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Strong EAP

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  • Coping with Work and

  • Family Stress

  • 3/14/2011

  • Lynda Spiegel, MS. Ed., NCC

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Two Things About EAP

  • FREE


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  • Employees

  • Family members living in the same household as the employee

  • 550 White Spruce Blvd

  • Hours 7:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.

  • Wednesdays 11 a.m. to 7 p.m.

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What Do We Do?

  • Short-term counseling

  • Assessment-to-referral

  • Critical Incident Stress

  • Wellness Presentations

  • Work-Related Presentations

  • Healthbites

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WHO are we?

  • Joanne Dermady, Director

  • Sigrid Adler, LCSW

  • Anne Lenox, LMHC

  • Lynda Spiegel, LMHC

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  • Stress (i.e., depression, anxiety)

  • Grief

  • Relationships

    • Co-Workers

    • Family members

    • Children

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  • The Notebook

  • The References

  • Introductions

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  • Define Stress

  • Define Anger

  • Problem Solving

  • Coping Strategies

  • Cognitive Reframes

  • Relaxation techniques

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Deep Breathing

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Work/Life Balance

  • Can it be done?

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What is STRESS?

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What our jobs provide

  • Sense of satisfaction

  • Sense of purpose

  • Structure

  • Poor morale

  • Unhappy workplace

  • Pressure

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  • An obstacle to our balance

  • We are an immediate society

  • Cell phones, pagers

  • E-mail, IM

  • Internet

  • 24/7 connection

  • Social networking addictions

  • the 24/7 connection

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Technology isn’t alone

  • Overscheduled adults

  • Overscheduled kids

  • We’re frazzled

  • We leave work, work doesn’t leave our thoughts

  • We leave home, home doesn’t leave our thoughts

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Environmental Stressors

  • Noise

  • Time

  • Interruptions

  • Clientele

  • Co-workers

  • Teaching hospital

  • Limited space

  • Technology

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We’re Out of Balance

  • Depressed

  • Anxious

  • Frustrated

  • Angry

  • Guilty

  • Poor choices

  • Unhealthy habits

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The Self

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  • Physical Stress

    An immediate threat to our well-being, physically

  • Mental Stress

    *Our perception of an event in which:

    We feel threatened

    We experience change

    We lose our sense of control

    Our expectations aren’t realized

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  • Stress is not a person, place or thing. It is a physical and emotional reaction to change – whether positive or negative. It is our PERCEPTION of the change that matters.

  • A Stressor is the actual event or change

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Things about stress



    • Motivates us


    • Leads to feelings of disappointment, failure, embarrassment, etc.

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Four Categories of Stress

  • Anticipatory Stress (Future)

  • Situational Stress (Present)

  • Chronic Stress (Ongoing)

  • Residual Stress (Past

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Cognitive Effects

  • Tunnel vision

  • Difficulty making decisions

  • Diminished ability to concentrate

  • Shortened attention span

  • Difficulty with abstract thought

  • Memory difficulty

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Psychological Effects

  • Depression

  • Anxiety

  • Burn-out

  • Anger

  • Loss of emotional control

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Behavioral Effects

  • Isolation

  • Sleep disturbance

  • Change in eating habits

  • Increase in alcohol/substance use

  • Irritability

  • Temper tantrums

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Physiological Effects

  • Elevated blood pressure

  • Elevated heart rate

  • Rapid breathing

  • Lightheadedness

  • Chills or sweats

  • Migraine headaches

  • IBS

  • Lower back pain

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Life Cycle Theory

  • Most of us go through a series of events called “life cycles”

  • i.e., birth, school job, marriage, kids, kids leave, retirement, death

  • Stress increases at each life transition

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Family Stress Theory

  • Rueben Hill, Father of Family Stress

  • ABCX Theory of Stress

  • A factor=the stressor

  • B factor=the resources

  • C Factor=our perception

  • X Factor= the outcome

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Double ABCX Theory

  • ABCX lasted 30 years

  • McCubbin & Patterson

  • aA=“Pile-up” of stressors

  • bB=Layers of resources

  • cC=Layers of perceptions

  • xX=Layers of outcome

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What is Anger?

  • A universal, first emotion

  • Built into our nervous system

  • Anger is a way of expressing STRESS

  • Two ways of Anger

  • Toxic anger-anger that poisons your life and/or those around you

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  • When is anger a problem?

  • How often do you get angry?

    • Not at all

    • 1-2 times a week

    • 3-5 times a week

    • 1-2 times a day

    • 3 times a day

    • 6-10 times a day

    • 10+ times a day

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Intensity of Anger

  • On a scale of 1-10, where are you?

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Some statistics

  • 15 % of us have episodic rage

  • 11 % of us have chronic anger

  • 12 % of us have chronic rage

  • 37 % of us have “toxic anger”

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Facts About Anger

  • Men v. women

  • Decrease with age

  • Impulsive and excitable

  • + provocation

  • Cynical

  • Catastrophizing

  • Compulsiveness

  • Self-absorbed

  • Aggressive personality

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More Facts

  • Drugs that alter brain chemistry

  • Irritable

  • Depressed

  • Communication

  • Problem solving skills

  • Too stressed

  • Judgmental

  • Blame

  • Exhaustion

  • Inadequate support system

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Is Anger Poisoning Your Life?

  • Anger and fatigue

  • Anger has an immediate effect on blood pressure

  • What’s your risk for heart attack?

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How At Risk for Heart Attack are YOU?

  • Have you smoked cigarettes in the last 30 days?

  • Do you have 2+ alcohol at one sitting?

  • Has a doctor told you that you have high blood pressure?

  • Are you being treated for high blood pressure?

  • Has a doctor told you that you have high cholesterol?

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  • Are you currently being treated for high cholesterol?

  • Do you consider yourself overweight?

  • Do you consider yourself obese?

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The Impact of Anger

  • On our health

  • On our career

  • On our relationships

  • On our marriage

  • On the health of people around us

  • On the self-esteem of the people around us

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  • What can you control?

  • Whose problem is it anyway?

  • Don’t sweat the small stuff.

  • Move with the cheese

  • Use good communication skills

  • It’s OK to give yourself permission to put yourself first

  • Create a balance

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Maintaining Daily Balance

  • Take time for your health

  • Give your family quality time

  • Stay within your financial budget

  • Enjoy a quality social life

  • Stay current with new developments at work

  • Enjoy your spiritual area

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Help Yourself to Balance

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  • Clarify your values

  • Make a list

  • Set your own rules for balance

  • Use transition time wisely

  • Do one thing at a time

  • Volunteer

  • Pay attention to now

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Stress Reduction vs. Stress Management

  • Stress reduction-eliminates the source of stress by taking action and making changes.

  • Stress management-involves coping, reinterpreting, reframing, and cognitive restructuring.

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  • To alter our perception and response to our stressors (the C & X factors)

  • To alter our lifestyle to be more stress resistant (build our B factor)

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A Word of Caution

  • “Denial is one of the best-developed coping mechanisms in healthcare workers, particularly in physicians and nurses.”

  • Overcoming Stress in Medical and Nursing Practice, (Quote from Marshall McLuhan-Communications theorist)

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Compassion Fatigue

  • CF is secondary post-traumatic stress

  • Common in helping professions and first responder professions

  • Same symptoms, without the primary trauma

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  • You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge

  • Try to link thinking-feeling-behaving

  • Use the Event log

  • If it is a long-standing issue, get help and deal with it

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Eating and Coping

  • According to one study, 75% of overeating is caused by EMOTIONS

    • Cortisol cravings-stress related (salt & sugar)

    • Social eating –bring on the HFS

    • Nervous eating – crave the crunch

    • Childhood habits

    • Stuffing emotions – people who can’t deal with their emotions

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How can I de-stress?

  • Relaxation techniques

  • Problem solving skills

  • Communication skills

  • Know your perception

  • Cognitive reframes

  • Self-care tools

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Relaxation Techniques

  • Breathing

  • Muscle relaxation

  • Yoga

  • Relaxation tape

  • Pelvic floor exercise

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Problem Solving

  • The main question to ask is:

  • Whose problem is it?

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If it’s not your problem

  • And you’re making it your problem…

    • Someone else isn’t being responsible

    • What message are we sending if we take on someone else’s problem?

    • Be careful of being too controlling

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If it is Your Problem

  • Use the 8-step problem-solving guide

  • Sometimes you just have to accept the issue

  • Use resources, i.e., AA, NAMI, Grief groups

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Use Effective Communication Skills

  • “CUS” messages – good for the workplace

    • I am concerned because________________

    • I am uncomfortable because_____________

    • This is a safety issue because ____________

  • “I-Messages”

    • I feel _____________________

    • When you __________________

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  • Is it true that perception is reality?

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  • If you can’t change the situation, you must change the way you PERCEIVE the situation.

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What Influences Perception?

  • Family of origin

  • Place in the family

  • Peer group

  • Culture and heritage

  • Work

  • Clubs and organizations

  • Place in history

  • Neighborhoods

  • Values and belief systems

  • Religion and spirutality

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  • Other people’s actions

  • We interpret other people’s actions by how they impact us

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Cognitive Reframes

  • Self-Talk

  • We all talk to ourselves

  • How do you talk to yourself?

  • How do you talk to others?

  • Negative v. positive thinkers

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  • Self-esteem is the relationship you have with yourself.

  • “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

    Eleanor Roosevelt.

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Our Thoughts

  • How we think impacts how we feel

  • If we think everything’s a big deal

  • If we think things need to be perfect

  • If we think we need to be in charge or dominate others

  • If we think people should be on time

  • If we have a hard time saying what’s on our mind

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  • If we think everything is an irritant

  • If we judge others

  • If we think someone has to be at fault


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How to Reframe Your Thinking

  • Keep an event log

  • What’s the event (stressor)

  • What are your thoughts

  • What are your emotions

  • What is your behavior

  • What is the outcome

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Self-Care Tools

  • Set limits

  • Healthy life style-nutrition, sleep, exercise

  • Pros v. cons list

  • Short-term and long-term goals

  • Say no, have real expectations

  • Keep balance in focus

  • Vary work and play

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