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Eph . 5:22-24; 1 Pet. 3:1-6

Week 16. Wives A Wife’s Role in Marriage. Eph . 5:22-24; 1 Pet. 3:1-6. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay. Biblical Counseling Basics 2012 - 2013. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #2 NOVEMBER / JANUARY 2013 (allowing for holidays). 11/14/2012 – Idols of the Heart

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Eph . 5:22-24; 1 Pet. 3:1-6

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  1. Week 16 Wives A Wife’s Role in Marriage Eph. 5:22-24; 1 Pet. 3:1-6

  2. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay Biblical Counseling Basics2012 - 2013

  3. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #2 NOVEMBER / JANUARY 2013 (allowing for holidays) • 11/14/2012 – Idols of the Heart • 11/28/2012 – Video Example of Counseling • 12/05/2012 – Counseling Video Discussion • 12/12/2012 – Video Example of Counseling 2 • 12/19/2012 – Counseling Video Discussion 2 • 01/09/2012 – The Purpose for Marriage • 01/16/2012 - The Role of the Husband • 01/30/2012 – The Role of the Wife

  4. Ephesians 5:22-24 22 - Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 - For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 - Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands Wives

  5. 1 Peter 3:1-6 1 - Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 - While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 - Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; Wives

  6. 1 Peter 3:1-6 4 - But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 - For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 - Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. Wives

  7. Week 16 A Wife’s Role in Marriage Focus of this Session Goal: A wife understanding her role and learning to be joyful with it because of her trust in God. For a wife to be joyful, she must be God's kind of woman. Wives

  8. Week 16 Wives A Wife’s Role in Marriage Eph. 5:22-24; 1 Pet. 3:1-6

  9. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage Three Words that Describe The Wife’s Role Submission Fitting Helper Reverence Wives

  10. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • The history of mankind's response to submission • Started with SatanIsaiah 14:13 Wives

  11. Isaiah 14: 13 For thou hast said in thine heart, I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God: I will sit also upon the mount of the congregation, in the sides of the north: Wives

  12. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • The history of mankind's response to submission • Started with Satan • Continued in the Gardenof EdenGenesis 3:5 Wives

  13. Genesis 3:5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. Wives

  14. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • The history of mankind's response to submission • Started with Satan • Continued in the Garden of Eden • Extended to allMankindIsaiah 53:6; Romans 3:10-18 Wives

  15. Isaiah 53:6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all. Wives

  16. Romans 3:10-18 10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: 11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God. 12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one. 13 Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips: Wives

  17. Romans 3:10-18 14 Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness: 15 Their feet are swift to shed blood: 16 Destruction and misery are in their ways: 17 And the way of peace have they not known: 18 There is no fear of God before their eyes. Wives

  18. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • The history of mankind's response to submission • Intensified in the LastDays2 Timothy 3:1-22 Peter 2:191 Peter 2:21-23 Wives

  19. 2 Timothy 3:1-2 1 - This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 - For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Wives

  20. 2 Peter 2:19 While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage. Wives

  21. 1 Peter 2:21-23 21 - For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps: 22 - Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth: 23 - Who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously: Wives

  22. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • The history of mankind's response to submission • Intensified in the Last Days • As a result, submission is misrepresented and misunderstood. • John 8:34; Romans 6:16; 1 Cor. 7:21-23 Wives

  23. John 8:34 Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. Wives

  24. Romans 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness? Wives

  25. 1 Corinthains7:21-23 21 - Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. 22 - For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant. 23 - Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. Wives

  26. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife is InferiorPhilippians 2:5-91 Peter 3:7Galatians 3:28 Wives

  27. Philippians 2:5-9 5 - Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: 6 - Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: 7 - But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: 8 - And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. Wives

  28. 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Wives

  29. Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus. Wives

  30. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife is Inferior • That the husband is InfallibleRomans 13:11 Peter 2:13-23 Wives

  31. Romans 13:1 Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. Wives

  32. 1 Peter 2:13-14 (and on to 23) 13 - Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; 14 - Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well. Wives

  33. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife is Inferior • That the husband is Infallible God who sets up authority is the only one who never makes a mistake Wives

  34. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife cannot think and should not speakEphesians 4:15,16,252 Corinthians 5:10 Wives

  35. Ephesians 4:15,16,25 15 - But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ: 16 - From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love. […] 25 - Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another. Wives

  36. 2 Corinthians 5:10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad. Wives

  37. Tim Turner’s pre-marital counseling experience Tim: “It is false to think the wife should not speak.” Groom to be: “I am not going to have a woman who differs with me” Tim (thinking): Maybe I wasn’t clear – teaches again Groom to be:“I am not going to have a woman who differs with me” Tim (thinking): This could be trouble, let me carefully show the principle straight from scripture. Taught again. Groom to be (Pounds on desk): “I am not going to have a woman who differs with me” Tim (to bride to be): You’ve got a decision to make. Former bride to be: “I don’t have a decision to make. I’ve already made it. This wedding is off.”

  38. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife cannot think and should not speak • That the wife has no influence 1 Peter 3:1-2 Wives

  39. 1 Peter 3:1-2 1 - Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 - While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Wives

  40. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Wrong ideas about submission • That the wife cannot think and should not speak • That the wife has no influence • Manipulation is not acceptable – Genesis 27 (Rebekah) • A godly lifestyle is the greatest influence. 1 Samuel 1-3; 2 Timothy 1:5 Wives

  41. 1 Samuel 1-3 (1:11) And she (Hannah) vowed a vow, and said, O LORD of hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the LORD all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head. Wives

  42. 2 Timothy 1:5 When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also. Wives

  43. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission Biblical teachings about submission – God’s Plan for function and order Wives

  44. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Biblical teachings about submission • General Truth: • A military term to influence“arrange yourself in rank under” (an act of will)(some women say, “I can’t)1 Peter 5:5-6 Wives

  45. 1 Peter 5:5-6 5 - Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. 6 - Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Wives

  46. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Biblical teachings about submission • General Truth: • A military term to influence“arrange yourself in rank under” (an act of will) • A way of life for allBelievers • 1 Peter 2:13-23; Ephesians 5:21 Wives

  47. 1 Peter 2:13-14 (and on to 23) 13 - Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; 14 - Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well. Wives

  48. Ephesians 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives

  49. Week 16 A Wife's Role in Marriage I. Submission • Biblical teachings about submission • General Truth: • An attitude toward GodRomans 13:1-2Ephesians 5:22 Wives

  50. Romans 13:1-2 1 - Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. 2 - Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation. Wives

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