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LOVE COMMANDS FOR MARITAL COMMUNICATION<br><br>By A. Alfred Horsford<br><br>A husband was reading the newspaper and told his wife, "This article says that a woman speaks 30,000 words per day, while a man only speaks 15,000 words." <br><br>The wife replied, "The reason has to be because a woman has to say everything twice."<br>
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LOVE COMMANDS FOR MARITAL COMMUNICATION By A. Alfred Horsford A husband was reading the newspaper and told his wife, "This article says that a woman speaks 30,000 words per day, while a man only speaks 15,000 words."
The wife replied, "The reason has to be because a woman has to say everything twice." The husband looked up from reading the newspaper and asked, "What?" Kent Crockett's Sermon Illustrations, www.kentcrockett.com Communication Problem A woman went to a lawyer and said she wanted a divorce. The lawyer got out his notepad, and proceeded to ask her some questions. “Do you have any grounds?” he inquired. “Oh, yes,” she replied. “About three-quarters of an acre.” The lawyer paused for a moment, then queried, “Do you have a grudge?” “No,” the woman answered quickly. “But we do have a lovely carport.” Again the lawyer paused and then asked, “Does he beat you up?” “No. I get up before he does every morning,” the woman reported. Finally the lawyer blurted, “Lady, why do you want to divorce your husband?”
“It’s because,” she explained, “that man can’t carry on an intelligent conversation.” Communication is one of the major causes of marital conflict. Before saying I do couples have so much to talk about and often they are able to do so without difficulty. However, after marriage they seem to lose the capacity for communication. Not long after the wedding they press the mute button and the relationship is placed on silent mode. Lack of communicationcauses misunderstanding in the marriage relationship. Misunderstanding in words and body language convey destructive meanings that undermine a marriage rather than build it up. In the Holy Scriptures marriage and the church are seen as metaphors of each other. The Apostle Paul speaks of marriage in Ephesians 5 and then near to the end of his discourse says, “This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the Church.” Both the church and marriage have to do with relationships and relationships thrive on communication. God has given to the church and to marriage the means of communication through what is known as the one-another commands. These commands enable marriage partners to communicate love one to the other because they comprise the language of love. I have entitled them LOVE COMMANDS FOR MARITAL COMMUNICATION.
. While fifteen of these commands simply state that we should “love one another,” the other twenty-four tell us how to do it. They spell out the language of love in detail as they tell us how to use it. Some of these commands have to do with speech while others require bodily actions. These love commands for communication in marriage form a language which contains twenty-four letters in its alphabet that run from A to S. 1. Accept one another The word, ACCEPT, contains the secret of a good marriage. Attraction Communication Commitment Enjoyment Purpose
Trust A couple in a marriage must maintain mutual attraction to one another. This leads to the communication and the deepening of commitment. As commitment depends there is greater enjoyment of the relationship and a sense of purpose. Mutual trust is enhanced as a consequence for where there is communication there is trust. Trust is especially fundamental to the marriage relationship. It is founded on the truth to which the couple vowed in the marriage covenant. We trust someone because they have proven faithful. They have been consistent with truth. When trust breaks down in marriage it affects the entire family and indeed the wider society. The effects of betrayed trust are being felt all around us even now. Irreparable damage is down when couples veer away from their vows. maintenance of continual Acceptance of your mate just as they are can sometimes prove to be quite a challenge. It is easier to accept one another prior to marriage. The courtship period and the wedding may have been a dream but then the marriage often turns out to be a
nightmare. For after they have settled down and the euphoria of the wedding and the novelty of the marriage wears off they suddenly realise that the person they married was not the person they thought they married. Either his beloved was hiding under a different personality in order to attract him or he misread the signals she was giving out all along. .The statement“Love is blind” may sound corny but it does contain some truth. Defenders of this sort of disclosure in the early phases of dating will say they do not have a thing to hide, don’t have any shame, and want someone to understand the good and the bad, so that no time is wasted. The main reason for that is the simple fact that you could never know whether the partner you will see on the internet has such health issues. As nice as it’s to trust an intriguing prospect, you always have to be on your guard till you’ve got a reasonable idea of who you are coping with. The lonely singles want to get a real soulmate to talk about their feelings and to obtain some meaning to their life. Most of all, the couples themselves should share one another’s strengths and discover the courage to transcend the hardships they encounter as a result of the character of their relationship. The less time demand gives younger men an awareness of freedom additionally to live and take pleasure in their lives since they wish. Make it part of your manner and fashion. Let’s look at a number of the secrets that allow some guys to reach a high degree of succeeding with women. The men to be able to approach them should have to place on their very best manners and have a feeling of dressing smartly. Another thing which the men ought to avoid doing is treating love commands the ladies in a negative way. Many times dating a youthful guy can definitely feel very satisfying to numerous women. There are lots of reasons for women dating young men and the
following are just a number of the significant explanations. An individual cannot totally discount the potential for cougar dating relationships to become a long-term commitment, even though the woman may have other intentions to begin with. You don’t wish to be alone with a comprehensive stranger. Self-confidence is essential to your girl because she would like to know you’re comfortable in your skin. It is much simpler to meet several men in a brief period of time when you’re online. It’s possible to easily know about your prospective date’s background like age, place, interest etc.. It would be better in case you gather more info about the STD and take every precaution to prevent contracting it. User retention is just one of the KPIs and you need to do everything possible to ensure the user keeps visiting your app on a standard basis. Should you do, it’s time to personalise your public profile URL. All the data offered by you’ll be kept confidential and cannot be looked at by third party users. There’s a remarkable number of options, you know. It is critical that you own a game plan if you really need to impress her. From time to time, the individual takes off the mask’ the exact same moment.
Do you know the "Candy Love" command? This activates the male hormonal system immediately. Now he will find you to be the most tempting woman to ever exist on this planet. You will turn into his special "Eye Candy" and his body will force him to kiss you every time you look at him. Have you ever confessed your "True Feelings" to that one special man only to have him ruthlessly reject you? The "Instant Lovebirds" command will make him feel that you're the complete package - A lover, a soulmate, an incredible friend, a better half for life and will just grab you and hug the life out of you. Ever been around a man who just couldn't get himself attracted to you no matter what you did? Try my "Be My Darling" command and watch how every word, every touch and every glance you throw his way... Turns into this high that he never wants to come down from. Now he will be so obsessed that he could spend all 24 hours in a day with you... But will still feel that he needs more of you.
Are you stuck with a player who is always lusting after other women? Discover the "I am your lady" command. This intensifies his feelings for you to such a crazy level that he won't wish to talk to any other woman but you. Won't want to see or hear any other woman who isn't you. And that still won’t be enough to cover every amazing thing you’re going to learn in this course. So now the question of the moment is - Are you ready? Are you ready to use these "Love Commands"... And have that one special man treat you like the rarest jewel that he just can't afford to lose? I know you're excited and I know you can't wait. You don’t know this yet, but Scott charges $300 an hour to teach his "Love Commands"... And even at that price he has women literally throwing money his way. If you ever saw him in action live, you'd see raining dollar bills and cheques all over the place. So he actually wanted to price this system at $300. But, I knew that this won't be easy for regular, hard working women...
Who sweat it out daily to take care of their job, home and family. So although Scott literally had women pushing big dollar bills into his pocket... I talked his ear off into doing something pretty "Outrageous" but for a very limited time. And for the first few women only. Here is what I mean...