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Your Relationships

Your Relationships. Ms. Perez. Bell ringer. Define the word relationship. What is the most important relationship in your life right now? Why do you value that relationship?. Relationships. Interaction between two people who are a part of each other’s lives

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Your Relationships

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  1. Your Relationships Ms. Perez

  2. Bell ringer • Define the word relationship. What is the most important relationship in your life right now? Why do you value that relationship?

  3. Relationships • Interaction between two people who are a part of each other’s lives • At your table, on the construction sheet of paper, write down every relationship you are in. When you are finished come tape the piece of paper of the white board

  4. Of these relationships…. • Which is easiest to get a long with? Why? • Which is the hardest to get along with? Why? • Which relationship provides you with the greatest comfort? Why? • Which relationships provides you with the most hurt? Why?? • Do you have better relationships with males or females? Why?

  5. Read pages 57-59 • When reading respond to the following questions on your? bell ringer. • The book states that ,”people who have negative or damaging relationships with their family have more difficulty learning to form good relationships with other.” Do you agree? Why or why not? • What qualities make a good friendship in your opinion • Do you think females be friends with males and males with females without any romantic feelings or physical attraction? • After reading the passage, find a partner and summarize the top 3 words that describe a good friend. When finished, type those three words into wordle.

  6. Good friendships… How do you select your friends?

  7. Communication & Self-Disclosure • The process of revealing significant and private information about yourself • How to decide if you can trust someone • Are they important to you? • Can you trust them? • Does your self-disclosure serve a purpose? • Has anyone ever shared something with you that made you feel closer to them? • Have you ever shared something with someone you wished you could take back?

  8. Bell ringer • What does the quote below mean in terms of communication? • “Two monologues do not make a dialogue.” • Jeff Daly

  9. Communication • Gender pre-test • Put two fingers in the air if your answer is true • Put one finger in the air if your answer is false • Boys vs. girls • How do boys communicate? • Boys what is one thing you wish girls knew? • How do girls communicate? • Girls what is one thing you wish boys knew? • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXikshiDqVs&NR=1&feature=fvwp

  10. Venn Diagram • Read “6 Ways Men and Women Communicate Differently” and create a venn diagram

  11. Types of dating • Group dating-Many couples hanging out together • Casual dating-seeing one person but dating others • Steady dating (facebook official)-Seeing only one person and are committed to them • Engagement-period between dating and marriage • Marriage-emotional and legal commitment

  12. What makes a good dating relationship?

  13. Are those verbs similar to those that make a good friendship?

  14. Homework • Find an appropriate song lyric or quote that describes your ideas about love or an ideal relationship. Give me a one paragraph summary describing why this quote sticks out to you. • 1. Please list the quote, artist, song, movie, and or person who said it • 2. Write a paragraph summary about why this quote expresses your feelings on love/an ideal relationship I am the only one who will be reading these, and will not ask you to share them with the class

  15. Bell ringer • Think of the media-popular books, movies, songs. What ideas do they give you of a healthy relationship? For example, do they talk about violence, trust, respect, etc?

  16. Quality romantic relationships • What do you think makes a quality romantic relationship?

  17. Good romantic relationships are based on • Attraction • Communication • Honesty and trust • Love and intimacy

  18. Stages of dating • Attraction • Uncertainty • Exclusivity • Intimacy • Engagement

  19. Intimacy • Closeness between two people that does not compromise wither person’s sense of identity • Self-disclosure-people are free to communicate thoughts and feelings honestly and openly with each other • Does not mean always mean physical interactions • No created by sexual relationships

  20. Engagement and Marriage • Engagement-period between dating and marriage • Marriage-Emotional and legal commitment two people make to each other

  21. What are signs of a bad relationship?

  22. Danger signs in dating • Dishonesty • Too much emphasis on sexual relationships • Withdrawing from other relationships • Disrespect • Possessiveness • Fighting • Abuse • Violence

  23. Abusive relationships in the media • The Twilight Effect • http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/psychologist-the-movies/201111/relationship-violence-in-twilight

  24. Ending a dating relationship • What are reasons to end a dating relationship?

  25. Ending a relationship • Happens for a variety of reasons • If you initiate, communicate honestly • Painful for both people

  26. After the break up • Denial • Hurt • Anger • Acceptance

  27. Find a partner • Each partner come grab a question, discuss this question with your partner • When the bell rings, people with questions find a new partner that does not have a question and continue on

  28. Bell ringer • What does this quote mean in terms of love and relationships • “You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they're not.” Jodi Picoult

  29. Today • ¾ of a page to a page free-write on “My Ideal Partner” • Love vs. Infatuation

  30. Love is a strong sense of affection and connection to at

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