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Talking With Your Kids About Sexuality:Why it’s Important, When to Start, and What to Say Chris Reynolds, LPC

talking with your kids about sexuality
Talking With Your Kids About Sexuality
  • What is sexuality education?
  • Sexual languages
  • Barriers to effective sexual communication
  • Sexual developmental milestones
  • Normal vs. troubled sexuality
  • Questions
what is sexuality
What is Sexuality?

“Sexuality education is preparation for healthy relationships, both with others and with self” Marty Klein, Ph.D.

sexuality education
Sexuality Education
  • Information / data
  • Values
  • Decision making skills
  • Support
languages of sexuality
Languages of Sexuality
  • Kid’s language
  • Slang language
  • Euphemisms
  • Medical language
barriers to effective sexual communication
Barriers to Effective Sexual Communication
  • Lack of comfort regarding sexuality
    • Parents can set limits
    • We don’t have to be experts
    • It’s not our kid’s problem
  • Belief: They’ll come to us when they have a question
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Barriers to Effective Sexual Communication
  • Belief: Too much sexual information will be damaging
  • Belief: Kids aren’t sexual
  • Fear of having to deal with personal sexual issues
sexuality milestones infants toddlers
Sexuality Milestones: Infants / Toddlers
  • Sexual response cycle present
  • May touch genitals for pleasure
  • Curiosity regarding own and other’s bodies
  • Identify as boy or girl
  • Sexual language begins
  • Sexual framework is initiated
sexuality milestones preschoolers
Sexuality Milestones: Preschoolers
  • Strong curiosity about reproduction and birth
  • May play exploratory games with similar age peers
  • Experiments to discover rules regarding sexuality
  • Accepts and expresses love/affection (important for later sexual development)
  • Gender role reflects cultural expectations
sexuality milestones elementary schoolers
Sexuality Milestones: Elementary Schoolers
  • May begin puberty (girls 7, boys 8 ½)
  • Sexual orientation begins
  • Many have crushes or preliminary romantic relationships
  • Some physical touch in play
  • ASD curriculum focuses on naming body parts and sexually transmitted infections (1)
sexuality milestones middle schoolers
Sexuality Milestones: Middle Schoolers
  • Many have formal romantic relationships
  • 33% of girls and 50% of boys will have masturbated to orgasm (2)
  • Some have engaged in intercourse (6.6% before age 13) (3)
  • ASD curriculum emphasizes abstinence, contraceptives can be discussed (1)
sexuality milestones high schoolers
Sexuality Milestones: High Schoolers
  • Most have experienced sexual intercourse (60% before senior year)
    • 58% used condoms during last intercourse (2)
  • Sexual identity is formed
  • No ASD required sexuality education; abstinence is emphasized, contraceptives can be discussed (1)
normal vs troubled sexuality
Normal vs. Troubled Sexuality

Indicators of troubled sexuality include:

  • Power dynamics
  • Persistent breaking of social norms despite education
  • Persistent lack of regard for other’s rights
  • Sexual expressions that interfere with a major life role
resources for sexuality education at home
Resources for Sexuality Education at Home

Websites

www.siecus.org/pubs/ Many publications regarding sexuality education are included. Of particular use might be the “Families are Talking” series, which is available entirely on the web.

www.kidshealth.org/ Provides doctor-approved health information about children from before birth through adolescence.

www.talkingwithkids.orgTalking with Kids About Tough Issues: Provides information to encourage parents and caregivers to talk with their children earlier and more often about tough issues like sex, HIV/AIDS, violence, alcohol, and drug abuse.

www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/ Teens Health: Provides teens and families with accurate, up-to-date, and jargon-free health information they can use.

http://www.plannedparenthood.orgPlanned Parenthood Federation of America : Sexuality education resources and more.

www.advocatesforyouth.org/teens Advocates for Youth: A comprehensive site offering information for both parents and youth.

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Resources for Sexuality Education at Home

Books

Berger, K. (2001). The developmental person throughout the lifespan (5th edition). Worth Publishers: New York, NY.

Gordon, S. & Gordon J. (2000). Raising a child responsibly in a sexually permissive world. Adams Media Corporation: Holbrook, MA.

Haffner, D. (1999). From Diapers to dating: A parent’s guide to raising sexually healthy children. New Market Press: New York, NY.

Haffner, D. (2001). Beyond the big talk: Every parent’s guide to raising sexually healthy teens – from middle school to high school and beyond. New Market Press: New York, NY.

Schrank, L. & Hoke, S. (1998). Raising sexually healthy children: Sexual development, sexual abuse prevention and self esteem for children under seven. The Learning Seed Publishers: Lake Zurich, IL.

references
References
  • Anchorage School District Health Curriculum Framework: Sexuality Education Guidelines for Instruction. Adopted 11/96, reviewed 7/04.
  • Crooks, R. & Bauer, K. (1999). Our sexuality 7th edition. Brooks and Cole Publishing: New York, NY.
  • Grunbaum, J., et al. Youth risk behavior surveillance (YRBS)-United States, 2001. Morbidity and Mortality Weekly, 51 (SS-4), 1-64. (U.S. Centers for Disease Control)

Klein, M. Talking with your kids about sex. Audio tape. www.sexed.org

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