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Having your emotions unreturned is the worst feeling ever. Whether youu2019ve been a victim of this unique tragedy or have not yet, here are the five kinds of unrequited love that are sure to be experienced at least once in your lifetime.
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UNREQUITED LOVE
DIFFERENT KINDSOF UNREQUITED LOVE Socloseyetsofar Hotpursuit Oldflame Rockyrelationship TheClassicCrush
UNREQUITED LOVE : ITHURTS… Allsortsofunrequitedlovearefeltmuchless intenselythanequallove, theresearchfound. Unfortunately, that’strueforthehighquality thingsasatisfyingrelationshipbringslike passion, intimacy, andbeingcapabletorelyon apartner.
“UNREQUITEDLOVEIS THEINFINITECURSEOFA LONELYHEART” WiseWords ~CHRISTINAWESTOVE
One-sidedlove: Abattlefield It’swaitingforsomethingthatmayneverhappen. It’stakingaganderatsomebody whodoesn’tseeyou. It’sconsideringsomebodydayandnightwhileyoulikelynever entertheirthoughts. It’slookingatyourphoneallthetimeinhopethatthey’dtext youorcallyouastheycallsomeoneelse. It’scontactingthemwithsuchalotof enthusiasmastheyreactwithapathy.
“Perhapsunrequitedlovewasa specterinthehouse, apresence thatbrushedattheedgeofsenses, aheatinthedark, andashadow underthesun.” – SherryThomas
HandleUnrequitedLove inmarriage BECOURAGEOUS Ifyouarefeelingdisconnectedfrom eachother, starttakingitupanotch onyourown. Showyourspousethat yourmarriageisimportanttoyouand dowhateverthattakes. INVEST Marriagestakework, especiallyinthe relationshipsthatfeelone-sided. Ifyou don’tlikewhereyouseeyourmarriage goinginthefuturebasedonyour currenthabits, it’shigh-timetoinvest insomeinfluentialbooksand programsifyouhaven’tbeenalready.
YOUNEEDTO CONTROLYOURSELF Insteadoffocusingonwhatyourspouse isnotdoing, focusonwhatyoucando. Ifyouwantyourmarriagetobehappier, makeithappier–evenifyouaretheonly onewhoseemsinterestedininvesting atfirst.
LOVE: WHYITHURTS Loveinthefilmsisbrimmingwithrosesandsunshinehowever, inreality, it’s painful. Atthesametimewemustunderstandthatnotallloveispainful….only the ‘wronglove’ is. Numerouspeopleareinagonysincetheyarebeing clairvoyantlymanhandledbytheiraccomplice. Wewon’tdiscussthattoday. We willdiscusswhyconsistently, lovecanbeagonizing.
DOESONE-SIDEDLOVEEVER FADEAWAY? “Ifyoucansafeguardloveeachday, takingyourselfback towhereloveis, thewiderangeofvariousissuesdoesn’t develop.”
UnrequitedLoveAffect YourPerception youreallyneedtoworkonimprovingyourself-esteem. Howimportantyouareasapersonis not, inanyway, dependentonbeinglovedbysomeoneoftheoppositegender. Whileit mightlooklikeallthestarsarelovedbyamillionfans, itisonlyhalfofthetruth. Theother halfisthatallfansareunrequitedlovers, justlikeyou
“Lovedoesnotobeyourexpectations; itobeysourintentions.”. ~LloydStrom – SherryThomas
UNREQUITEDLOVE Thankyou!