first 20 weeks • 10-20% of all pregnancies • Emotional impact can be significant • Individual or couple may consider grief-support
Elective Abortion: U.S. StatisticsPart 1 • 25% of U.S. pregnancies end in elective abortion • 1% occur after 20 weeks • 1.3 million abortions each year • 43% of women will have abortion by age 45
Elective Abortion: U.S. StatisticsPart 2 • Of yearly abortion rates: • Young, unmarried, white women obtain most • 20% married women • 61% previously given birth • Women with 4+ children are more likely to have an abortion than women with fewer children • 43% Protestant; 27% Catholic
Reasons Why Women Decide to Have Elective Abortions • Younger women: unprepared for motherhood • Older women: difficulties meeting needs for current children • In the U.S. two-thirds of women who have abortions cite financial reasons • 60% of abortions occur among those with incomes below $28,000 for a family of 3
Elective Abortions: Cross-Cultural AnalysisPart 1 • U.S. has one of the highest abortion rates among developed countries. • All countries with lower rates provide • comprehensive sex education • easy access to inexpensive birth control & emergency contraception • Germany, the Netherlands & Belgium have 66% lower rates than U.S.; France 50% lower
Elective Abortions: Cross-Cultural Analysis Part 2 • Highest abortion rates are in countries • With severe restrictions on abortion • Do not provide the social services for women and children • Do not provide sex education & access to contraception
Types of Abortion Procedures • Medical abortion • Suction curettage • Dilation & evacuation • Prostaglandin induction • Late-term abortion • Illegal abortion
Safety of Abortions • Risk of dying from surgical abortion is lower than risk of pregnancy fatality • Unsafe and illegal abortions cause 13% of all world-wide maternal deaths
U.S. Abortion Controversy: Historical Overview • Early American law allowed abortion until quickening • 1973 Roe vs. Wade • 1977 Hyde Amendment • State restrictions or limitations • Waiting period, parental notification
U.S. Abortion Controversy: Current Debate • Majority of Americans believe abortion should remain legal • Pro-life goals • Pro-choice goals
Experience of Pregnancy • Wide range of positive and negative emotions • Emotions are affected by physical changes • First trimester: increased fatigue, nausea, and breast changes • Second trimester: movement felt; heightened sense of well-being • Third trimester: increased size; greater discomfort
Experience of Pregnancy:Male Partner • Ecstasy to ambivalence to fearfulness • Toward partner may feel closeness or separation • Concern about financial impact • Active involvement helps
Fetal Development: First Trimester • Zygote: united sperm cell and ovum • Blastocyst: multiple cells that implant • Heartbeat at 9-10 weeks after last period • 2nd month: spinal canal, arms/legs • 3rd month: internal organs
Fetal Development:Second Trimester • Sex of fetus can be distinguished • External body parts develop including fingernails, eyebrows, and eyelashes • Skin covered by fine down-like hair • Growth in size • Fetal movements (quickening) by end of 4th month • By end of 2nd trimester fetus has opened its eyes
Fetal Development:Third Trimester • Develop size and strength • Down-like hair disappears • Skin smoother • Vernix caseosa • protective creamy, waxy substance
Risks to Fetal Development • Harmful substances pass to baby via placenta • Prescription and non-prescription drugs • 1997: viable fetus can be protected under child abuse laws • Nicotine, caffeine, alcohol (FAS)
Prenatal Care • Health assessment before pregnancy • Good nutrition • Adequate rest • Routine health care • Moderate exercise • Prenatal education
Pregnancy after Age 35 • Essentially safe with prenatal care • Fertility decreases with age • Heightened rate of fetal defects due to chromosomal abnormalities
Contemporary Childbirth • Prepared childbirth • Lamaze • Birthplace alternatives • Homebirth
First Stage Childbirth • 10 to 16 hours in duration • Bloody show • Water breaks • Effacing or thinning of cervix • Slight dilation
Second Stage Childbirth • 30 minutes to 2 hours in duration • Begins at full dilation • Infant descends through vagina • Ends with delivery of baby
Third Stage Childbirth • 20 to 30 minutes in duration • Begins at delivery of the baby • Placenta separates and is pushed out • Ends with delivery of placenta
Cesarean Section • Baby delivered through incision • Vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC) is possible • 1970: 5.5% U.S. births by C-section • 2004: 29% U.S. births by C-section • Higher C-section rates have not improved maternal and infant survival rates
Postpartum • Range of feelings from excited and happy to tearful • Postpartum blues affect 26 to 85% • Postpartum depression 10 to 15% • Sleep deprivation heightens stress
Breastfeeding: Types of Milk • Initial colostrum has protein & antibodies • Mature milk “comes in” soon • Milk will “dry up” if baby does not suckle at the breast
Advantages to Breastfeeding • Digestible food with antibodies • Prevents uterine hemorrhage • Emotional & sensual experience • Promotes bonding
Short-term Disadvantages to Breastfeeding • Vaginal dryness due to decreased estrogen • Temporary breast tenderness • Leaking milk • Harder to share feeding duties
When to Resume Sexual Interaction after Childbirth • Vaginal Birth • After lochia flow stops & vaginal area heals • 3-4 weeks • C-section • When healed • When desire returns • Varies considerably • Often 6-8 weeks
Sexual Interaction after Childbirth • Activities can include more non-coital and/or affectionate behaviors • Factors that interfere • Fatigue lowers desire and ability • Decreased time due to caring for baby • Negative pre-pregnancy attitudes