Non-verbal & Visual Communications. Clara McCabe. Non-verbal Communication. Most influential pre 20 th century work on study of body language was Charles Darwin’s The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals – published in 1872.
language was Charles Darwin’sThe Expression of the
Emotions in Man and Animals – published in 1872.
18” – 4’
12’ and up
4’ – 12’
Touching – 18”
1. The intimate zone ( 15cm-45cm) own, as if it were an extension of his body.
This is by far the most important zone as it is this zone that a persona guards as if it were his on property. Only those who are emotionally close to that person are permitted to enter. This includes lovers, parents, children, close friends, etc.
2. Personal Zone ( 46cm-1.2 m)
This is the average distance we stand from others at parties, social functions and friendly gatherings.
3. Social Zone ( 1.2m – 3.6m)
On average, we stand this distance from strangers. For example, a new employee at work, a repair man in our home, etc.
4. Public Zone ( over 3.6m/12 feet)
This is usually the most comfortable distance at which we stand whenever we address a large group of people.
If you doubt this, notice how you behave the next time you are alone in a crowded space.
1. Palm gestures.
The open palm has been associated with truth, honesty, allegiance and submissions.
When people wish to be totally open or honest they hold one or both palms out to the other person.
Like most body language, this is
completely subconscious. If we are
trying to conceal information we
often hide our palms either in our
pockets or behind out back.
Shaking hands is a relic from the caveman era. Whenever cavemen met, they would hold their arms in the arm with their palms exposed to show no weapons were being concealed. This palms in the air gesture was modified over centuries
The modern for of this ancient greeting is
the interlocking and shaking of the palms.
1 of 3 basic attitudes are transmitted through the handshake.
Hand, Arm & Body Gestures. each other with a hand shake –
Watch this clip by a former FBI agent,
Joe Navarro, as he describes how torsos,
hands, feet and legs communicate
What We Say Without Words
See no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil.
The brain is subconsciously trying to suppress the
Deceitful words that are being said.
If a person who is speaking uses this gesture, it indicates
That they are lying.
If, however, the person covers their mouth while
you are speaking, it indicated that they feel you are lying
In essence, the nose touch gesture is a sophisticated, disguised
version of the mouth guard gesture.
that, as the negative thought enters the mind, the subconscious
instructs the hand to cover the mouth, but, at the last moment, in an
attempt to appear less obvious, the hand pulls away from the face and
a quick nose touch gesture is the result.
See no evil’ says the wise monkey, and this gesture is
the brain’s attempt to block out the deceit, doubt or lie
that it sees or to avoid having to look at the face of the
person to whom he is telling the lie.
This is, in effect, an attempt by the listener to
‘hear no evil’ in trying to block the words by putting
the hand around or over the ear.
This gesture is a signal of doubt or uncertainty and
is characteristic of the person who says, ‘I’m not sure
I agree.’ It is very noticeable when the verbal language
contradicts it, for example, when the person says
something like, ‘I can understand how you feel.’
The Collar Pull
Research into the gestures of those who tell lies
revealed that the telling of a lie caused a tingling
sensation in the delicate facial and neck tissues and
a rub or scratch was required to satisfy it. This seems
to be a reasonable explanation of why some people use the collar pull
gesture when they tell a lie and suspect that they have been caught out.
Fingers are placed in the mouth when a person is
under pressure. It is an unconscious attempt by the
person to revert to the security of the child sucking
on his mother’s breast. Whereas most hand-to-mouth gestures
involve lying or deception, the fingers-in-mouth gesture is an outward
manifestation of an inner need for reassurance.
at this clip on how to spot a liar.
How to Spot a Liar
The Pursuit of Happiness